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Topic: broken heart
Coolhead Joined Mon 01/22/07 Posts: 2525	Mon 02/11/08 08:21 AM
For me, it depends on the breakup. If it is that bad of a breakup, then I move on pretty quick. I mean really quick to get my mind off of her. I wouldn't want to see her with her new man and I would careless who she is dating. Sorry to sound rude but I move on fast.

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Mon 02/11/08 08:28 AM
how do people typically deal with losing a relationship with someone whom they thought they were in love and wanted to spend their life with? Also, how do you cope with seeing that person in a new relationship with someone else? I have been going through this very same thing! I am lucky that I have a job that I love to go to daily. They say time heals all wounds and I am still waiting, I am better, but not 100% yet. I am not sure I will ever be again.

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Mon 02/11/08 08:29 AM
how do people typically deal with losing a relationship with someone whom they thought they were in love and wanted to spend their life with? Also, how do you cope with seeing that person in a new relationship with someone else? 1. hang out with the ppl (friends,family) who truely love u 2.repeat over and over again...apparently this person saved my life.....from being in hell... 3 apparently wasn't ment to be... 4.think about you..... 5. Do things that you normally wouldn't do alone...try it u might like it.. 6. some days will really suck, other days won't... 7. Time......it will get better... 8.keep repeating this person just slipped into my shoes and in this relationship they were getting pretty dirty....and besides..they fit u better... 9.Depending on the cercomstances...their relationship maybe short.. 10.breath, and be happy, there are others out there that will love u for who u r.. Best of luck to u.... Z This is great, I will have to read this on a daily basis!!

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Mon 02/11/08 09:11 AM
how do people typically deal with losing a relationship with someone whom they thought they were in love and wanted to spend their life with? Also, how do you cope with seeing that person in a new relationship with someone else? 1. hang out with the ppl (friends,family) who truely love u 2.repeat over and over again...apparently this person saved my life.....from being in hell... 3 apparently wasn't ment to be... 4.think about you..... 5. Do things that you normally wouldn't do alone...try it u might like it.. 6. some days will really suck, other days won't... 7. Time......it will get better... 8.keep repeating this person just slipped into my shoes and in this relationship they were getting pretty dirty....and besides..they fit u better... 9.Depending on the cercomstances...their relationship maybe short.. 10.breath, and be happy, there are others out there that will love u for who u r.. Best of luck to u.... Z This is great, I will have to read this on a daily basis!! happy to to help...I have lots more...

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 02/11/08 09:38 AM
I think everybody has been through this at least once in there life. Seems there is some sort of "law" written (but where it is written is beyond me) that we humans must go through this kind of heartache. Men and women. We all experience it. Someone mentioned that you have to deal with it in your own way...once you find what that is. Me? When I got divorced I went on a rampage at first...and not a good one either. Nothing physical....just emotionally, I almost let myself go too far. It hurt like hell when she replaced me as quick as she did, but later on I figured out why. I chose to be alone during our seperation and divorce. She couldn't do that. She needed someone, and she already knew she wanted to be with this guy, so she just moved along faster than I did.....and I hated her for it at first. Now I could care less. She and I are friends, and all is well. But when I was going through all those emotions of dealing with the end of a marriage, and then seeing them together, you either let it kill you or make you stronger. Came close to killing me, but I am stronger for what happened. If you are a believer in God, and have faith, then that is certainly one way to go. I know I prayed alot during this time. But the main thing I had was my family, with whom I am close to. And my closest friends were there too. You just have to find the will to wake up every day and make it the best day you can. Find new things to do. I know I started to exercise more, picked up my writing more, got into other things as well. Keeping busy can help, but ultimately you have to find a way to deal with the hurt. Once you do, your life will be better.

Jamie82 Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 14951	Mon 02/11/08 09:40 AM
It's a part of life. It has made me who i am today and u have to take the good with the bad.

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Mon 02/11/08 09:42 AM
beer and doughnuts...if that doesnt work, then build a bridge, feel the pain, let go and move on.

tattooerclc Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 4	Tue 02/12/08 04:16 PM
time heals all wounds..it just takes time, the pain will pass. for some sooner that others. keep your chin up, find yourself and what makes you happy...

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Tue 02/12/08 04:19 PM
I just went through that and I am sorry we parted, it hurt, but like they say time does heal all wounds. And he already found someone else, so I am happy for him

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Tue 02/12/08 05:17 PM
how do people typically deal with losing a relationship with someone whom they thought they were in love and wanted to spend their life with? Also, how do you cope with seeing that person in a new relationship with someone else? 1. hang out with the ppl (friends,family) who truely love u 2.repeat over and over again...apparently this person saved my life.....from being in hell... 3 apparently wasn't ment to be... 4.think about you..... 5. Do things that you normally wouldn't do alone...try it u might like it.. 6. some days will really suck, other days won't... 7. Time......it will get better... 8.keep repeating this person just slipped into my shoes and in this relationship they were getting pretty dirty....and besides..they fit u better... 9.Depending on the cercomstances...their relationship maybe short.. 10.breath, and be happy, there are others out there that will love u for who u r.. Best of luck to u.... Z This is great, I will have to read this on a daily basis!! put it on ur frig.....can't miss it...

checkinout42 Joined Sun 08/05/07 Posts: 241	Tue 02/12/08 05:30 PM
It's true time does heal all wounds. Some you just remember more and it just pissed you off. But you do move on. It seems to make you put your guard up for a while. Cry, talk to friends, family, get back out there.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Tue 02/12/08 05:34 PM
I talked to close friends a lot during this time. I wrote letters and wripped them up and felt better. I found my pet cat to be a great comfort at the time. If you are at all spiritual faith is a great thing. It takes time to heal from a heartbreak. I've been there and feel for ya.