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Topic: Scared to accept IM's...
juscheckinitout's photo
Fri 02/15/08 06:54 PM
It seems like every time I accept an incoming IM, assuming it's for an innocent chat, it turns out to be a scene out of some porn and no one gave me the script! What ever happened to getting to know someone and saving all that other stuff until you are actually in a relationship?noway laugh noway

Suzanne20's photo
Fri 02/15/08 06:55 PM
That's why I don't accept IMs

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 02/15/08 06:56 PM
I got 1 last night, I'm thinking of disabling it...

blonderockermom's photo
Fri 02/15/08 06:57 PM
that's why mine is disabled....

JoshH's photo
Fri 02/15/08 06:57 PM
I've only had one person try to IM me, and it was a guy trying to get me to do the same thing....which makes me uncomfortable because i'm not gay. I don't have a problem with gay people unless they try to.....um.....yeah, you get the idea...i'm not really on this site enough anymore to get the possibility of an IM

HMontana's photo
Fri 02/15/08 06:58 PM
Yup...disable that sicko-magnet toollaugh I learned quickly.

juscheckinitout's photo
Fri 02/15/08 06:58 PM
normally I don't accept them either, but I figured, it's only 8pm - the weird ones aren't out yet, are they???laugh laugh

no photo
Fri 02/15/08 06:59 PM
unfortunately , its not possible to control other people's thoughts and opinion especially those that we find offensive. however, you can delete them and don't give them the time of day with a response.

no photo
Fri 02/15/08 06:59 PM

normally I don't accept them either, but I figured, it's only 8pm - the weird ones aren't out yet, are they???laugh laugh
They r out all the time. Wecome to the nut farm!bigsmile

franshade's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:00 PM
I disabled them as soon as I got my first offer!!! lmao
laugh laugh laugh


FAK's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:01 PM
WOW....never had the problem...only IM'd one person here...she was cool and sweet....til about 2 months later and started...uhhh...dunno....was weird....but no freaky IM's....

no photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:03 PM

WOW....never had the problem...only IM'd one person here...she was cool and sweet....til about 2 months later and started...uhhh...dunno....was weird....but no freaky IM's....
same here but mine was with a guy!

hunter870's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:07 PM
I have only had 2 people IM me and both have been decant people to chat with while I been on here,geuss I have been lucky in that aspectdrinker

Totage's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:09 PM

It seems like every time I accept an incoming IM, assuming it's for an innocent chat, it turns out to be a scene out of some porn and no one gave me the script! What ever happened to getting to know someone and saving all that other stuff until you are actually in a relationship?noway laugh noway


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izzie's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:10 PM
i have my im filter turned to off...
saves time...
uugghh!!!!!!!!!
noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway noway

FAK's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:14 PM


WOW....never had the problem...only IM'd one person here...she was cool and sweet....til about 2 months later and started...uhhh...dunno....was weird....but no freaky IM's....
same here but mine was with a guy!


did yours end up stalking you too?grumble grumble

juscheckinitout's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:22 PM
I haven't had any stalkers yet...but I think I'm gonna disable mine as of nowlaugh laugh laugh laugh

Totage's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:35 PM
I only stalk mice and chipmunks.

juscheckinitout's photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:40 PM

I only stalk mice and chipmunks.
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh Thank God for that!

no photo
Fri 02/15/08 07:42 PM
That's creep-tastic. Perhaps not having a profile picture keeps them at bay?

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