Ok so my friend has been seeing this guy for a little bit, they are not serious but she is starting to have feelings for him.
The problem is that the first nite they had sex they both enjoyed themselves and he im'd her the next day and wanted to see her again so he showed up after he got off work and everything was cool and they had a lot of fun drinkin and watchin movies and all that!! Then the next morning he wakes her up at like 4am to have sex but before they did he said he wanted to talk to her for a min and proceeded to tell her that he has "Herpes" and that he is not seriouse about anyone right now he is just having fun and enjoying himself and his freedom!!
WTF people for real she really likes this dude but he is not feelin her like that, what can I tell her?? I am at a loss here because I love her and I wantwhats best for her and the guy is a great guy aside from the fact that he chose to put her at risk instead of being honest in the beginning because he was affraid he wouldn't get none.
I really need some good advice right now cus what I am telling her she is not listening to cus like I said she really likes him and the way he makes her feel not just sexually...like I said he is good to her and he is a great guy buuuut he should have been a man and been honest with her from jump if he cared about her even just a little bit.
All sugestions are welcome...thanx!!!

omg herpes i'd be thinking of some serious payback.one reason i'm holding out for some1 i can trust even though i have high sex drive.

My early nominee for "Thread Of The Night".

I really don't see how he can be a "great guy aside from the fact that he put her at risk for herpes"
She needs to dump his azz and go get tested for herpes and anything else he might not have been honest about.

I couldn't read through half of this....HERPES?!...OMG

What other STD does he have??

Well first off I'd take a rusted spoon and castrate the guy for not telling my friend about his Sexually transmitted disease, secondly I'd tell my friend that if he isn't honest and upfront about serious things like herpes how can she trust him to be serious about anything...

((((((jen)))))) I'm sorry to hear about you friend.. That sucks and he's a jerk and very very wrong for not telling but she should also know better than to not use protection... If she won't listen to you then it will be one of those things that people have to learn on their own...

the other STD is TBA

Ill second that

I told her the same thing and then I told her if she continues to have sex with him then make him use a condom and if he asks why then kick his azz out!!

If Illinois had more smart people like Jill, it wouldn't suck nearly as bad. (=

So...she had sex with him the first night...and didn't use a condom. I would say they're both pretty ignorant for that. At least he had the balls to tell her before it happened a second time. She had the right to make a choice...and the choice is hers..not yours.

she will regret it for the rest of her life... i don't think she quite understands what she's putting up for risk for this man.

why on earth would she continue to have sex with someone like that? He lied to get a little ass....hehehehe..now all is forgiven? What the hell is wrong with her?

Herpes, the gift that keeps on giving...

I had a friend once tell me about her bf who beat her "except that he's an alcholic drug user (felon) who has anger problems, he's a really great guy... you just need to get to know him" idiot...

(((((((Princess))))))) U r sooo right and I told her that she should have used protection in the first place since she didn't know him very well!!

Even a condom can't prevent STD's...

Mostly it's who you choose in a partner; you lay down with dogs, you wake up with fleas. Simple and enough said.

a prime example why morons shouldn't breed