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Sat 01/31/09 01:15 PM

Our members will go on over 18,000,000 dates with other users this year!!

Ya O.Klaugh


Yes but how many of them are to Barney's for a public critique where you buy stale overpriced coffee.

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Sat 01/31/09 12:54 PM
Plenty of Fish seems to be messing up access on your computer with all kinds of cookies. It seems like a lot of these sites that have free beginning access just leave the profiles up when you don't join. Makes it appear that they have lots of people but they are phantoms. I would think people who actually pay would file class action suite for fraud.

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Sat 01/31/09 12:33 PM
What I can't understand is why there isn't more emergency relief going into Kentucky. Things like firewood, generateors, Hot food, warm trailers. We can pour money out for so many non-essentials but our own citizens are AGAIN in want of essentials.

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Sat 01/31/09 03:21 AM
My dream vacation would be to go to San Antonio sometime. Thought about moving there many times.

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Sat 01/31/09 03:16 AM


PacificStar,

The floating riverboat McDonalds in St. Louis is not there anymore.
IT WAS TORPEDOED AND SANK..........:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl :thumbsup: winking


LOL I just thought it got clogged arteries and died.

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Sat 01/31/09 02:55 AM

This might belong on a thread of its own. But, how would you deal with a great match if they never had kids? Do you have a "learning curve" for someone like that?


I did that and things just worked out.

We made a point of agreeing to present a united front about family guidelines and set down and tried to talk over every possible thing that would come up.

We found it was an ongoing process as the kids went through different stages and matured. In the beginning he let me take the lead because often he was away on military missions. But if I told the kids to do something and they tried to play me off he would would step up. When either of us were not sure how the other felt about something we just told them not until we talk about it. There really are very few parenting decisions that have to be made immediately. Kids learn very fast that it was in there best interest to bring things to both of us.

Sure there were times when we were on a slightly different level on things but generally we would just agree to meet in the middle. When neither of us were sure what to do we would brainstorm and agree on a plan and face the consequences equally.

Some things I learned from experience I let him learn from experience. I will always laugh about him buying silly putty and then cleaning up the whopper of a mess that was made with it. But there were things he taught me about "our" children. I never saw it as my job to teach him how to be a Dad and he didn't see it as his job to try and teach me how to be a Mom. But we worked together teaching each other how to be a family what we all liked and disliked about each other but it was always clear from the start that it wasn't a temporary arrangement and we had to work it out.

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Sat 01/31/09 01:24 AM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sat 01/31/09 01:40 AM



here is something people should do before they go out on a date or put in their profile...please do not dicuss sex on the first couple of dates we go on...which in return means they're not gettin any or it makes you feel uncomfortable..sex is usually a topic of discussion among adults. unless it is brought to someones attention that you don't like to discuss it on the first couple of dates, it will be brought up.:smile:
Yes, sex is a topic of discussion that should be discussed with 2 CONSENTING adults but I find it to be rude and classless on the first date.
i didn't mean actually having it i meant just talking about it in general.like whats your favorite position and blah blah blah:smile:


A guy who is so insecure about his desireability and sexual ability to make a woman want a normal sex life with him that he has to ask you to immediately define his sexual quota so he can laud it over you is a guy you don't need. Guys that piss and moan that their previous partners were fridgid if you talk them will tell you it has a lot to do with how bad the guy was in bed.

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Sat 01/31/09 01:14 AM

So somebody please tell me if this guy could turn out to be nice...could it just be somewhat normal?


Yes it could. Just see how he reacts when you make your needs clear. If he says "He is just thinking about you and didn't mean to make you uncomfortable and backs off the bedroom talk until you make it clear it is welcome fine.

If he doesn't poney up with a real date soon you can pretty much figure he is not that into you.

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Sat 01/31/09 12:44 AM
I wonder how much longer I can keep all the balls in the air alone. The fight is a young persons game.

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Fri 01/30/09 11:31 PM
My general opinion is that if pot was mass produced and marketed pure in pill form it probably would be no more dangerous (side effects) than other pain relievers includeing Ibuprofen or even acetameniphen. The Liver is a fairly fragile and vital organ so I am not for straining anything through it that isn't necessary.

Is pot addictive? I think the feeling that pot induces in the body; primarily reduction in inhibition and anxiety is so much preferable to the normal level that it easy to chose to be stoned but I have not seen anyone go through withdrawal not haveing it so I have my doubts.

Does pot make people violent? I think it is possible for any substance to make people have and allergic reaction and be violent in rare instances. I have seen the orange dye in carmel corn turn kids in rageing beasts.

Does pot incite the average user to have a desire to express violence through rape? No. I have not ever seen someone on only pot be violent. The esscence of violence is paranoia and directed movement. Generally speaking most people on pot have difficulting stringing ideas together.

I think if that desire for violence is already in the person; and pot only is ingested then the overall inhibition or fear that they have to get caught is lowered. If anything I think useing pot makes it harder for people to get and stay aroused to climax. The anger associated with that inability plus the reduction in inhibition could easily let aggression surface but I don't think it causes it.

Unfortuneately the availability of pure pot is very very rare. Even home grown pot can be poisoned with various herbicides or so called organic substances. Haveing had a spouse that worked in a lab that tested drugs I can tell you would be scared stiff if you knew some of the stuff that is put in street pot to amplify it's effects or even kill off the competition. The colors, especially the metallics, are extreamly toxic. Unfortuneately the people who are poisoned just dissappear to the morgue or what is truely sad is many years with cognitive problems, incontenence, and sometimes excruciateing spasticity in low quality group homes or skilled care. In real life the average drug user gets identified and gorked through the medical system with very little care. Since their families are more than glad to get rid of them there is no one to watch what happens to them.

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Fri 01/30/09 08:53 PM
More often it is supper I have with my puter but lunch would be good. Might save me some calories.

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Fri 01/30/09 08:16 PM
In stead of staying stoned all day, which does have serious side effects, how about figureing out why you have ADHD? Many symptoms are controlable with proper diet, clean home, and behavior therapy. Some are simple allergies. Yes some people need medication but if Meth or other things includeing genetics have fried your nervous system face facts and come back to the real world.

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Fri 01/30/09 07:55 PM

ok, how would I work this one out

Theres a cafe that I go into regularly, (3 times week, same days, same time) due to work.
Theres on girl that works there, really cute, been making very small talk with her.
How would I go about asking her for a drink or something like that?


Since she is working, something you should respect, I would give her a business card that has a phone and email address on it. If you are smart you will put and attractive photo in the background. Say something like "You always make such a nice impression I would like to talk to you soon." Or "You know your smile just makes my day lets chat." Or "If you call me Sunday it will start my week just right." Or "Talking over the phone would be so much nicer than over this register." Or "This is my movie star voice" clear your throat and say "Make my day!" and hand her the card. Big Smile time! Or if you know a nice place near by "I am going to have supper at the cafe on _____(One night you expect her to work)and I would like you to be my guest.

The biggest thing guys do that shoots them down is not be specific in their invitations.

Guys says "I would like to take you out." Out for what? Pooper scooper duty? lol When? The sixth Saturday after Christmas? Where? This is the biggy. We don't want to end up in the river face down? Be smart women shop; and Malls have security, don't charge a cover, and usually have food. You can actually hold a conversation. Other places with similiar qualities are good for first dates. I would suggest showing up with something better than and undershirt and holy jeans and dirty track shoes. You can actually suggest a week night evening after work. You can put a clean shirt in the car and freshen up in the bathroom if what you wear at work isn't "date" clothes. Just acknowledge that you did not want to be late but you brought and extra shirt to be fresher. Guys that show consideration for their dates are the ones who catch the great dates.


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Fri 01/30/09 07:03 PM
I might not like bad manners but BO is so offensive it is pretty much hard to ignore.

I am surprised that guys would put that much emphasise of feet when bad breath in my book would render a woman unkissable.

I assume you are speaking in the extream for all of this issues.

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Fri 01/30/09 06:45 PM
You are not the only one that uses drugs but the majority of the people on this site do not want the site used as a hook up for drugs and shut down so keep your illegal activities off of Mingle. Thank You.

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Fri 01/30/09 06:32 PM
I have often wondered if a life form we could comprehend came here how would we not have to be the submissive race because we can't travel to other inhabital planets?

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Fri 01/30/09 06:24 PM
I doubt there are many left in the USA that can draw there entire linage to full blood natives so I don't think anybody ought to be pointing fingers.

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Fri 01/30/09 06:00 PM
My hope is with government regulation of some of these businesses that when tax payers and congressmen/senators hand out money they will require more restrictions and stop paying obscene salaries to people that really don't have that unique of skills. I believe that most of the work is actually done by people much further down the food chain.

The reason the credit system is so foul is if people who have never had credit or not used it for years are not required to show credit worthy habits now. Because many people can't even if they wanted to afford houseing, medical care, and trasportation costs things have to change.

The people who will get through will be the people who do not depend on credit or insurance to subsidize their expenses. A budget will be something that all of us have to live on.

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Fri 01/30/09 12:30 PM
Pictures are above average. They would be stellar if you were smileing in your main one. Love the camera because it is the person you are trying to connect with. The photo essays are great as backup pictures.

I didn't so much get the "booty call" vibe as you are very solitary and maybe like to be within your own oasis a little too much for most people your age. You might want to work on your text. If you are a guy who likes conversation and mental intimacy in a relationship, someone to include in your family life you need to say that. This text is a little scattered. I don't find it offensive just still guessing what you want.

I would include a short paragraph about your photography hobby and what you like about it.

Something about what you do career wise. Don't want to give the impression you don't have a job.

Good Luck. I find you interesting and I think probably so will people your age.

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Fri 01/30/09 12:02 PM
0 I don't generally want something undetermined rolled in cardboard then nuked to pass as food.

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