I'm a lesbian. If you are a man, don't bother me with your nudges or flirts, it annoys me. For the women: Under the category of gay/lesbian/queer female, are the stereo typical labels. I'll describe myself and you fit it to a label of your choice. I have both feminine and masculine traits, however, I am much less comfortable presenting fully feminine than as a tomboy. I don't even own a dress. I like the curves of a woman and I find a woman who can present comfortably as feminine with some tomboy qualties, to be most desirable. I'm honest but, really, not too brash. Humor is good, mine is often relayed sarcastically. Asking for clarification when there is a question of what was meant is more logical, to me, than taking offence. In other words, I am honest becasue it avoids drama.