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Wed 10/19/16 05:04 PM
I am here to Mingle and see what happens :wink:

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Wed 10/19/16 05:01 PM

based on that answer, I think I'll run laugh

oh hell babe youd want me to kiss ya.
all the men want to be with me
all the chiccks want to be with me
the men probably want to be with me too.


Hahahahaha :wink:

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Wed 10/19/16 04:59 PM
Inni_dreamz,

lol, well I see it the same way...lol


Hahahaha

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Tue 10/18/16 04:02 PM

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 04:00 PM
computer screen, phone, calculator, clock! oh it's time to go home!

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Tue 10/18/16 03:56 PM
Edited by inni_dreamz on Tue 10/18/16 03:57 PM


I can understand why you would not want to make a blanket rule for every couple going through this innidreamz, but whether a guy is with me for 4 years or 40 years, I would not want him to stay with me if he feels no joy in being with me . And if I had kids, I would hate for them to grow up watching us, and feeling like a loveless marriage is acceptable.

I would certainly do my part to see if the love can be revived in him again. ie Ask what his needs are, try to meet those needs , arrange romantic trips , amp up the sex and spontanaeity etc but if he still feels nothing for me , I hate the idea of him feeling trapped and suffocated in an act of obligation to me



I was thinking, if the couple had been together for a long time and had kids, it's certainly worth a shot to try and make it work. I agree, that if there really is no love left on one side or the other - eventually, it will not work. I do think people give up too fast sometimes.

Also - if you've been married for 50 years, and one person is ill, the other person should stand by them - I think. If I'm the one who is sick, and he leaves me like that, after all those years! - When I die, I'm coming back to haunt his arse. laugh

Seriously tho -- There are various levels of love, and every situation is unique. I can certainly see your point of view in this.

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Tue 10/18/16 03:51 PM
laugh No!


Have you ever swam in a pond?

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 03:50 PM
based on that answer, I think I'll run laugh

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 03:45 PM
Both



Green Beans or Asparagus

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 03:05 PM
You must have patience grasshopper :blush:

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 03:04 PM
Agree with you there, Cat!

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 02:56 PM
I won't transition to phone after one message.

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 02:53 PM
Oops - I don't think that worked - no idea how to edit on the phone - sorry!

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 02:51 PM
Neither


Superman or Batman

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 02:46 PM
Some are good, some not so much - plenty to choose from on you tube :blush:

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/18/16 02:45 PM
Can I win? Lol

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Tue 10/18/16 12:46 PM
In most cases, I would say leave.

It depends on the situation, however.

How long has this couple been together? How old are they? Are there children involved?

Is this a mid life crisis?



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Tue 10/18/16 12:43 PM
frustrated << my boss is getting on my last nerve >>

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Tue 10/18/16 12:39 PM
I think, to each their own as long as it's legal --- I guess.

Too big of a age difference can be creepy for sure.

Certainly, not how I roll.

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Tue 10/18/16 12:33 PM
Yes

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