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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I am the king of uglyness And, I, your Queen................
Oh really? when did we get marryed ?
The certificate is in the mail!!!
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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yes men are shallow
Dammit!!!
I wanted to be SHALLOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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yes men are shallow
I'm shallow, too, and I am a woman. Not looking for Mr. America, but I know what I like when I see it. And I want to see it. And I want to see more than one photo as everyone has a "good" pose. If they are not attractive to me, I do not want to carry it further to see if there is more inside, except for friendship perhaps. If I don't find someone physically attractive, TO ME, he'll never make it as anything more than a friend. I want the whole package, but that includes being attracted to my mate physically. It could be eyes, smile, sexy arms, SOMETHING, for me to want to keep getting to know that man as a mate. And, I think most men think like me.
Of course, it CRACKS ME UP to no end when you see those older pot-bellied men with hair growing out their nostrils and ears expecting a young barbie type, not realizing that they better have a hefty credit limit to spend time with the type. It's like they think they look like Rock Hudson when they see themselves in the mirror. Yet, I give them snaps for having high self-esteem. Wish I had THAT high esteem. But I'm fairly grounded in expectations, and don't usually dig high maintenance men. |
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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Another Lame Blond Joke
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
Welcome and best wishes, sag!
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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The big question
Gosh, Robin, well, if it was something that the man COULDN'T do, that doesn't mean there aren't other ways to get sexual satisfaction on your own or together, (but without the actual pen!s/v@gina thing). So, if he's just not able to function, there are still ways to enjoy sex a bunch of ways together. Now, if the man isn't interested in sharing that part WITH YOU, then he's just a friend, isn't he? A lover, whether or not able to do the intercourse part, can still be a lover.
After spending 13 years with a man who COULD but wasn't interested in sex and made me feel undesirable...let's just say I'm glad that's not my problem anymore, but his third wife's now!! Sure, there may have come a day when he couldn't, but his situation was he was not interested and wouldn't. And that lack of intimacy was enough to cause problems because as long as both are able, it is a further extension of loving intimacy. I needed to know I had a lover and ended up being his buddy and mother. The dynamic was not good.
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
Peek-a-booooooooooooo!!!
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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ottawa only
Not from Ottowa, so nah nah nah nah boo boo!!
Welcome and best fishes.
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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Men are fickle...
QUOTE: It's all about a woman's attitude. If they're giving off the attitude of, "I've done *such-and-such* for years, and I've done it all on my own, and I don't NEED any man to do anything for me," then any self-respecting man will recognize that attitude and say, "Fine, then. To hell with ya. You can do it all by yourself? By all means, go ahead and knock yourself out then, because I sure as hell don't need you, either." And THAT'S why women like that remain single. I've been doing all sorts of stuff without a man for years, but I am strong enough to admit I'd REALLY LOVE TO HAVE A WONDERFUL PARTNER with whom to share our lives and NOT have to each go it alone. I am a strong woman who wants a best friend in a man to share it all with and not just let me be strong, but let me be less than strong for a while. We'll pick up each others' slack when wanted and needed. It's NICE not ALWAYS having to DO the strong thing 100% of the time. It's NICE to NOT have to always take on the world at large ALONE and lonely!!!! I am certainly STRONG enough to return the favors and lend my assets to situations and concerns that are not his favorites or strengths, and he do the same for me. Ahhhhhh, I want that kind of love. |
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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Let's talk about,,,,,,,,,,,,
I had one last night and one this morning, so something is about to happen.
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
Welcome!!
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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Men are fickle...
QUOTE: I dig strong women....when a gal can bench press me or suplex me into the sack...that's Polish foreplay baby! When you are talking about being carreer minded or knowing what they want and really going for it...I back them up 100%....after all...I expect no less of my woman than I would expect of myself. Gotta be an equal partnership. My personal experience ........(this only applies to what I have dealt with so don't none of you birds get booty hurt when I say this) The problem occurs during those erratic mood swings....when I try to help and be supportive...(apparently there is a time to leave them the hell alone)...and the woman is frustrated and confused... "I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT!" Oh man! Heard that one more than once.....God forbid I make the mistake of pointing out the fact that...I wanna help but, I don't magically know what she needs to set things right when even she don't know what she wants/needs. Then it really hits the fan. So, I guess it really is a day to day thing. Us guys are pretty much set in our patterns from an early age. The ladies can switch gears without warning. So, try to cut us a bit of slack. You gals got it easy.....you know right off the bat what you are dealing with in a guy...good guy/a-hole....dependable/unreliable....honest/liar...abusive/gentle.....good lover/terrible lover....you can have us figured out in a month or two. The women I have been with have been like dating Cybil. Well, krupa, we don't always know right off the bat. And I've met my share of moody or indecisive men, men who want to be led by the nose, men who are fakers, good fakers, ones who think they know what they want and then flail at the first signs of work for a relationship, want just any woman, etc. We gals DON'T have it easy. |
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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Men are fickle...
QUOTE: QUOTE: I'd like to find a good strong woman to help me move some furniture, and pull the engine out of my car. I could rebuild the engine. What do people really define as a strong woman...how about one that has raised a child on her own, no child support, no help from the "father", how about one that in doing so also put herself through college, and oh yeah, took care of her mother for the last 11 years of her life, then oh yeah had to help her son recover from an automobile accident that almost took his life one month after her mother just went through a 16 hour operation. Two years of her son's recovery, and 4 years in and out of hospitals with her mom..still able to keep a job, grow in that job, put her son through college.....I could go on...and somehow still remains happy and prosperous. Sorry, probably should have stayed out of this one, but it makes me so mad...guys would like to define "strong women" as I've seen here. I'm not sure why strong women to men are women that want to change or control them.......pisses me off really. Obviously those men have never truely met a strong woman. You have described a truly strong woman, one worthy of the utmost respect and some lucky man's love. |
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Favorite pix!
QUOTE: Thank you SpiritWolf....very cool of you brother. Don't let the lil waschitchu (I'm sure I misspelled that) fool ya. Lil Grizzly is an absolute hellion....I love that ugly kid anyway. This is just one that my friend took driving down I-20 last week on her camera phone.... Go figure....only in Texas....
CRACK ME UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm in Texas, but never saw anything quite like that!! How the heck?????????
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
QUOTE: I am the king of uglyness And, I, your Queen................
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
Yes, somewhere out there is a man wishing he had fetched that fish and who can use it on his wall for his own fish tale.
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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Good morning all
Thanks biglife! And to you, toooooooooooooo!!
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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Men are fickle...
QUOTE: Nothing wrong with strong women. I have issues with the ones who think "strong" means they can turn me into a domesticated farm animal, though. LOL I'll bet!! That is not okay!!! Yeah, I seem to peeve a lot of men who think that just because I give them the attention they ask that they can boss me around, heart, body and soul. It's like they start instructing me as to how to behave, think, and feel.......dress!!! Skeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery!! And off they go to the recycle bin!!
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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copmany policies
"I'm not sure I understand you here. Are you saying the person suing is wrong because she shouldn't wear her religious headgear if company policy dictates otherwise? That isnt true. As long as tehre is not a safety issue involved (like the headgear getting caught in a machine and causing her or the machinery major damage, then she has the legal right to wear that headgear) (freedom of religion))
In regards to alcohol and smoking versus watercooler romances, tobacco and alcohol; alcohol is proven to affect your behavior, and to reduce your capabilities, and tobacco has been proven to be hazardous to the health even if you are just standing in the same genera area as someone else smoking. You do NOT have the right to endanger someone else's safety or health. However, a watercooler romance does not harm anybody ever. It is the immaturity of SOME people if it doesn't work out that cause problems and difficulties. " Well, if she was so worried about her religion, she wouldn't be working at A&F, and if my boss says I have to work in only suits and dresses, no midriffs, no tattoos showing, no facial piercings, no leggings, then that is what I must do. If I have any of those to proclaim my religious freedom or LACK of religious expression, it's not their business. I could make my own damned religion up and insist that leggings are incorporated into that religion, but that doesn't mean they can't tell me "no". And, in response to your proven effects on behaviour, a lot of stupidity and bad behaviours stem from work place relationships and definitely have shown to have negative effects on productivity during and after said relationships. If it's not illegal, your employer can pretty much mandate whatever they want. |
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SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14256 |
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copmany policies
QUOTE: it boils down to the issue of whether or not the employees are adult and mature. As an adult you have the right to see anyone you want to know matter who says what (except the potential partner of course )
In regards to sexual harassment charges, those are going to be around forever whether company policy "allows" relationships or not. I am not referring to whether someone should be allowed to proposition somebody at work with the promises of favors, that is definitely wrong and illegal. But in regards to actual relationships, it should be up to the individuals concerned to decide whether or not they can handle it. And of course if they can not handle it, THEN it becomes a company issue and the company has the right to fire you for disrupting flow of business, or whatever. In case you haven't noticed, too many ADULTS are not mature and cannot behave and handle these matters, especially when the relationship fails or is un-equal. And why ask for trouble as an employer? Too many shades of grey and it's their liability insurance policy on the line. And if a relationship is SO IMPORTANT to two coworkers, then they should oblige company policy by removing themselves from that work environment. |
Yeah, I seem to peeve a lot of men who think that just because I give them the attention they ask that they can boss me around, heart, body and soul. It's like they start instructing me as to how to behave, think, and feel.......dress!!!
Skeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery!! And off they go to the recycle bin!!