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Topic: after reading the post soft,curvy
robinlynn42's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:01 PM
it made me wonder if u truly believe that it is ok to accept people of every size and shape.i have seen from my list there is a vast variety. and being big myself all my life i remember the school years were hel. i was accepted by some in high school.
and now i am ready to find someone to spend major time with.and i want to be truly accepted.i know it has to come off.i hate the nightly shots of insulin,5 pills a day for type 2 diabetes.really watching what u eat,and making sure i get in exercise everyday.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :cry:

chevylover1965's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:02 PM
flowerforyou you will find some one ! flowerforyou

holland01's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:04 PM
theres someone out there for everyone. this is coming from a big guy himself

yvory's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:05 PM


i'm listenign to "If I don't have you" by Alicia Keys.

you should listen to the first part of the lyrics :)


you'll find that someone... just believe in yourself

Monosyllabic♥Girl's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:05 PM
Nobodys perfectflowerforyou Im sure NOT! I accept people for how they treat me.


I lost a lot of weight 56 pounds since september & quit smoking...Im always here to help!

I have to take shots every 12 hours too...not for diabetes, for my heart....but I know its a pain in the arse

mssilverfox's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:07 PM
I know how you feel Robin. I too, am type 2 and my weight has gone up and down all my life. When my husband was sick the stress was so bad I put on lots. I am now in a program at the gym and as much as I hate it , I go at least 3 x a wk and have lost over 40 lbs. Have some more to lose but I'm working on it and my sugar is much better. But I accept everyone as they are, you never know when you may be in that same position..Just try to enjoy your life and take care of yourself....flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

chevylover1965's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:08 PM
heck i lost 100 pound's and i feel great ! went from a size 46 to 38 i still need to lose some more ! but heck it's all how you feel about yourself !

vearylonely's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:08 PM
Hell i got a two yr old im getting older im a below the knee amputee (so i dont have a leg to stand on ) but itl b ok in time all things come together
Steve

holland01's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:09 PM
Edited by holland01 on Wed 02/13/08 11:10 PM

robinlynn42's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:10 PM
thank u all so much,the road has been way to long.and i can accept myself for all my faults and try and do something about it.flowerforyou flowerforyou :smile:

no photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:11 PM
Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Wed 02/13/08 11:13 PM
Well I can tell you as i live and how I raised my son.

You NEVER judge ANYONE by the color of thier skin, thier race, creed, religion...ANYTHING. You judge them by ONE THING ONLY...thier CHARACTER and WHO THEY ARE AS A PERSON! That will tell you who they are.

Now I can be friends with basically anyone, as long as they are good people, I couldn;t care less what they look like. I'm not some Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise myself dammit! noway :tongue: laugh

But now when you are looking for that special someone for romance in your life..well then the physical does matter, but its simply comes down to a person's personal preference.

Like I stated in the other thread. i don;t like too thick or too thin. I love SOFT, because i love to hold and cuddle. But some people, both men and women, have thier own personal preference.

but there is someone out there for everyone, because there are all types that like the other type. So just keep an eye out, you'll find someone who catches your eye..then don't be afraid to let them know you are interested. You may not get the response you are looking for, but thats ok, you found out. But other times, you may get even better response than what you were looking for. So there is hope, just don;t be afraid to take that swing! bigsmile drinker drinker flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:14 PM
Robin,
You have been my friend here for awhile and I do adore you. Enough said, Kev

foxebrownsuga's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:21 PM
true beauty glows through the flesh. let yr heart guide you and yr mind and body will follow. be big and beautiful love. the spirit is the essence of who you are. your body is just a tool.

foxebrownsuga's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:23 PM

it made me wonder if u truly believe that it is ok to accept people of every size and shape.i have seen from my list there is a vast variety. and being big myself all my life i remember the school years were hel. i was accepted by some in high school.
and now i am ready to find someone to spend major time with.and i want to be truly accepted.i know it has to come off.i hate the nightly shots of insulin,5 pills a day for type 2 diabetes.really watching what u eat,and making sure i get in exercise everyday.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :cry:

blessed be...love you like no other lover can

robinlynn42's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:24 PM
thank you again,i accept anyone since i have never seen a perfect
body in my lifetime.and plastic surgery to make ur body perfect is not a way to go.

Motownkid's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:26 PM
hey robin don't worry bout your size you are awsome and love you to pieces.. I used to worry bout my size too... Now don't really give a damn....

erowid1's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:26 PM
i still love areatha franklin!!!

foxebrownsuga's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:29 PM
ok girlies i dont think your getting it. you are perfect. dont look in the mirror 2 find your beauty. look within. everything that you are now is your perfect state of being. who you were was perfect then and who you will be will be perfect. grow, learn and be ever changing. you are a perfect being. tomorrow you will be even better :)

to blessed to be stressed

Motownkid's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:33 PM

ok girlies i dont think your getting it. you are perfect. dont look in the mirror 2 find your beauty. look within. everything that you are now is your perfect state of being. who you were was perfect then and who you will be will be perfect. grow, learn and be ever changing. you are a perfect being. tomorrow you will be even better :)

to blessed to be stressed


Hey I like this.... You are awsome... say hi to me my name is Eric... I have been friends with robin for a while now and I agree with you... She is a beautiful person all around...

foxebrownsuga's photo
Wed 02/13/08 11:35 PM
hello eric! good friends are hard to find. i hope that you are loved and deeply as you love.

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