for the past 3 hours i was in a conflict with a girl that was going to take her life because i was not interested in her now it took me and 5 other friends to calm her down i felt bad but i wasnt interested in her can i help it? no im sorry but this has happened before and honestly i hate being put in that position it sucks cuz you dont want someone to end their life over you.

i would just like to say this if you male or female put someone in this kind of position think of what your doing not only your ending your life but your putting a burden on the other persons back for the rest of his or her life.

thanks everyone

I was in a similar position not long ago, some guy got caught playing me and another girl and I broke it off with him, so that night he claimed to have taken so many pills. I honestly don't believe when I hear stuff like that. Maybe I am cruel, but most of the time it is just a cry for attention.

I broke up with my girlfriend of two years (whom I was living with) because I simply wasn't happy anymore. Not as dramatic, but my point is you can't throw your life away to make other people happy :/

OMG that is so selfish of her!! I personally do not think that anyone male or female is worth the trouble of ending your own life!! I think of it this way if the person does not want to be with me or is not interested in me then f*ck em there are other fish in the sea!! I value my life and my son's life way to much to let a man drive me to do something like this. She has issues dude and obviously there were reasons why you were not interested in her and good think cause she sounds like she has a seriouse mental and emotional problem!! I feel bad for her cause I have been in a situation like this but I grew up and looked myself in the mirror and got enough strength to get over it and move on....no one is worth this kind of pain and it is totally unfair of her to attempt to put this kind of burden on you!!

if she was going to do it she would be dead...no one would have known

OK,,dude, NO ONE CAN MAKE ANOTHER END THEIR LIFE!!!
THAT PERSON is the ONLY one who can choose to DO THAT..
THEY can simply TRY to point a finger at you, but YOU can't stop them, nor help THEM,if THAT is what THEY trully seek to do.

So to TRY and make YOU feel their guilt is to tell them its their doing and NOT YOURS!

Many use that as a means to cause change in another, and SOME are REAL with it, BUT THEY ARE NOT HERE NO MORE.
AND YOU CAN'T STOP THEM FROM LEAVING!!

I knew a 14 year old dude, My son's best friend.
He told his girlfriend that broke up with him. That if SHE didn't go back with him he would kill him self.
She said NO, with-in minutes,,,,,,,,,
He then took HIS hand gun and went out back and blew his brains out. THE END!
She couldn't stop him and he told no one else about his thoughts.
Did she kill him?
NO,,HE KILLED HIM!
He just needed to fine someone to blame so HE COULD DO IT!

Lifes many issue's of youth and thoughts and LIVING, or dying.
Someone close to him should have noticed he was in pain? But who really knows the answers to THEIR why's or reason's..

Arrrrrgh... Holy Drama Queen Batman...

Very nice of you to play right into her game...very kewl.

Look, if she's psychoctic enough to wanna' nix herself...let her go. The 'Gene Pool' needs a good cleaning anyway...

there is absolutely noone out there worth ending my life over. Rejection is never pleasant but I realize that life will go on and it will get better.
If she really wanted to do it she would be dead. Sounds like she got the attention she was seeking. Although my hats off to you for doing the right thing and trying to calm her down and get her to realize suicide isn't the right answer. Good to see you stuck to how you truely felt and didn't continue the relationship with her.
If she does take her life you need to remember it was her choice to do end it.
suicide: permanent solution to a temporary problem.

People who threaten to kill themselves or bring harm to others over a non-concentual break-up have no business being in a relationship in the first place. Obviously, they have some deep-seeded issues only a really reputable psychiatrist can assist with. They are too vulnerable to handle the ups and downs of relationships until they get their heads straight.

I agree

Couple years back a coworker was involved with someone like that...she kept calling him at work saying she was gonna do herself in.....I finally called her on it and told her to go ahead an do it,that I was gonna send 911 over right away and if she wasn't dead she could explain herself to them.