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If you want to share it with us on JSH that would be fine. It may not help you much but it will sure give us something to talk about.  Soo true.... |
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What to do if u have been in a abusive relationship. I personally have been in one and its been a year now since its happend. Should i stil mention what happend or keep it a secret to future bfs or whoever. If you feel like sharing that information with someone, share it, if not, don't. It's up to you. Now, if you're having trouble getting past what has happened, it might be good to talk to someone about it, to help you move on. I agree with totage ... it's really your call. But if you find yourself still dealing with the aftermath., no matter what .. get a professional 'ear' to help you work thru it and move on to healthy. Biggest thing is we tolerate or stay in abusive relationships for a reason., and it's all about what we will accept for us. You deserve anything BUT., so be sure you've embraced that fact. *hugs*
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if you even think theres a hint of abuse coming your way in the next relationship just get out fast
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What to do if u have been in a abusive relationship. I personally have been in one and its been a year now since its happend. Should i stil mention what happend or keep it a secret to future bfs or whoever. how can anybody ever be abusive with such a princess?
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There are support groups on here. Not a know it all-but word of caution-I'd protect myself from too many who might act more judgemental on a night, when more drinking may ensue. Abuse is not the victim's fault, and as far as what to share with someone, you should get a feel for the person. It is something that happened to you, it is not the sum of you.
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Edited by
daddygone
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Sat 02/23/08 08:30 PM
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That could not have been said any better by anyone THANKS.The post by southern_bee.
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What to do if u have been in a abusive relationship. I personally have been in one and its been a year now since its happend. Should i stil mention what happend or keep it a secret to future bfs or whoever. how can anybody ever be abusive with such a princess? aww thanks idk i mean must b a reason it happend, but ive totally moved and for the better cos i get to meet guys like u who make it worth while thanks.   
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Edited by
TheShadow
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Sat 02/23/08 08:47 PM
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What to do if u have been in a abusive relationship. I personally have been in one and its been a year now since its happend. Should i stil mention what happend or keep it a secret to future bfs or whoever. I think you should come to an understanding with it and learn how to love yourself before you invlove anyone els. There is pain there that can effect what choices you make right now |
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What to do if u have been in a abusive relationship. I personally have been in one and its been a year now since its happend. Should i stil mention what happend or keep it a secret to future bfs or whoever. because there are still issues that you have to go through whether it has been a year or 20 |
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I don’t know how anyone can abuse you I mean you are incredibly beautiful and I have talked to you and got to know you a little and from what I have seen you are beautiful and the inside and the outside I don’t know how anyone can do anything like that to you.
I would tell the person that I am in the relationship about it just because I’m just open and honest about everything |
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Thu 02/28/08 06:05 PM
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I don’t know how anyone can abuse you I mean you are incredibly beautiful and I have talked to you and got to know you a little and from what I have seen you are beautiful and the inside and the outside I don’t know how anyone can do anything like that to you. I would tell the person that I am in the relationship about it just because I’m just open and honest about everything Beauty has absolute nothing to do with abusers. Just like it doesn't with cheaters. The most gawjus women in the world - both inside and out(and sorry none on this site are even close to what I'm talkin about) have been screwed over, cheated on, and abused. It's much more the person who abuses than the one being abused. |
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You only need mention it if it affects your relating to others. Do you get triggered?
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