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Topic: advice needed
welshboy's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:49 AM
hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone.

ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person frown

ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does



i was just wondering what you think.

would you date somone like me?:smile:


Ted14621's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:51 AM
Not everyone gets jealous.noway

gemini_71's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:51 AM

hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone.

ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person frown

ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does



i was just wondering what you think.

would you date somone like me?:smile:




SURE

welshboy's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:51 AM

Not everyone gets jealous.noway


really? so it just me then is it?

is that my problem?

sweetjeep's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:51 AM
depending on your degree of jealousy and if you act on all of those feelings..

recentfree's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:51 AM
nope not datin youlaugh laugh laugh laugh

sweetjeep's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:52 AM


hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone.

ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person frown

ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does



i was just wondering what you think.

would you date somone like me?:smile:




SURE

laugh laugh

Ted14621's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:52 AM


Not everyone gets jealous.noway


really? so it just me then is it?

is that my problem?

Could be. No one like a jealous rage.explode

sweetjeep's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:53 AM

nope not datin youlaugh laugh laugh laugh

ohhh sad day brokenheart frown

Sharon31216's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:53 AM


hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone.

ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person frown

ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does



i was just wondering what you think.

would you date somone like me?:smile:




SURE




laugh laugh laugh

Adrian_a's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:53 AM
Hey there!

Honestly you have to build your relationship with trust and to do that you need to communicate with each other. Those are the two most important things in a relationship. Once you trust her then you dont have to worry about if she is going to cheat. Another thing you might want to try is before you get into a relationship maybe ask God if he wants you to get with this person. He will let you know...

welshboy's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:54 AM
Edited by welshboy on Sun 02/03/08 10:55 AM

depending on your degree of jealousy and if you act on all of those feelings..


ill admit i have acted cos of being jealous but then if i said why i was jealous you might understand but its not fair to talk about somone like that on the threads.

i havnt got a bad bone in my body and the only reason i can think of is cos i love them too much and let it get the better of mefrown

this is why i asked cos if its me that has a problem then i want to stop it all so i can be a normal guy when im with somone

8607's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:55 AM
You have to have trust, I had that problem with my ex.

no photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:55 AM
<<<~~~~~doesn't do jealousy!!!noway noway noway

welshboy's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:56 AM
i dotrust them with all my heart but its hard to explain cos i dont want to say everything that happened in the threads.

i know i shouldnt have got so jealous but its hard somtimes when you cant even say your with that person in the threads

Sassier2u's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:57 AM

Not everyone gets jealous.noway
That is so very true if you love them and trust them who needs to be jealous? I do not get jealous Sorry I have not need for it in my life.

welshboy's photo
Sun 02/03/08 10:59 AM
thank you all for your replies, i can see now its all my faultfrown frown

when its your first love its probably harder to over come it, i trusted her with everything i just wish i could explain it better


thanks again all

Sassier2u's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:00 AM


hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone.

ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person frown

ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does



i was just wondering what you think.

would you date somone like me?:smile:




SURE
Thid is why everyone thinks you are gay Stop it laugh :wink: laugh

sweetjeep's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:01 AM


depending on your degree of jealousy and if you act on all of those feelings..


ill admit i have acted cos of being jealous but then if i said why i was jealous you might understand but its not fair to talk about somone like that on the threads.

i havnt got a bad bone in my body and the only reason i can think of is cos i love them too much and let it get the better of mefrown

this is why i asked cos if its me that has a problem then i want to stop it all so i can be a normal guy when im with somone

yes, you are correct, and you are being very respectful of this person, which is great..
but it sounds to me like the relationship was gone, when the trust left. That is a huge part of a relationship, and I am not sure it can come back once its gone..the jury is still out on that.

sweetjeep's photo
Sun 02/03/08 11:02 AM



hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone.

ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person frown

ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does



i was just wondering what you think.

would you date somone like me?:smile:




SURE
Thid is why everyone thinks you are gay Stop it laugh :wink: laugh

Is she telling you that you bring this on yourself?? laugh laugh

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