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yep ..issues with the ex wife and now all women are evil yep...miserable in their own life and want to spread it around You are almost right, but not all men are of that nature. Before getting married, my EX knew about all my plans to start a business, what I got from her was all negative comments, like, this business will not work, you will have too many people coming to you for help, and the list goes on. In the end she call time on what was to be a life long relationship but as she said, I think I went into this too soon. So negativity is within most of us ( men and women) just waiting to appear. |
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Age difference
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I think 10 years gap is perfect. I am dating a 20 year older man. The gap doesn't matter to me. We get along well. He treats me well. He's very attractive. I enjoy his company. You are one of the fortunate ones with such great experience . My Ex and I was 10 years apart, even though she told me how much she loved me at first, after the wedding, she started to have a change of heart towards our future. She think she went into this marriage thing too young, should I force her to stay,(NO) I let her make her own decision, that wa when I realise that age DOES matter in some cases . |
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Age difference
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Age doesn't matter as long as u love the person. 10years as age gap I would love it   Believe me age has a role to play. You mention love !! When you first enter into a relationship, things seem to get off on the bright side, but looking at the bigger picture, if there is a age gap, then you will soon start to see the differences . First of all , you need to figure out what is it you want out of a relationship that has a big age gap, then discuss the do's and dont's . |
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Age difference
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I have learned that age is just a number. A young person going through much more in their life than many of us have even thought about experiencing grows up very quickly. I know many men and of many who still just don't get it...even at 50 because they lived in their own little bubble all their lives Most people I know today that are of the same age do not get along on anything.. Obviously it's not similar age that's going to make them compatible. ..it's life experiences, similar interests, chemistry etc. that does. Anyone saying age has everything to do with maturity and life experiences is soo wrong. it's not just maturity that matters though, say a 25 yr old gets with a 37 year old women, they may get along great...but what happens in 10 years when that 25yr old want to start a family at 35?...his SO will be 47, and the chances of her having a healthy child are significantly lower then if he was with a 35 yr old....it's issues like these that make age matter, it my not have been an issue at the start but what one person is seeking changes over time, it is not just a number it has real world applications I think some of what you say is so true, it does matter at times and also depending on the person your with. My deepest regret would be getting married to someone who did not see a future for us after the wedding, it was a 10 year difference, so in this case, age does matter. With age differences, you have to be clear at the start of a potential relationship before moving on to commit seriously. |
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You will loose my respect and loyalty for several reasons as I am a very loyal and trustworthy person. 1. If you don't give respect back... Since I treat everyone with respect and dignity to start with 2. If you don't come clean with a lie and eventually I will figure it out. 3. If you throw me under the bus...cause I will admit when wrong honestly..but won't call out others 4. When you talk about a problem or about me and don't talk to me first...I cannot learn or improve if I don't know about it. 5. If you cause harm to someone that has my loyalty. These are all human error and everyday code of conduct/behaviour . Another point to the fourth quote. Sometimes we get talked about by out loved ones and after hearing about it, over a period of time learn to forgive and move on, this is due to the fact that you love the person and the respect is high. |
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Lying is one of those things that makes me lose respect. Berating children in public is another thing. Crap, I forgot....mistreatment of animal companions pisses me off and makes me lose respect. I can't really answer the 1st question. Usually I like someone I respect. When my respect is lost, so is the like or love. The difference is, friend and relationship: If you have a friend you like, you automatically respect them and share common thoughts, when your in a relationship, the difference is, this person is bound to your heart, so to like them is one but respect is high. |
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Interracial married
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I do not think the bible is colour blind. As Jesus say, black or white, you are precious in my sight. He say weather you are Jew or Gentile, he are my people.
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Interracial married
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Since there was no 'black' or 'white' in the bible, because it was socially constructed long AFTER the bible was written, I happen to know the bible says NOTHING about 'interracial' marriage however, in biblical days, the culture of the bible was centered more around a groups MORAL/Religious belief than its geography and we were told to not be unequally yoked, or simply, for believers not to match with non believers and for man to pair with woman or stay alone,,, beyond that though, I bet my soul that MAN cares much more about someones ancestral geography, when it comes to who we love,,,,than Jesus or God ever have,,, That's correct, God does not see you as a thing, he made you in his own image and told you to go worship me in spirit and in truth. Find the one your pray for and ask God to bless the relationship. |
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Any REAL MEN out there????
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I'm new to all this and the first 2 people I picked were fake. The guys would take better pictures. And no I don't want to see your body parts with out knowing you much better. To be honest, it's not only the men, women are also like this. I've meet a few and good GOD, they are annoying . I wish you best of luck. |
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Any REAL MEN out there????
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That is my situation too. And the other one is they want my email, kik, messenger, or even phone number. I am not easy like that. For one I have trust issues. For two I am not giving out any information like that to someone I don't know. I have meet ladies on the site also who are just as you described, talk sweet at first and then asking for number then money or phone care. I know there are true ladies on here but trust is a BIG issue. Best wishes to all. |
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Attraction comes at first glance for the humans, for me, I observe the attitude and characters they show. The beauty of someone does not necessarily means you become attracted to them.
They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but sometimes you see and behold some wonders, it's upsetting . Personally !! |
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Do you think a person KNOWS that they are unattractive or attractive? I think so. This is so subjective. I have friends that men and women call eye candy and you know what nothing about them attracts them to me physically I enjoy the personality traits of these people or they have been colleagues for years. I have friends that aren't eye candy and dang the are like magnets.. I think attractiveness is something that comes from within drawing others to them. Whether it is the self confidence that oozes out of them or a smile.. I don't think it is something that can really be defined.. People just are attractive by being who they are.. Do I think they know that they are unattractive to whom??? You? Me? Doesn't matter what we think it matters to them and who they are attracting. I think what we rate ourselves on attractiveness is probably way lower than most see us... One of the most sexiest attractive thing in the world to me is someone that is comfortable in their own skin. Not afraid of embracing who they are and enjoying life. You say it as it is, attraction is from the opposite side. People tend to see the beauty from outside, but God made us in his own image, so weather or not someone likes us from the outer appearance, this does not matter. |
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Anywhere in thre World
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Hawaii comes to mind but I think its only because I haven't visited it yet and dont have a realistic perception of it I used to love it also but have found it to commercialised now, other than the weather you may as well run down to Seattle. Im not surprised to hear this . Many of the places we dream of are only idealistic from a tourist's point of view. Im still looking forward to visiting some day :) You have to see it for yourself to realize whether you like it or not. I tend to like places that are laid back and not overtaken by outsiders. I met a true 80 year old Hawaiian some years ago in Hong Kong and we talked about his homeland and he sat there in front of me and cried. Finally he said he has no homeland any more, it has been stripped of culture by the whites and Japanese. He was so sad that he would never see his home again as it was. Sorry for the long quote. No need to apologise . This was a very moving story :) Like many places, they have been taken over and run by commercialised businesses, therefore looses it's culture and identity . When I visited Thailand it was the same, the city was crowded and packed, as soon as we got up into the mountains, there was this calm, peace and fresh air. |
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I am still here to find someone special but like Sitka, I actually enjoy the forums now and have been blessed to make some lovely friends :) Blessed is the perfect word to use for having good/great friends. Enjoy the forum . |
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I'm still looking for someone I can be in a relationship with. I don't think I will find it with someone who lives near me, so I'm expanding my horizons. Sometimes broadening you horizons will give you more chances of finding that special someone. Good luck ! |
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I recently started using the forum, this is not something I would do but now I have the time to read a few posts , and , I must say they are quiet interesting.
My reason here is to find and meet someone who understands me and want to experience life as a couple. It takes two to tango !! |
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Mingle 101
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I messed up that last sentence. I meant to say that those people have shown that they are currently on line and a member. Sometimes you see someones profile but actually that person is not who they say they are. I have been contacted by so many fake women. You just have to be cautious of who you start a conversation with. |
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Mingle 101
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I actually Remember you from back then. I also joined back in 07 then changed my username and came back with this one in 09.. My Tip for newcomers.. Take the written word with a grain of salt. We don't know the other person and we don't know what they are going through. Keep open to possibilities... Thats right, don't judge anyone, even though there are so many on here who say they are what they are not. |
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Mingle 101
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I think no.1's idea is a good one . If you are chatting to someone new .. Ask for a photo of them holding up a local newspaper ... To confirm they are from the place they say and their look is recent :-) If you are dating and looking for a relationship .. There are Lots of old pics and fake pics on line . Proceed with caution .. Ask lots of questions and check out what they say . . Trust no one until they have earned your trust . Best of luck :-) You are so right, I have been contacted by so many women here on this site, who say one thing and turns out to be another, even go as far to be asking for money . As I am aware that men are also fakers, which makes life much more difficult for someone seeking real/true relationship. |
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Mingle 101
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SitkaRains
You are absolutely correct, I don't know the other person on the other end. I have come across some ladies on the site and after the first message they start to judge. I can understand that some many men here with fake identification that leads to women not wanting to trust but NOT everyone is the same. |
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