Topic: Advice needed
adidas0068's photo
Sat 02/16/08 06:41 AM
Here's the situation:

There is a girl at a wholsalers that my company buys from. Not only is she absolutely gorgeous, but she has a great personality and we get along very well. She had some extra weight on her at one time, but even then I was attracted to her (basically her personality and values are more important than her looks). When I go to the wholesalers to drop things off, we usually end up talking for about 5-10 minutes, even though she is very busy. I like dealing with her because she gets things done, and is basically a no B.S. girl. Her work ethic and personality is the type of girl I go for.

Here's my question: I would like to ask her out on a date, maybe to dinner, but I'm not sure if I should since we buy from this company. Should I do it and see where things go, or just leave it alone? I feel we are mature enough that if it wasn't to work out, it wouldn't ruin our business relationship, but should I take that chance?

I am very picky about who I date, and from the conversations that we have had over about 6 years, I believe that she could be the one. I would like to take it to the next step to see if this is true, but don't want to ruin anything business wise.

When it comes to love, should I just go for it? Or am I being selfish, putting me ahead of my company?

CATBW56's photo
Sat 02/16/08 06:44 AM
what harm would there be to ask her out? she doesn't work with you directly....so I'd say go for it....good luck to you flowerforyou

Jim519's photo
Sat 02/16/08 06:44 AM
Ask her out!!!!!! You guys dont work directly with each other

And hopefully you two can be mature enough to seperate business/persoanl relations.

In what you describe it seems your both mature enough

Dont pass it up my friend! If you dont you will always wonder "what if?"

Urg04es's photo
Sat 02/16/08 06:45 AM
GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Jobs come and go......how aften do you get a chance at true love?
Good luck! flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 02/16/08 11:28 AM
Edited by shutterbug on Sat 02/16/08 11:29 AM
ASK HER!!! If you don't, you could be passing up "THE ONE!" *you've already put 6 yrs. into this relationship* noway She could be wondering what's taking you so long. :wink:
Good luck!

itsmetina's photo
Sat 02/16/08 11:29 AM
start off as friends invite her out