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Topic: Can cheating be a good thing?
Jess642's photo
Fri 03/07/08 06:01 AM
huh I am a little baffled....


TWO people in this one relationship.......yeah?

Was it an agreed decision, to consider bringing in other people?

If so, why not bring in others?

I see a whole lot of people's personal morality here....

I dont have exclusive 'rights' on my partner, and if he chose to pursue any form of relationship elsewhere, so be it.... I dont own him, however, to be informed, or to discuss this PRIOR to it happening, is to respect the other party..

And to protect the primary party from STD's.

I am serious in my relationship to my partner.... I am committed to this relationship with him.... with no expectations, and no obligations... it is a fluid living entity, ( this relationship) that can look different any day of the week... so I prefer to also remain fluid, to 'flex', with my partner, and the relationship.


( and just for the record, I am FAR from being a doormat) :wink: laugh devil



kojack's photo
Fri 03/07/08 06:04 AM
BAD VERY VERY BAD

Nickinolosers's photo
Fri 03/07/08 06:06 AM
noway noway noway noway noway noway

ellgee1976's photo
Fri 03/07/08 06:20 AM

if you both agree to it, you ARE swingers..and it's not CHEATING...


*sigh*


just wanted to say this yet AGAIN..

if it's an open relationship, it's not CHEATING...











(personal opinion- it's stupid, but still not cheating)

kristina90's photo
Fri 03/07/08 07:00 AM
its not good to cheat if ure in a strong relashionship:))lol u get me

Tantza's photo
Fri 03/07/08 04:35 PM

its not good to cheat if ure in a strong relashionship:))lol u get me





no lol
laugh

Shaden's photo
Fri 03/07/08 05:21 PM
NO!grumble

Totage's photo
Fri 03/07/08 05:27 PM

Just saying, maybe having an open relationship could spice things up for some people. What do yall think?!


An open relationship and cheating are two different things.

no photo
Fri 03/07/08 05:28 PM
huh

Zewi's photo
Fri 03/07/08 05:29 PM
mad

Tameka's photo
Fri 03/07/08 05:30 PM

Just saying, maybe having an open relationship could spice things up for some people. What do yall think?!



well there is a HUGE difference between cheating and having an open relationship. cheating is going behind your partners back. having an open relationship is not sneaky or coniving. though many people will still say its not alright. it is personal choice. but most people cannot handle it.

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 03/07/08 06:30 PM


If you have to ask then you already know it is wrong.


if it's mutual then i guess it's alright but then again, i agree with Urg04es....

good luck finding a woman that will agree to an open relationship.



well if it's mutual then it isn't cheating now is it ... :wink:

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