Welcome then!

They do not want to do it at their place, they do not want to be caught in public.

you are nothing but their ashtray.


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Luxembourgish
German
French
English
some spanish (basic conversation, some insults)


I get by/survive in dutch and any other language close to the above
this Swiss extract for example:

Ali M�nsche send frey ond gebore met de glicher W�rde ond de gliche R�cht. Si send xs�gnet met Vernonft ond Gw�sse ond s�llid enand met eme br�ederleche G�ischt beg�gne.

all humans are free and born with equal dignity and rights. They are blessed with reasoning and conscience [LOLZ], and should treat each other in a brotherly spirit.

what is that sexist BS...

That applies to men just as well.
Bloody hell.

Having worked in both mental and physical fields, i must say , to me, both are bad.

Physical exhaustion i can overcome quicker by food, good mood(a few sexist jokes with the guys), shower and sleep.
Physical exhaustion often comes because i poured my energy into something and i have visible/tangible resto show: i see, the work is done. Here it is, look. This is what i contributed to.


Mental exhaustion wears off much slower as i need to forget what's on my mind, and how i was/was not able to do what was needed, and often something i did with my mind does not have a visible, tangible result:
-systems stay up-no complaints from my users (but nobody applauds me; the absence of complaints is my reward).
-paperwork is done, something can happen elsewhere. (something i do not see or partake in or profit from)
Therefor to me, mental effort pays off much less.


Where things were once really bad was at a Steel plant, manufacturing fibre to reinforce concrete:
-Loud noise, much dirt, no security and a TON of production pressure
were combined with
-Running around, lifting heavy, and diving under machines to fix things on the run.

And no matter how my exhaustion levels were, the Boss was never happy because i could not deliver what he wanted, at least not the right quantities of it.



mental: slower recovery, long term exhaustion
physical: recovery mechanisms known, short term exhaustion

thats better :D

i was looking to find someone for food, sex, adventure, projects plans and cuddles

but over the last week or so it dawned on me that i dropped these hopes.

now i come here for the trolls and the comedy, and to browse profiles.
It gives me a sense of relief that i am not in a relationship with 90-99.9% of the women i find here.

you're so old your picture faded away?
Nothing to see.

Aaaah! Fine topic!

I remember one that usually walked away, and i had to chase her down, grab her and force her to face me and my arguments.


One day i realized all she wanted was to enforce her shitty double standards on me, so i quit running after her entitled ***.
It�s been 6 Years, and she only came back once to say goodbye with Breakup sex.
Nope - door stayed shut.

So how do you end disagreements?
I still don�t know. I would think one takes time, analysis and reason, combines the three to find a solution, like a technician would. But maybe that�s not how it�s supposed to be.

*confused*
*goes get some coffee*

Afghanistan.

Am straight, need a bunch of women.

maybe.

please apply water to the burned area.

Welcome back!
:)

Indeed your observation is accurate.
However, fundamentally, i think posting the question "what should i do" here is the wrong move, we might not be the right audience.

I should give you the same advice as i would give a man: Think with your Head.

-you discuss things with this man, and he gives you no hope-signs.
-you want him more than he wants you
-this places you in a troubled state because he is coming to your place, and you do not know what is going to happen.

ASK QUESTIONS
I think you need to ask him a lot of questions:
-what do you think of me
-what do you think of "us" and the way we write and talk to each other?
-what do you want from me, what are your intentions?
-do you want to meet me?
...

FIND OUT WHO HE IS
Right now, you are in the fog.
You need to remove that fog, by shining a strong light on this man.
And the fastest way to do that is to ask direct questions.
...and to be ready for some crazy, honest, possibly hurtful answers (i only want sexxxx)

BE SMART
When you know who he is and what he wants, what he dreams of, what his intentions are , you will know what to do. Your intelligence, your mind will guide you away from dangers.
-if you are willing to listen to it.

all the best,

i do not see the fact that you move countries as an obstacle.

the needs are the same:

-work/job/mission
-home/house/apartment
--> derived from the above: the ability to manage resources/be economic

-language and cultural integration (but language most)
-character qualities, religious, political views.
-->derived from the above: feeling good here, finding peace of mind

if she moved here, if the above are a given, there are no "obstacles" to a relationship, no matter where she came from.
Unless i am being naive.

You know, you are like, battling the windmills right here.
I admire that and also shake my head.
While smiling.


@ All in here:
notice that the OP has never come back with additional info that would have helped make us clever, make us give better advice.
-for WHATEVER reason-

So what is the ultimate solution?
Let the Thread die - because OP is not involved any morew and all these 5 pages are hot steam leading to nothing.

Like Buttseks can never lead to pregnancy, this thread can never bear any fruit.

SIMPLEZZZZZ.

I�m outtahere.

the only part that is an insult is dirty...

how many really OLD folks can claim to be a pervert?
None. Old men might be grumpy, but hardly pervert.
;-)

inuslt voided right there.

so now all we need to see is a pic of you in a towel fresh out of the shower, and all your reputation points are returned to your account.
all of them and then some :P

like that?



OP:
Goatee.
Makes you look like a captain.