Topic: WAY beyond hot water here
shadow_princess's photo
Sun 02/10/08 03:41 PM
ugh leave it to me to get myself into a mess lol you guys im so sad tonight...as most of u know i FINALLY got out of my moms things were beyond sort of hellish really i dont want to go into details but yea while i was there my best friend Joe was my biggest source of comfort besides a few good friends here he asked me out several times and much to my dismay i had to say no because well the state i was in was rather pathetic and embarrassing so i never let my true feelings show finally after the 4th time of forcing myself to reject him he stopped asking and he disappeared for a long while it wasnt until then did i realize just how much he meant to me it was my intention to tell him everything as soon as i got out of my moms and finally the opportunity presented itself i was sooo happy but i discovered he now has a girlfried and for the first time i was jealous of another girl i wanted nothing more than to be his valentine because of my feelings and because by his own admission she doesnt treat him right so pretty much im in love with my best friend and i was forced to turn him down before ugh sorry had to vent im SO sad :(

lonelyshorty's photo
Sun 02/10/08 03:42 PM
I'm so sorry hun heres a virtual *HUG*

shadow_princess's photo
Sun 02/10/08 03:44 PM
thanks

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Sun 02/10/08 03:44 PM
Edited by MsTeddyBear2u on Sun 02/10/08 03:45 PM
flowerforyou (((Shadow_princess)))

WB was wondering about you!

Thats sad... perhaps in time things will change.
You might want to tell him how you feel anyway-you never know!

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Sun 02/10/08 03:45 PM
(((((((((Nicki)))))))))))))

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PATSFAN's photo
Sun 02/10/08 03:45 PM
Hmmm, Thats a tough one, give it time, see what happens, sorry to hear thatflowerforyou

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Sun 02/10/08 03:48 PM

flowerforyou (((Shadow_princess)))

WB was wondering about you!

Thats sad... perhaps in time things will change.
You might want to tell him how you feel anyway-you never know!


it wouldnt be wrong to still tell him?

lilith401's photo
Sun 02/10/08 03:56 PM

it wouldnt be wrong to still tell him?


He can do whatever he chooses with the information. It would not be wrong to let him decide how he feels. You never know!flowerforyou

shadow_princess's photo
Sun 02/10/08 03:58 PM
ty guys sooo much your the best

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Sun 02/10/08 04:00 PM
If the other girl is treating him badly, why not tell him your feelings. I wish you lots of Luck. flowerforyou

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Sun 02/10/08 04:05 PM


flowerforyou (((Shadow_princess)))

WB was wondering about you!

Thats sad... perhaps in time things will change.
You might want to tell him how you feel anyway-you never know!


it wouldnt be wrong to still tell him?


Better to tell him now- than not at all...
before he gets real seriouse about this girl.
He may say sorry- but I'm with so and so though.
If you don't tell him- you will have to live with that inside you all the time. Can you do that? flowerforyou

shadow_princess's photo
Sun 02/10/08 04:09 PM
no teddy i dont think i could because i cry about it as it is so im gonna say something to him

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Sun 02/10/08 04:11 PM
You have to tell him.flowerforyou

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Sun 02/10/08 04:13 PM

ugh leave it to me to get myself into a mess lol you guys im so sad tonight...as most of u know i FINALLY got out of my moms things were beyond sort of hellish really i dont want to go into details but yea while i was there my best friend Joe was my biggest source of comfort besides a few good friends here he asked me out several times and much to my dismay i had to say no because well the state i was in was rather pathetic and embarrassing so i never let my true feelings show finally after the 4th time of forcing myself to reject him he stopped asking and he disappeared for a long while it wasnt until then did i realize just how much he meant to me it was my intention to tell him everything as soon as i got out of my moms and finally the opportunity presented itself i was sooo happy but i discovered he now has a girlfried and for the first time i was jealous of another girl i wanted nothing more than to be his valentine because of my feelings and because by his own admission she doesnt treat him right so pretty much im in love with my best friend and i was forced to turn him down before ugh sorry had to vent im SO sad :(



sux babe .. sorry flowerforyou

but I agree I'd sure put my feelings out there if you care ... what have you go to lose? You don't have him now do ya?glasses

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Sun 02/10/08 04:15 PM
I'm a bit confused. Why couldn't you tell him how you felt when he was asking you out? I can understand there were reasons you couldn't go out with him. But not tell him how you feel? Hmmm

Anyway, like the others have said, tell him now. You've got nothing to loose and lots to gain. Good luck.

shadow_princess's photo
Sun 02/10/08 04:16 PM
nope i sure dont have him but i wish more than anything i did

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Sun 02/10/08 04:17 PM
i have to agree, tell him. you'll always regret it if you don't and putting it out there lets him decide, relinquishes you from that place of control. a hard place to put oneself but needful i would say...

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Sun 02/10/08 04:21 PM
Good for you !!!

Sometimes we really have to say how we feel!

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