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LOVE AND SEX
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One thing for sure, is when you have sex with someone you trully love it is a completely different experience! You really can not even compare the two they are so far apart in actual enjoyment!
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The Male Ego
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Yes I am very good at flattery! I have a silver tongue a sign of the
 ! I have ego issues, always have since i started playing sports as a boy! I try to keep them in check but it's hard sometimes. I'm not so bad though i am pretty humble too, but if the truth be told most people have some type of ego issue. I have always hated losing.....!
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Did You Know....
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 For over a year on here,,I use to always end everything with Peace, Love and Be REAL,,,,,,, And THIS was why I started saying THAT to begin with,,,wink, So many,,had one or two GREAT PIC'S,,,no-more? They were,,,FAKES.... So many had it ALL,,,,,money,cars, homes, pools, They were fakes,,,, So many are on here for friends only,,,,,,NOT,,,,,,, they just like to share,,,,,lol So many are really attached,,,,,and always WILL-BE,,,,wink,,Lil So many,,,,,want to be so DIFFERENT,,,and STAND-OUT from all the rest,,,,so THEY,,,tend to make THEM-SELVES,,,LOOK BETTER,,,in WHATEVER way they FEEL,, THEIR NOT........ I have met a person,,who was using a very older PIC of them as their Present look now,,,,,THATS WRONG,,,but all of us suffer different degrees of our own VANITIES,,,,,,, Many very smart people,,,,might even be sooooo bored with just being them-selves,,that THEY create an Allis to ALSO be on here with them,,,so they can stay REAL BUSY,,,BEING TWO PEOPLE..wink I think we should all just join the Mutual Match and be done with it,,,,,   lol Yeah i have to agree with you! But you missed some! GUY.... I like to do all the girly stuff..... GIRL... I like sports and all the things men like to do.... Divorced.....hah laughable! I don't sleep on the first date HAHAHAHAHAHA Bull Crap! I don't care what you look like it's the inside that counts! Now that's a real riot! I completely understand your a single dad......  I'm a confident indepedent woman! The most common lie! Okay sorry ladies not trying to bash on you i know we men do it too, i just don't date men. |
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At least his mom hasn't kicked him out yet! If you hurry up and date him maybe you guys can kick it at his mom's place before he is homeless?
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Did You Know....
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You know I remember commenting in the "whats with guys and shirtless pic's thread" ! I stated then that pics are all that really matter for the most part and everyone bashed me! I admitted that looks matter to me and i got labeled shallow???? hmmm, i guess the truth is out now??? So I hope all the i'm a saint look at me talk can die down just a little bit anyways! I never have seen the point in lying especially to one's self! But, it's really irritating when people judge others and they are just lying hypocrites!
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As you can tell, you are too good for the likes of me. I'm a horrible person and unfit to date. Best you click on the next profile which is probably all of 2 lines
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I'm smitten....!!!
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I got a prospect! "fingers crossed"
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I love poetry!
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The Test Of Time
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I think you cant have true love without problems! When you are deeply in love you can't help but to become hurt or offended at some point!
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What do you do~~~
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Yep i'm not the needy type, people get busy and i try not to sweat it. But if it's a girl I like or my girl specifically I won't tolerate it!
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What to do??????
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You know what love is complicated, spontaneous, and so many other things!!!!!!!! I don't think just cause the guy is contacting you again he only wants sex!! Some women have this veiw of men and it may be true about some but not all! I have had sex with women i was not in love with and enjoyed many things about them, not just the sex! So it really depends on how he treats you if you ask me! Besides is sex a gift only women bestow upon men or is a mutual enjoyment that two people share? LOL...How come you seem to be the only one one who understands? I can only hope the masses are wrong. You know I learned long ago that people lie to themselves often! They begin to actually beleive they are a person they really aren't! If someone admits fault, then you probably have a real person! But those who portray themselves as perfect or rightous, take their advice with a grain of salt! Thank you for your kindness! Your welcome! Just be careful with your feelings and tell him if he wants to see you then you guys need to take a step back before you take a step forward again, "No Sex"! If you can't trust yourself to not have sex then make sure to spend time together where you can't be vulnerable to your emotions! Good Luck! |
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What to do??????
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You know what love is complicated, spontaneous, and so many other things!!!!!!!! I don't think just cause the guy is contacting you again he only wants sex!! Some women have this veiw of men and it may be true about some but not all! I have had sex with women i was not in love with and enjoyed many things about them, not just the sex! So it really depends on how he treats you if you ask me! Besides is sex a gift only women bestow upon men or is a mutual enjoyment that two people share? LOL...How come you seem to be the only one one who understands? I can only hope the masses are wrong. You know I learned long ago that people lie to themselves often! They begin to actually beleive they are a person they really aren't! If someone admits fault, then you probably have a real person! But those who portray themselves as perfect or rightous, take their advice with a grain of salt! |
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Life
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I would of gotten a post graduate degree!
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What to do??????
Edited by
ronny4dating
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Fri 12/04/09 08:01 PM
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You know what love is complicated, spontaneous, and so many other things!!!!!!!! I don't think just cause the guy is contacting you again he only wants sex!! Some women have this veiw of men and it may be true about some but not all! I have had sex with women i was not in love with and enjoyed many things about them, not just the sex! So it really depends on how he treats you if you ask me! Besides is sex a gift only women bestow upon men or is a mutual enjoyment that two people share? You know the man bashing is pretty pathetic in here sometimes.....The funny thing is the guys join in as well!
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What to do??????
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Some of you may remember I posted about this relationship I had with this one man....It didn't go so well...I wanted more than he could give and frankly I think I was in love with a booty call. I ended up telling this booty call that I had feelings for him....well some time passed I stopped all contact with him and now hes calling me again. My question is...his knowing how I feel about him...is he just calling for sex or does he want more? I know I know I should just ask him...but I wanted your opinions first. I just wondered if men can be so cold as to do such a thing? I posed a similar question in reverse yesterday. It's nice to get some justification that this happens! As being the so call jerk i can tell you how I felt. I want to have feelings and fall in love, but love escapes me! I see it as a real dilema because women will often offer sex before love and i have a hard time saying no to the sex and an even harder time falling in love! So when the woman falls in love with me I end up being the bad guy and it trully makes me feel bad. I mean it takes time to devolop feelings such as love right? Yet sex always seems to come before love so what do you do? Do you refuse the sex? Will I someday love them? I think the answers people have given you are simplified to the point of dishonesty! Simply put I don't think two people can get into a relationship without risking someone lacking true love and hurt feelings coming from it. So the question i would ask is what are his intentions and barring love itself "because it can't be manufactured" could he see you long term? |
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The Male Ego
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You know the problem with this is a lot of times they can't change it! So i think thats why people wont say anything! If it's something that can be remedied i will say something, if not forget it i just lie! But you know once you have had awesome sex, it's cery difficult to settle! My biggest issue is with lips! If she has no lips to kiss with it just kills it for me!
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If your completely honest..
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sounds to me like all u really want is a booty call and nothing else.and your trying for us to justify what u are doing.not going to happen from me.  Oh well i guess it's time to just do bootie calls then! woohoo but Goof's booty is all mine What no sharing??
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If your completely honest..
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sounds to me like all u really want is a booty call and nothing else.and your trying for us to justify what u are doing.not going to happen from me. Oh well i guess it's time to just do bootie calls then! |
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If your completely honest..
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stage 1 talk email phone stage 2 date, and go out and have fun stage 3 sex stage 4 feelings stage 5 hurt feelings Thats what i mean. I don't say i am in love with them or lead them on just ends up happening. so you're just using women for sex and then wondering why they are hurt by it? hold on here thats a little biased isn't it? I am not using anyone..... I never tell them i love them and i never promise them a thing. It just happens! So what's the problem then? Are you upset because they love you and you don't return it? Are you upset because you feel incapable of loving someone? If you never told them you love them, but they love you, I wouldn't feel guilty. That was their choice to tell you that, when you hadn't said it first. We're only responsible for ourselves. If you're wanting to feel love for someone, maybe you should try getting to know them out of the bedroom for a while. Well yeah actually i am upset i feel that i am incapable of love! It's kinda a problem ja know!! I don't mind the judgements from you guys it's cool i understand thats why i come here. You know I have thought of not having sex for just that reason but i always give in to the temptation. I'm not judging you. I try not to judge anyone. I'm a live and let live person. What I'm trying to say here is, if you don't love them, yet they love you, if I were you, I wouldn't feel guilty about that. I've never been in love with anyone before, and if they were in love with me, that was their problem. I've never led anyone on. If you're upfront with these women, and tell them it's just sex, with no feelings, and they allow themselves to care about you, that's pretty much on them. We all make choices, it's very easy to leave someone who doesn't feel the same way. No one is obligated to be with anyone else. Yeah i do feel guilty thats why I asked! It really f'n sucks doing that to them! It makes me feel like a complete azzhole! But really i dont lead them on!!!!! I tell them everything!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean i tell them everything, unless there is no time. You know this is completely unresolved! The reality is i'm not gonna say no to sex cause i'm too weak, so it's just makes me want to say hell with it all! I'm gonna go listen to David Lee Roth! |
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If your completely honest..
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Look thats why i asked the question! Should i have a disclaimer before sex???? Is it my responsibilty to protect their feelings even though they wont??? ummm yes it is the 60's are over. the old "love em and leave em" mentality is no longer acceptable behavior if you're not interested in a women beyond getting in her pants you would do better on something like adult friend finder Look I really don't mind the judgements it's cool, but's it's really not as you describe! I really like them and i want it to work out but it just doesnt! Im not trying to hurt anyone, but it's cool think what you want! Ronny the best thing for anyone is to be upfront and honest - if all you want is a FWB say so, if after you get some A$$ you feel that you'll feel nothing more for them, say so and cut your losses and theirs. good luck okay i guess i am not explaining myself well enough. I want an LTR and i am completely upfront and honest!!!!! It's not like they have no participation here!!!! |
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