if you have i would love to here about it because i just think its all B.S.

dates dates and more dates wooooo hoooooo

Did you expect to get a hookup within 24 hours? You just joined or did you try other places?

You might want to try the bar scene. You'll get instant reward/punishment.

I don't expect to find anyone here romantically but a few friends would be nice. I do much better in person than online.

I am not very photogenic, sometimes words get twisted/misunderstood, you're suppose to boil who you are down to a few words. Oh and saying this post would take 30 seconds but look at how long it is? Online is clunky. It works but it's not as great as meeting people in person. There they can look into your eyes, hear your tonal inflection, smell your pheromones. All of which are attractants.

nope never had a date from here.

Not yet! Looking forward to one though.

I have had a few. And now I am taken. Found a great girl......

NAHHHH! But I have meet some really nice folk's, and I talk to them often

You're asking us??? It's like we'd REALLY know!

Thats a good one moo. I've had a few dates, but nothing serious yet.

had a few and just like the regular world there are some bad eggs too

yea u can get a date on here if ur mindless and dress and act like everyone else.

had a few dates, mostly write long distance to people...made mostly friends....no luv comittments yet....

Hi Terry

I don't see the people I talk to long distasnce as really serious relationship material if it is not likely thay are going to be actually meeting but I think it is possible to be friends and learn from each other's perspective and experiences. I think even long distance their can be a certain amount of peer support. And at some level it might be more open and honest than it would be with people you work or live around because of competetion for jobs and so forth. I realize some people play fantasy games with strangers but I also think being single you are very invisible and sometimes the isolation is the worst part.

Somehow...I DO NOT think 'flirt4u' is here for dating!!!! I think people pic most sites (GENERALLY) for certain reasons. Which I'm sure is obvious to most of us. BUT, there are all kinds of people. If you're interested in dating, don't be afraid to say so. Most of us have a difficult time just coming out and being honest about (what they really want) the truth!! If you're here just to make friends, SAY IT. If you're here for dating, SAY IT. If you here for sex, SAY IT. Otherwise the rest is B.S. and creates nothing but confusion and wasted time. You might just find what you're LOOKING for!! Good Luck!

Like I said......confusion and wasted time. ~rolling eyes~

Yup, Met a few cool peeps, Had fun, stayed in touch, Let's see where this will go...hee hee

then why you still on here??

no not really only online but i had not had a real one in long time liek a year

First: Every female here says their 50 years old when quit obviously their not, even looking like grandma. LOL, not funny. Give us guys a break, be honest, yeah right. No, you have a better chance winning a lottery than even getting a response, most will be..outrageous beautiful picture of a female, you make contsct; she says she's stuck in some state and wants you to send her money so she can come & move in with you...mot kidding! 99.999% are dishonest skanks. I never pay these scams date sites, pay to see who viewed you, really! Are some of you that ignorant & gullible? If you have to pay for a nightmare date than you need to grow a pair, find some self-esteem or get a rope & find a strong tree. If you want sex, hire a prostitute, if you want a date,good luck. Look, u all can look till u die; stop looking and boom, you'll meet someone when u least expect it.