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it's not always true though. not always. sometimes people are shy! well I'm not just going to walk away. I would continue talking with them. I can always use friends. I would just keep my eyes open for others also. Sooner or later a match will happen when the time is right I guess. You could always nip it in the bud and tell them how it makes you feel and see what they have to say about it then. I don't know any real "lady" that wouldn't appreciate that. |
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They probably want to keep the relationship to the leve it is now - e-mailing. If I e-mail someone a few times and want to get to know them I ask questions. Lots of questions and I expect them to ask me questions also if they are interested in me. If I really like them, I would then want to talk to them to hear their voice and see if we can keep a conversation going. You learn a lot that way and "move" to the next level. Then, maybe meeting later. If the women don't ask questions and don't slowly keep it moving, you've just got an e-mail buddy, my friend. Good luck. I truly believe there are people for everyone. Good luck, M.
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 Yes I know ...most of us women are strange creatures...but wonderful...lol Ya gotta tell em exactly what you want to know and tell then to ask you exactly what they want to know...tell them how you like to spend your spare time.....what you do with family and/or friends...if you go to worship,sports and find out their idea of a nice time...myself I like to meet after a short period of time to see if there is a chance ... if not just have a nice meet and say goodbye ...nicely.....if you both had a nice time continue talking,writting and hopefully seeing each other again....toni
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Women don't have to ask you questions. They already find out all they need to know about you from subtle cues and characteristics you convey through second level communication.
When women DO ask you questions, though, it's most likely just a sign that they are interested. They don't REALLY care about your answer to the question most of the time. They're just trying to communicate certain emotions. |
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I think the easiest way to get to know someone is to just relax and chat. I hate when I'm asked a boatload of questions. I like chatting with someone on line in a casual way, just like I would if I met them in person. IMHO. But then I also think meeting someone in person is doable without too much interaction before hand. Life is short. What's the point of waiting? You are in a public place .. so what's the risk? I've gotten to know guys for months on line, sometimes even longer and still surprised by who they were when we met in person. Online's a crap shoot no matter how you look at it.  BUT ... "to live without risk is to risk not living!" CARPE DIEM!! BRAVO!!! dont ya just love her 
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a second that--Brava. Just relax and let nature take it's course.
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okay, I have met a few ladies on here and have sent mail back and forth. We are close so I have suggested that maybe we should meet for dinner or something. The response I get is they want to get to know me better. I don't have a problem with that, but when we are sending messages back and forth, they never ask any questions....ladies, how are you going to get to know someone if you don't ask questions??? I'm confused here, can you help? Karl The questioning thing feels like a job interview to many. Myself included. Make conversation and share laughter. Those are my words of wisdom for this thread 
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Do you only chat through e-mail? Sometimes messenging online can be more conversational. Do you do this?
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Do you only chat through e-mail? Sometimes messenging online can be more conversational. Do you do this? I have tried this, but doesn't always work....but can see it as a better means.I use yahoo alot for this also. |
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All I can say is if they are not interesetd in chatting on yahoo then they are just not interested.. sorry.
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