***** I DO NOT RESPOND TO WOMEN WHO DON'T POST, AT LEAST, ONE PHOTO IN THEIR PROFILE!! ***** Hi. I’m not exactly your normal guy. The way I see it; it takes two people helping each other to actually have a happy, fulfilling and satisfying realationship. I’m an honest, respectful & trustworthy guy who is looking for a girl who appreciates a man that appreciates them. I’m much more interested in pleasing you than I am trying to meet my own manly needs. If these two things are in the proper order, one takes care of the other & I love to please you. It’s a turn~on for me. If you like being called & told that, “I’m thinking of you.” or that, “I miss you & I love you.” Then you may find me worthy of your attention. I like sending flowers to where you work or live & on occasion, have picked wildflowers. I open doors for my girl, pull out & push in chairs, actually, speak to you when you walk into the room. (Who says chivalry is dead?) I say, “Please.” & “Thank you.” I don’t mind helping to do dishes, fill up the car, help with the laundry, cook suppers, go to the grocery with or without you. In my opinion, it takes two people helping each other to actually have a happy & successful relationship. NO DRAMA QUEENS. I'm not interested in controlling, self-centered, manipulative women. Do NOT bring lies, irrational expectations, unwarranted, illogical behavior with you. Please, consider & appreciate my stance & unwillingness to allow these types of behavior & conduct into my life. It's senseless, unattractive and usually a hasty performance to gain attention. For those of you guilty of such behavior, there are much better ways to gain the attention you desire. I enjoy watching movies. It doesn’t matter if it’s at the theatre or at home. I’m just as happy curling up in front of the fireplace, with a nice warm blanket, a bottle of wine & watching a couple movies with my girl. Good things can happen under those blankets. I really enjoy KISSING. I can kiss for hours on end, with a girl who’s willing to take the time to get there, feel & see everything there is to see & feel in getting "there." After all, we’re both trying to get to the same place, right? Not too many things in life are fair…I am. I know this feeling and have the desire to share it with someone deserving. Giving is in my nature, not taking. I enjoy pleasing you, on every level you can think up. (Yes, even sex) But my aim is far beyond sexual fulfillment. Just for your thoughts, though, “making love” means exactly that to me. I’ve had sex many times; but making love is something much, much more. When I make love, it is with the thought’s of giving you more than just the physical pleasure. When is the last time you looked at your man while kissing him, or having sex with him…..without looking away? When was the last time you actually, ALLOWED a man to please you…and give that same pleasure back? When was the last time you REALLY watched what he does to you and seen the satisfaction and bliss of a man truly willing to take you farther than just his own personal needs? Sex is only a physical way of showing you; I want to have a relationship free of doubt, confusions and dishonesty. By starting a relationship from scratch, we start of free of these things. Our pasts don’t make us who we are…they only show where we’ve been. I’m only concerned about your past if it will affect “us.” The rest, as far as I’m concerned, can stay exactly where it is now and where it belongs,…..in the past. I'm interested in having a life long, permanent love affair, with someone who, hopefully, I'll be able to call my wife. THERE IS NOTHING MORE FULFILLING & SATISFYING THAN TRUE LOVE BETWEEN A MAN & WOMAN.....NOTHING. I've never been the jealous type & I've never been or ever will be a cheater. I will be faithful. I will always consider your feelings & I do not take things for granted. Problems will present themselves, but they will be our problems, not your problem or mine, but our problem. We will deal with them together. I see problems as challenges, they can & will be met and taken care of so we can move on. I'm definitely two things: I AM lucky & I AM a winner, proven, without question. If there's a third thing, I am, it's persistent; I'll hang in there & won't let trying times get the best of us. I won't give up on you & I will not let you down. I will always be emotionally & physically available to you. What’s the catch? There is none, but I do have some major league scars. I was in an accident, many years ago, that nearly took my life. I am TOTALLY independent & need no istance whatsoever. I lost a little muscle under my left wrist that doesn’t allow my fingers to fully extend (they go about two-thirds of the way). It’ll take time, but they’ll probably extend completely in time; I’m work on it every day. I also lost a little muscle in the upper part of my left leg & buttock area. I function COMPLETELY normal and all parts work…..very well. I can perform sexually, in ways other guys can’t. One of these days, I'm gonna corner the market. But…I do have scars. They do NOT make me who I am, but they’re a package deal…they are a part of me. If you want something to compare these scars to, consider if you had one removed. It’s no different for me. If that disturbs your thoughts, move on to the next guy…I’m not your man. I got over the issue of my scars, long ago. If you can see past the effects these can have on you, I’d love to hear from you. I really am a decent guy, who has a lot going for him and even more to give. You won’t be disappointed. I hope to hear from you.