Topic: Distraught
Peccy's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:49 PM
No not by anyone on JSH, well I take that back. I'm upset with the Mutual Match thing. I go through every once in a while to see what's there and I usually have a few new matches.

Ok, that's cool, but when you get ready to write them you find that you are blocked from talking to them because they want someone that lives within a 100 miles.

LOL good luck people on finding someone in your area that close, I have yet to meet anyone within 600 miles of me!

Which makes me wonder why the have it when it's about as useful as t1ts on a boar hog? Can someone enlighten me perhaps?

peachiegirl28's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:50 PM
you need a tissue and a huglaugh flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:50 PM
Welcome & Just say Hi....laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 03/05/08 08:50 PM

Welcome & Just say Hi....laugh laugh laugh

laugh laugh laugh

Shaden's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:51 PM
It's a toss, someone may join soon, in your immediate or desireable traveling area.

Rose41's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:52 PM

Welcome & Just say Hi....laugh laugh laugh
ur too godd sweet lolll

blueeyedbarbie's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:53 PM
It doesn't bother me because i am only looking for friends but it would be nice to find some friends that live closer!

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Wed 03/05/08 08:53 PM

LOL good luck people on finding someone in your area that close, I have yet to meet anyone within 600 miles of me!


600? You're complaining about 600? Try 897,000 WITH a force field!

The grass is always greener in a parallel universe you'll never see....!

:wink:

BatCountry's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:53 PM
I had a boar hog once..

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:53 PM


Welcome & Just say Hi....laugh laugh laugh
ur too godd sweet lolll










Hi Rose cutie..

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Wed 03/05/08 08:53 PM

No not by anyone on JSH, well I take that back. I'm upset with the Mutual Match thing. I go through every once in a while to see what's there and I usually have a few new matches.

Ok, that's cool, but when you get ready to write them you find that you are blocked from talking to them because they want someone that lives within a 100 miles.

LOL good luck people on finding someone in your area that close, I have yet to meet anyone within 600 miles of me!

Which makes me wonder why the have it when it's about as useful as t1ts on a boar hog? Can someone enlighten me perhaps?

seriously...I feel the same...I figure I won't meet anyone here, only friends and that's it. The forums are worth it all...

Moondark's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:57 PM
Yeah, they show up if they fit your settings. But it doesn't sort for people whom you fit their settings..... That was a really awkward sentence...

wiley's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:58 PM

No not by anyone on JSH, well I take that back. I'm upset with the Mutual Match thing. I go through every once in a while to see what's there and I usually have a few new matches.

Ok, that's cool, but when you get ready to write them you find that you are blocked from talking to them because they want someone that lives within a 100 miles.

LOL good luck people on finding someone in your area that close, I have yet to meet anyone within 600 miles of me!

Which makes me wonder why the have it when it's about as useful as t1ts on a boar hog? Can someone enlighten me perhaps?


I found somebody within 3 hours of me. Not via MM though.

livelife68's photo
Wed 03/05/08 08:59 PM
keep searching, sooner or later you'll find a match.

Peccy's photo
Wed 03/05/08 09:09 PM
oh I have plenty of matches if I want to move.......lol

Peccy's photo
Wed 03/05/08 09:09 PM

you need a tissue and a huglaugh flowerforyou
bl-w me peachie laugh laugh flowerforyou

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Wed 03/05/08 09:10 PM
Peccy....I'm one of those people that has the "must live without fifty miles" requirements on my profile. I'd like to think that there are no limits on love, but life and a disappointing long-distance relationship gave me cause to reconsider.

For me, I know that I want a long-term relationship. That usually requires dating, spending time together, and being involved in each others lives for a while. That's a whole lot easier if the person you are involved with lives close by. Now I don't discount that you can find love online but, for me, I prefer local. Since joining the site in June-July '07, I've been pretty busy getting to know some great guys right here in my own backyard. We actually go out on real dates ~ what a concept! :wink: For me, it's working and I'm glad.

Bottom line, we all set our own preferences and, frankly, I'd rather be honest about it up front. Just remember, it's not personal...it's just a preference!flowerforyou

Peccy's photo
Wed 03/05/08 09:12 PM

Yeah, they show up if they fit your settings. But it doesn't sort for people whom you fit their settings..... That was a really awkward sentence...
Huh? sentence structure, you don't have it!......lol

itsmetina's photo
Wed 03/05/08 09:16 PM
love has no boundries

Donnar's photo
Wed 03/05/08 09:25 PM
I have met several men on here that are either from my state or nearby states. I am in MD near PA,DE,NJ I've had dates with a few Marylanders, and one from PA. We remain friends. I guess i have just been lucky. I have had matches from other states, but, I am not interested in any long distance relationships. Hell, the close ones are hard enough! Getting fed up with dating though. Its just easier to be alone. I like me and am rarely bored. I'm beginning to think I just don't need the grief of a full time relationship. Maybe I'm just off keel cause of Dad dying. Time will tell. Anyway, I have met people within 25 miles of me.