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Ok, women who say they are "average" yet top out the bmi scale women who say they have no baggage, yet see a shrink 2x a week Women who say they are independent, yet call you 20 times a day Women who say they feel everyone has their own space, yet follow you when you leave the house. Women who say they are financially secure, yet it only means they know how to keep their cc maxed. Women who say they do not expect you to replace their childrens father, yet want you to take them everywhere with you when you do not have to work Women who say they want a gentleman, but bark at you when you try to open a door. Ahhh, I feel better now Damn. I'm out. |
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I'm actually glad to know your thoughts. Everything is feedback... that's how I look at it.
Seems men are into BMI, finances, and emotional security. And somewhat nice. Seems like comman sense, but I still feel I learned something. |
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I'm not looking for perfect..because I'm not perfect..it would be stupid of me to want something that I'm not and never will be..I don't ask for much..I just can't find the few things that I am looking for.
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so then you are looking for perfect, if you can't take a chance on somebody who isn;t exactly what you want no matter how few of things that might be, your looking for perfect.
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so then you are looking for perfect, if you can't take a chance on somebody who isn;t exactly what you want no matter how few of things that might be, your looking for perfect. Maybe just perfect for them. |
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Edited by
cutelildevilsmom
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Sun 03/09/08 08:04 PM
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thats such bs, i've contacted just about every woman in this area, been very polite and gentlemanly and have not gottena single responce from any of them, not even a "fine thanks f*ck off" women are so damned picky about the littlest things. women say they want all this stuff but they really want something totally different. must have a car = must have a car worth over 50 grand must be mature = must be willing to take on all my responsabilities as well as his. must have a job = must have a job and make a lot of money, take off when ever i want him to, never have to work over time and spend all time with me. thats the way this really works here. everybody wants perfects and nobody is willing to overlook the small things that don't really matter in the first place. i don't live in your area but being rotund i get passed over or unanswered also.But i will say that i want an employed man because who wants to support a bum,maturity is iffy but i don't need someone who has an eighth grade sense of humor either,and the car thing can be worked out.I have overlooked a lot of things in a man to my detriment but i have never turned down a date with anyone based on looks,cash,car etc.and have never let red flags interfere with my ability to say "i do". 
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so then you are looking for perfect, if you can't take a chance on somebody who isn;t exactly what you want no matter how few of things that might be, your looking for perfect. If looking for someone that wont lie to me or cheat on me means I'm looking for perfect..Ok..I guess I'm looking for perfect. |
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i didn;t say perfect for everybody did i? even so perfect for them is still perfect and nobody is willing waiver from that here not even the slightest little bit.
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so then you are looking for perfect, if you can't take a chance on somebody who isn;t exactly what you want no matter how few of things that might be, your looking for perfect. If looking for someone that wont lie to me or cheat on me means I'm looking for perfect..Ok..I guess I'm looking for perfect. ok you want somebody who does lie or cheat.... what if he's 45 and lives with his mother? what if he's broke and no job? what if he's grossly overweight? maybe his family abussed him and he doesn't relate well to people? he doesn;t lie or cheat, still want him? |
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Edited by
LadyOfMagic
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Sun 03/09/08 08:09 PM
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If he is someone that listens to every word his mother says even if it's "Don't be with that girl because she is this or that" then no..I don't want him..cuz he's just gonna listen to her anyway and you can't win with people like that so nope..been there done that,refuse to go there again..If he is faithful and honest yes I would be with him.
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i didn;t say perfect for everybody did i? even so perfect for them is still perfect and nobody is willing waiver from that here not even the slightest little bit. Azrae, I am sorry your feeling have been hurt by people who don't respond. Maybe your profile scares them ? You obviously put alot of time & effort into it, but it's very negative. Maybe it's because of past rejections. Try to lighten it up & see what happens. I hope you are not offended, this is intended to be contructive criticism.
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i didn;t say perfect for everybody did i? even so perfect for them is still perfect and nobody is willing waiver from that here not even the slightest little bit. Azrae, I am sorry your feeling have been hurt by people who don't respond. Maybe your profile scares them ? You obviously put alot of time & effort into it, but it's very negative. Maybe it's because of past rejections. Try to lighten it up & see what happens. I hope you are not offended, this is intended to be contructive criticism. me saying that had nothing to do with me personally, it was to prove a point. my profile is me take it or leave it, and thats how it is. the point is if you don't fit the exact mold of what somebody is looking for your not worth their time. even if it's something trivial like the length of your hair, or you have facial hair, or your only 6' instead of 6'3. |
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i didn;t say perfect for everybody did i? even so perfect for them is still perfect and nobody is willing waiver from that here not even the slightest little bit. I think everyone is looking for something different. We are all different people not cookie cutters, so yes, attraction, interests, and values all play a factor in it. I think we all have that perfect person out there...*sigh* yes I will use the word Soul Mate. You'll know when you find her! And you will be perfect for her! |
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so then you are looking for perfect, if you can't take a chance on somebody who isn;t exactly what you want no matter how few of things that might be, your looking for perfect. If looking for someone that wont lie to me or cheat on me means I'm looking for perfect..Ok..I guess I'm looking for perfect. ok you want somebody who does lie or cheat.... what if he's 45 and lives with his mother? what if he's broke and no job? what if he's grossly overweight? maybe his family abussed him and he doesn't relate well to people? he doesn;t lie or cheat, still want him? I would be willing to accept some of that, but not all of it in one package. Weight is not an issue for me, as long as he dosn't expect me to go to the buffet & fill his plate for him, because he's to big to walk. I have a friend who does that for her husband, she's just helping him kill himself. I am overwieght myself, but working on it. |
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oh my god. you know i give up. you people keep looking for your "soul mate" and maybe when you realize your "soul mate" is more then likely not who you for, you might just find that happiness your searching for.
as for me,my feelings are not hurt, i'm not looking for the special person any longer, and i'm quite happy with who i am, and yeah my profile is a little negative but it's called a JOKE. so yeah good luck with your searches. |
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I think the real question here is do looks and/or size really make much of a difference... Really? Is that the REAL question?: laugh:  Does SIZE matter? mmmmm... On that I can't speak for all women. Are we talkin' bank account, car or something else? Looks" mmm... let me see... Okay I'll tell your the truth. We want some guy who is butt ugly and with a tiny penis, who doesn't have a job, who loves watching sports all the time, never picks up after himself, seldom takes a bath and has no respect for us. Yeh that's it.  |
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I think the real question here is do looks and/or size really make much of a difference... Really? Is that the REAL question?: laugh: Does SIZE matter? mmmmm... On that I can't speak for all women. Are we talkin' bank account, car or something else? Looks" mmm... let me see... Okay I'll tell your the truth. We want some guy who is butt ugly and with a tiny penis, who doesn't have a job, who loves watching sports all the time, never picks up after himself, seldom takes a bath and has no respect for us. Yeh that's it. |
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I think the real question here is do looks and/or size really make much of a difference... Really? Is that the REAL question?: laugh: Does SIZE matter? mmmmm... On that I can't speak for all women. Are we talkin' bank account, car or something else? Looks" mmm... let me see... Okay I'll tell your the truth. We want some guy who is butt ugly and with a tiny penis, who doesn't have a job, who loves watching sports all the time, never picks up after himself, seldom takes a bath and has no respect for us. Yeh that's it. even that beats a day old crueller and loads of imagination!!
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Ladies, please share with all of us men out here in cyberspace the things that are REALLY important to you in a man. Be brutally honest. We'd love to hear what's on your mind. We would also hear the things that you dislike most in some guys and things that are deal breakers for you. Do share :) If women really did know what they wanted, they'd be married by now. |
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Ladies, please share with all of us men out here in cyberspace the things that are REALLY important to you in a man. Be brutally honest. We'd love to hear what's on your mind. We would also hear the things that you dislike most in some guys and things that are deal breakers for you. Do share :) If women really did know what they wanted, they'd be married by now. I totally disagree..just because we KNOW what we want..does not mean it's in our reach to get it. |
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