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Topic: Why do some actually excuse cheating?
Jim519's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:04 AM
It's not okay to cheat! I have seen people say, what would you do if I cheated. Are you seeking approval?...You as% will be out the door, simple as that....

If you feel the need to be with someone else, do the RIGHT thing, seperate from them first. It may hurt them, but it wont hurt as bad if you cheated on them..

Sorry to any cheaters that may read this, but you get everything you deserve....

emlo's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:06 AM
y bother being in a relashionship if ya gonna cheat is what i say

adi2d30's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:08 AM
because love makes you believe that forgiving is all there is. And people that are willing to do anything to save a failing marriage.devil

emlo's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:11 AM
i woildnt want to shear my love with any one lol if i aint anoth for them well im not gonna be second best eather

KennethP5206's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:13 AM
If your going to cheat then let them or me know up front. Otherwise leave us that don't stray alone.
I hate cheaters, and if that happens to be you, then I hope you find someone that you really fall for, and I hope they rip your heart out.

no photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:14 AM

i woildnt want to shear my love with any one lol if i aint anoth for them well im not gonna be second best eather


Where did you learn to spell?

Jim519's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:15 AM

because love makes you believe that forgiving is all there is. And people that are willing to do anything to save a failing marriage.devil


I can respect attempting to save a marriage. But, if it were "love" or true love as you say, the thoughts of cheating, or the actual act of it occuring shouldnt have happended if love were in the picture.

Jim519's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:16 AM

If your going to cheat then let them or me know up front. Otherwise leave us that don't stray alone.
I hate cheaters, and if that happens to be you, then I hope you find someone that you really fall for, and I hope they rip your heart out.


Cheers to that !! drinker

KennethP5206's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:16 AM


because love makes you believe that forgiving is all there is. And people that are willing to do anything to save a failing marriage.devil


I can respect attempting to save a marriage. But, if it were "love" or true love as you say, the thoughts of cheating, or the actual act of it occuring shouldnt have happended if love were in the picture.


I agree

jimd_mp's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:22 AM
Edited by jimd_mp on Sun 02/10/08 05:26 AM
Why do some actually excuse cheating?

Insecurity low self esteem just to name a couple of reasons. But there is more than 1 form of cheating. Most people just think of cheating as seeing having a relationship/sex with another person other than your significant other. But another form of cheating is taking your significant other for granted,not pay enough attention to his/her needs and lack of communication or being so wrapped up in something else and ignoring them.
So some forms of cheating are forgivable but cheating with some one else in my opinion is never forgivable once the trust is gone you have nothing!

Jim519's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:22 AM


i woildnt want to shear my love with any one lol if i aint anoth for them well im not gonna be second best eather


Where did you learn to spell?



What does that have to do with Cheaters?

adi2d30's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:23 AM
Say that when you are one of those christians/ catholics that dont believe in divorce and make themselves get emotionally sick and hurt by keeping a dead marriage going. Marriage is just like a person once its dead its dead.

Jim519's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:25 AM

Say that when you are one of those christians/ catholics that dont believe in divorce and make themselves get emotionally sick and hurt by keeping a dead marriage going. Marriage is just like a person once its dead its dead.


I agree, once it's done it's done....Religion shouldnt interfere with that....

smuflicker's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:28 AM
thats why i'm devorced,she cheated on me.while i was working too full time jobs.

KennethP5206's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:28 AM

Say that when you are one of those christians/ catholics that dont believe in divorce and make themselves get emotionally sick and hurt by keeping a dead marriage going. Marriage is just like a person once its dead its dead.


I disagree, it can be revived unless there wasn't any love to begin with

no photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:30 AM
i cheat on my right hand
with my left hand.

smuflicker's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:31 AM

Say that when you are one of those christians/ catholics that dont believe in divorce and make themselves get emotionally sick and hurt by keeping a dead marriage going. Marriage is just like a person once its dead its dead.
that is the one thing that god lets you out of a marriage for is your spouse cheating on you

jimd_mp's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:32 AM
I disagree once the trust is gone it takes along time to rebuild it but its never the same. There will always be that nagging question in the back of your mind wondering are they cheating again!

smuflicker's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:40 AM

I disagree once the trust is gone it takes along time to rebuild it but its never the same. There will always be that nagging question in the back of your mind wondering are they cheating again!
I think you might not have understood what i said. To God the first time they cheat on you,you have the right to get a devorce, God would rather you try to stay together but that is the one thing that the bible says about it.

JER07's photo
Sun 02/10/08 05:50 AM
What about those that are completely in denial and use the clint way out...."I did not have sexual relations with that person"... I agree, once the trust is gone...not much left

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