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Topic: need a little help!!
Zewi's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:42 AM
I'm a little shy, when it comes to approaching women, But I do get dates from women approaching me.
What do women want to here when I guy approaches them?
I just don’t know what to say—I want to be different, I don’t want to say what all man say... So all the women out here, how would a guy get your attention? happy


KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:43 AM
Women want compliments and Attention, and a occassional pair of shoes

Zewi's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:43 AM

Women want compliments and Attention, and a occassional pair of shoes


lol!!!!laugh laugh laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:44 AM

Women want compliments and Attention, and a occassional pair of shoes
drinker

madamx7316's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:45 AM
be you!!! never change who you are or put on false heirs to impress anyone. speak from the heart

itsmetina's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:49 AM
just be honest say hello i'd like to get to know you are u free to go on a date

curios789's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:51 AM
Don't say FYI in front of every sentence. Just ask thatonegirl laugh laugh

curios789's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:51 AM
Edited by curios789 on Sat 02/09/08 10:52 AM
Fast finger. Double Post.

Nervesgone's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:56 AM

be you!!! never change who you are or put on false heirs to impress anyone. speak from the heart



For instance:
A woman walks up and says hi, you say hi back. Unless she carries a conversation, what does one say? What would interest you?drinker You want a drink??laugh

sasfire75's photo
Sat 02/09/08 10:57 AM
Edited by sasfire75 on Sat 02/09/08 10:59 AM

I'm a little shy, when it comes to approaching women, But I do get dates from women approaching me.
What do women want to here when I guy approaches them?
I just don’t know what to say—I want to be different, I don’t want to say what all man say... So all the women out here, how would a guy get your attention? happy


Be yourself and be honest with everything you say or promise....pay us with compliments to let us know that you appreciate us with respect...Don't try to be someone your not...go with the flow...go with what ever your heart or gut tells you to say....I know that is hard because I am shy myself but sometimes I can over rule the shyness and go after what I want....I am long winded sometimes so I will leave you with this...What does your heart or gut tell you to say to a woman that you want to ask out?

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Sat 02/09/08 11:00 AM
make her laugh ... gets me every time

bad_girl's photo
Sat 02/09/08 11:04 AM
Just be yourself

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Sat 02/09/08 11:08 AM

make her laugh ... gets me every time


Show her a good time. Make her laugh! Have fun! Aren't we all looking for fun? Nobody wants to hang out with someone dull and "appropriate" Do you?

ellgee1976's photo
Sat 02/09/08 11:12 AM
amen...make her laugh

laughter is the best medicine for anything...even dating lol

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Sat 02/09/08 11:14 AM
Hey!! I heard there were SHOES!!!love here!!!laugh laugh laugh

sasfire75's photo
Sat 02/09/08 11:22 AM

Hey!! I heard there were SHOES!!!love here!!!laugh laugh laugh
LOL Ok Zewi not all women want shoes LOL But a rose when you pic her up would be nice too!

TheRedHead's photo
Sat 02/09/08 04:27 PM

I'm a little shy, when it comes to approaching women, But I do get dates from women approaching me.
What do women want to here when I guy approaches them?
I just don’t know what to say—I want to be different, I don’t want to say what all man say... So all the women out here, how would a guy get your attention? happy




If you're approaching me for the first time, the best way to break the ice is to make me feel comfortable. The best way to do that is to make me laugh.

blades26's photo
Sat 02/09/08 05:03 PM




The best way to do that is to make me laugh.


lol all the girls are funny. not every guy is that charismatic..if that were the case we werent be here laugh

just be yourself and if things go well so be it...if they dont...at least u tried and thats more than anyone could say :tongue:

BlueskyJ's photo
Sat 02/09/08 05:12 PM
1. I have found that if you can find out anything about that person, what they like to eat or do or anything you can notice about that person....use that as a starting point to create conversation....
2. then ask her open ended questions....that will get her talking about herself....
3. then, give lots of eye contact so she knows you're really interested
4. show that you are a good listener by responding to some of the things she tells you.
5. and if you are feeling brave try a little flirting....if you can get her to laugh, even at something dumb your on your way...
6. reach out & touch her arm at some point, it creates physical contact & her reaction will tell you if she is interested...
*hope this helps

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Sat 02/09/08 06:48 PM
u had me at hello !!!!

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