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Are you a good dancer?
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Did dancing ever help you get a date, or was it such a turn off that you don't dance anymore? By the way what is your favorite snack food while you are explaining.   I love to dance and I do ballroom dancing, hula and regular hip-hop dances. Yes, Another way to meet great and amazing people if you join a ballroom party. I've done it for so many years but then quit when my regular partner move to China to start his company over there. It is very hard to find partner that knows how to lead you. That is my problem. I cannot find one so I quit ballroom. BTW, my favorite snack? = Fresh fruits and dried fruits. Not bragging 1997 Salsa Championships in Europe Representing UK team for Salsa overall 13th in championships. Trained with Nelson Batista for Rueda de casino in Cuba 1996 and played jam sessions with Efrahim Ferrer and Compay Segundo and Ruben Gonzalez Just to give you what it is like Notice how they change partners in syncopation with music http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ebGJKyPZ_Ss |
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Real Ad vs Fake Ad
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 I think it's a fine line between reality & fantasy in cyberworld. Oh Man! I lost track of where that line was a while ago. Now I am just waiting for them to make a computer with boobs, a mouth and in-laws to intrude on my holidays. But, fake is not all bad! Fake boobs are AWESOME! Fake teeth are better than the real thing. Fake orgasms are good enough for me. Fake wigs are better than the mange. So, it can be a matter of trying to see the positives around us instead of focusing on the negatives. Positive frame of mind has always worked for me bro.Hey! here's a HOTT! one 4 ya.Can U work this cyber babe?   Sexa!  |
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twinkie flavored pheromones
Edited by
robert1652
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Tue 09/29/09 10:27 PM
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There is a person on this site I don't know the name and I quote
"You are doing it wrong" He/she always says that 
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I don't smoke and my ex didn't
So I brought up the kids with the notion "You smoke you die." period They are in the third grade now when they were K my Ex brother in law ( A good for nothing soul) was smoking and kids were in horror and said "Uncle Ed you smoke you die" He was quite put out but who cares the kids learnt a lesson which was intended. The same goes for drinks and weed and so on This is LA the rap music is full of it, the streets are full of it the whole place needs a clean up and we are trying to bring up upright kids in this crappy place |
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Unproductive Thoughts
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I know but its nice to see when it talks in forums shall I start a thread for bringing it back? its your finest moment that Oh good lord! If that's my finest moment, my life must totally suck now!  I remember once you withdrew that picture there was uproar here but then you faded away for a while and that uproar died a death I am sure if you brought it out and posted a bit more often the history will repeat itself We want curlers What do we want? Curlers When do we want them . Right now.
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Whatcha Think?
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Good luck! Good luck too 
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Unproductive Thoughts
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Tanya If there is one thing I learnt in this life it is to carry on regardless. There once was a song you can't please every one so just try to please yourself. It is working well for me though it may have left a few people disgruntled. To extent I understand what you are saying... I think my main conclusion of my personal realization is... I am the only person to make myself happy, however, if I trust another than I can share my happiness with them. With the understanding that everyone is their own person, this means that just because you have been hurt in the past doesn't mean that this person will hurt you intentionally. Being happy with sharing yourself with another person forever long that time lasts is a gift to you and that person. However, if one so chooses to share their happiness/gifts with themself there is nothing wrong with that either... or by other means, volunteering, children, family or friends. I have one thing to say to that Bring back the curlers Tanya  Go perv the profile... it's up on there! |
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Have you ever been BETRAYED?
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I think it definitely helps you grow and become stronger , although it also makes you less trusting. Yes, it happened to me. The trusting part is hard for me and to let go of the feeling of not trusting someone who comes along in your life is hard. I still have a hard time trusting someone up to now. But that is my problem. The experience helps you learn and grow and become stronger that I agree. 
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Somehow, she just knew....
Edited by
robert1652
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Tue 09/29/09 09:08 PM
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Unproductive Thoughts
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Tanya If there is one thing I learnt in this life it is to carry on regardless. There once was a song you can't please every one so just try to please yourself. It is working well for me though it may have left a few people disgruntled. To extent I understand what you are saying... I think my main conclusion of my personal realization is... I am the only person to make myself happy, however, if I trust another than I can share my happiness with them. With the understanding that everyone is their own person, this means that just because you have been hurt in the past doesn't mean that this person will hurt you intentionally. Being happy with sharing yourself with another person forever long that time lasts is a gift to you and that person. However, if one so chooses to share their happiness/gifts with themself there is nothing wrong with that either... or by other means, volunteering, children, family or friends. I have one thing to say to that Bring back the curlers Tanya
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What is "fat"?
Edited by
robert1652
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Tue 09/29/09 08:54 PM
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I'm a size 12, and by entertainment standards, that's fat. Someone told me men don't care so much about sizes or inches, just a good bust-waist-hip ratio. But that's just one guy. Some men like their girls slim. So just throwing the question out there, what do you consider "fat"? Oh my...my...., I think I am fat too 'coz I don't weigh 90lbs... I weigh more than that....  Cute Bob! Yes, I am proud of my topsy curvy and balance body... that I am lucky but I am not as hot as when i was in my 20's  You may not be as hot but luke warm will do M staring at the cute butt right now... what did you say again? Thank you Bob, I am paying attention to you and you know it... Me too Me too not staring at mine but paying attention to you 
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Unproductive Thoughts
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Okay... I know I know... I am usually the first person to say 'be happy with yourself first' and 'have your **** together' before having a relationship... etc etc But we all have some kind of baggage. We have all had hurt in the past. And emotional memories are one of the strongest memories to be imprinted in us and the most easiest to recall. So with that said... what happens? We met someone and it was fun and great and has potential, right? Then it starts.... The self-doubt, questioning and unproductive thoughts! Unproductive thoughts are those that usually stir up an emotional response and will lead to irrational thoughts. Unproductive thoughts: Does he/she like me as much as I like them? Will he/she break my heart? Will he/she leave me? Is he/she telling me the truth? Did he/she just use me (for sex/money/whatever)? Then this stirs up an emotional response... crying, withdrawl, depression, etc Then the irrational thoughts begin... Will I ever meet anyone that will love me? I am not good enough, why am I not good enough? I must have done something wrong! Why am I being ignored? So... why am I posting this? Partly because I have come to my own personal epithany and have come to terms with all this. 1. Love yourself. If you don't love yourself or are unhappy, you will not find this in another. (Which I have been saying for a long time!) 2. The only thing you can control/change/make are your own actions/behaviors/thoughts. You can't make someone care for you as much as you do them (and how could you really know that). You can't make someone 'love' you. 3. Knowing that part of it maybe you. If you are being overemotional and overthinking and having unproductive thoughts. Determine where that is coming from... something in your past and/or a pattern of behavior. Acknowledge it... and you just might be able to move forward. Having unproductive thoughts/irrational thoughts will just project a negative vibe/self-image. This will only further push people away from you. Recognize them and let them go! Then you will be able to live in the moment and enjoy yourself. Secondly, thank you to ArtGurl and Gossipmpm for providing some insight... it definately helped to have your prespective. As I was told by ArtGurl (paraphrased) put on your big girl panties and now that you can handle whatever happens. Tanya If there is one thing I learnt in this life it is to carry on regardless. There once was a song you can't please every one so just try to please yourself. It is working well for me though it may have left a few people disgruntled. |
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Choice
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People don't know the difference when they love someone and when they are in love with someone
Huge difference and confusion makes disasters |
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What is "fat"?
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I'm a size 12, and by entertainment standards, that's fat. Someone told me men don't care so much about sizes or inches, just a good bust-waist-hip ratio. But that's just one guy. Some men like their girls slim. So just throwing the question out there, what do you consider "fat"? Oh my...my...., I think I am fat too 'coz I don't weigh 90lbs... I weigh more than that.... Cute Bob! Yes, I am proud of my topsy curvy and balance body... that I am lucky but I am not as hot as when i was in my 20's You may not be as hot but luke warm will do
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Good Love Is Hard To Find
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I didnt know there was bad love... BUT I know theres such thing as this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8fqncj3G6tg
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Somehow, she just knew....
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A programmer and an engineer
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Typical Engineer and I for one will vouch that would be the case in real life
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What is "fat"?
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I'm a size 12, and by entertainment standards, that's fat. Someone told me men don't care so much about sizes or inches, just a good bust-waist-hip ratio. But that's just one guy. Some men like their girls slim. So just throwing the question out there, what do you consider "fat"? Oh my...my...., I think I am fat too 'coz I don't weigh 90lbs... I weigh more than that....
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What is "fat"?
Edited by
robert1652
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Tue 09/29/09 08:17 PM
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Honestly...I like big girls. You like them thick and curvy but not obese am I correct?  |
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Real Ad vs Fake Ad
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Keep looking and don't give up! |
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