Topic: Why cant I find someone...
darkowl1's photo
Sat 02/16/08 07:30 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Sat 02/16/08 07:33 PM
listen to your intuition, and use it to weed out the bad, it really works, how many times has your intuition been right, and you haven't listened, but went ahead into a mess? this alone will give you the patience that you need, it's hard when you are in the thick of it to see the overall picture at the time, but things will become crystal clear when you step back and look.
remember, you have about 1000 years af combined knowledge on here, that is why we consult each other.

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Sat 02/16/08 07:33 PM
I guess sometimes I just wish I had what my parents had when they were young. They got married when they were both 18 and I was on the way. But it ended in a divorce when I was ten. And they are still like bestfriends, since they see each other two/three weekends out of every month.

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Sat 02/16/08 07:34 PM

I guess sometimes I just wish I had what my parents had when they were young. They got married when they were both 18 and I was on the way. But it ended in a divorce when I was ten. And they are still like bestfriends, since they see each other two/three weekends out of every month.
these are alot different times from back then......now you have balance a career and family

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Sat 02/16/08 07:35 PM


You are so young, date, go to college, & enjoy being young! You have the most beautiful eyes!

Why does everyone say I am to "young" to be in love argh. I do date..but bleh. I love my life and I am enjoying it. And thank you.


Sorry I know that's not what you want to hear. You will be my age (45) before you know it & you will be saying the same thing to young people. I was married at 19, seperated & a mother before I was 20 & divorced at 21. My daughter stayed single went to college & at 25 has her dream job & is dating a wonderful man. I am still trying to go to school & work in a boring job, making less than half what she does. I am sure she will be a better Mom than I was, when she does have kids.

Totage's photo
Sat 02/16/08 07:36 PM

I know I fall in love to fast. I dont ask for much from guys, just someone that will talk to me, love me for me, care for me and not cheat on me. I dont know if I try to love the guy back to much but it always seems that I do something wrong. And I'm sick of being alone. I want someone that will be with me forever, someday marry, and have a family with.


flowerforyou

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Sat 02/16/08 07:36 PM

Don't try to rush it, take your time -- when you try to hurry these things, that's when you make mistakes -- HUGE, ENORMOUS mistakes that stay with you for years and years, like some sort of mutated super-leech, sucking the blood out of you day and night, month after month, interfering with every single aspect of your life until you can't even enjoy Lucky Charms anymore.

OK, so that might have been a bit tangential.

But, really, there's no need to push it. Life is full of surprises and nutjobs. It pays to be careful.




LOL you summed it up nicely

thatonegirl05's photo
Sat 02/16/08 07:36 PM
I was in a relationship with a guy for almost 2 years, and I pretty much thought that I couldn't live my life without him.. We broke up a while ago, and this weekend was the first weekend since our break up, that I didn't stay at home watch sad movies, and think about him.

From this though, I realized that I just gotta wait it out.

I'm too damn young and when I do find the right guy - I'll know it will have been worth the wait.

There is no rush.

You're beyond gorgeous, and really nice (from what I could tell from what you said to me in my post, lol) - I'm sure you're going to meet an amazing guy that just.. sweeps you off your feet.

Logan1976's photo
Sat 02/16/08 07:37 PM
I read your profile. Are you for real ? And we wonder why terroists want to blow us all to hell.

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Sat 02/16/08 07:37 PM


I guess sometimes I just wish I had what my parents had when they were young. They got married when they were both 18 and I was on the way. But it ended in a divorce when I was ten. And they are still like bestfriends, since they see each other two/three weekends out of every month.
these are alot different times from back then......now you have balance a career and family

I know but my mother did a wonderful job being a single mom for three years, with four children. She worked full time and still spend time with us, and when we would go to bed she would finish her school stuff for her RN.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 02/16/08 07:38 PM
He's out there

Good luck to you flowerforyou

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Sat 02/16/08 07:38 PM

I read your profile. Are you for real ? And we wonder why terroists want to blow us all to hell.

What? Yes I am real like wtf.

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Sat 02/16/08 07:38 PM


I see you are from Millsboro DE I am from Salisbury MD very close. I miss the Ocean.

Me to..but I go every summer to visit.


I can't afford to visit because I get married & pregnant instead of going to college! (obvious hint)

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Sat 02/16/08 07:39 PM



I see you are from Millsboro DE I am from Salisbury MD very close. I miss the Ocean.

Me to..but I go every summer to visit.


I can't afford to visit because I get married & pregnant instead of going to college! (obvious hint)

Awe..but someday you will like to go back and see how much it changed.

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Sat 02/16/08 07:40 PM



I guess sometimes I just wish I had what my parents had when they were young. They got married when they were both 18 and I was on the way. But it ended in a divorce when I was ten. And they are still like bestfriends, since they see each other two/three weekends out of every month.
these are alot different times from back then......now you have balance a career and family

I know but my mother did a wonderful job being a single mom for three years, with four children. She worked full time and still spend time with us, and when we would go to bed she would finish her school stuff for her RN.


Your Mom sounds like a very special person. Have you talked about this with her?

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Sat 02/16/08 07:43 PM

I read your profile. Are you for real ? And we wonder why terroists want to blow us all to hell.


She's only 18 give her a break.

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Sat 02/16/08 07:43 PM
:heart: flowerforyou :wink: You have soooooooo much ahead of you, don't waste one minute thinking about what YOU don't have and LOVE all that YOU do have NOW...
Loves will come and go.
Memories will be stored in both your mind and your heart.

And YOUR one and only will CHANGE your life forever when he finds YOU!!!:heart: drinker bigsmile

Live, Love, and Laugh........the rest all just happens!:wink:

Totage's photo
Sat 02/16/08 07:47 PM
It sounds like you want what your parents had, and still have. I'm sure you'll find it.

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Sat 02/16/08 07:49 PM
Live, Laugh and Love is a amazing phase..I love it. I live my life to the fullest..and make every moment like its my life because who knows when it will end.

Totage's photo
Sat 02/16/08 07:50 PM

Live, Laugh and Love is a amazing phase..I love it. I live my life to the fullest..and make every moment like its my life because who knows when it will end.


drinker

MtnBkr80446's photo
Sat 02/16/08 07:51 PM
Take your time and enjoy the ride of life. Don't go looking too hard for that person. They usually find you when you least expect it.

flowerforyou