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Topic: In love or in lust?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/16/08 02:47 PM
How do you know whether you are in love or in lust?

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24652	Sat 08/16/08 02:48 PM
The Swallow will tell me.

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Sat 08/16/08 02:48 PM
Lusting comes from the brain, Love comes from the heart!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 08/16/08 02:49 PM Edited by PATSFAN on Sat 08/16/08 02:49 PM
Love: you want to be with them. Lust: you want to be in them

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Sat 08/16/08 02:50 PM
Love: you want to be with them. Lust: you want to be in them LOL how true is that!!!

IamMewhoRU Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5814	Sat 08/16/08 02:51 PM Edited by IamMewhoRU on Sat 08/16/08 02:52 PM
I dunno mirror...maybe when your lusting you're in love...er think you are.....or you're in love while you are lusting.....what if it's the same feeling? prolly just lusting so long you have convinced urself you're in love. LOL

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 08/16/08 02:52 PM
Love: you want to be with them. Lust: you want to be in them OMG .. classic there Pats. Good job

ReconParty19 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 461	Sat 08/16/08 02:53 PM
LUST...love is fiction!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 08/16/08 02:54 PM
It can't be lust...we haven't even gone THERE yet!

musicwoman1970 Joined Thu 08/30/07 Posts: 94	Sat 08/16/08 02:54 PM
love lasts a lifetme good or bad.......lust only lasts for the moment

ReconParty19 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 461	Sat 08/16/08 02:58 PM
love lasts a lifetme good or bad.......lust only lasts for the moment Perfect! 60 percent end in divorce enjoy not for Me!

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 08/16/08 03:02 PM
LUST...love is fiction! Perfect! 60 percent end in divorce enjoy not for Me! soundin a bit bitter there babe

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sat 08/16/08 03:19 PM
How do you know whether you are in love or in lust? love comes from the soul lust comes from hormones

Syggie Joined Mon 07/07/08 Posts: 180	Sat 08/16/08 04:38 PM
I just pay attention on which musle reacts more when I hear her voice. If my heart starts beating faster and faster then it's love. If all I do is get a hard-on, then lust it is!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 08/16/08 04:41 PM
Love: you want to be with them. Lust: you want to be in them

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Sat 08/16/08 08:06 PM
How do you know whether you are in love or in lust? When you're clearly not in control of yourself. If you're goin' totally nuts over someone and you haven't even met the person at all, that's probably lust and not love. If you've got the other person taking up SO much space in your head despite having next to no contact with that person, it's probably lust. If you've got yourself believing that the person having your affections is "the one" only after knowing the person for a couple of weeks or less, it's probably lust. Love is something you attain over time. Lust comes almost instantly, if at all.

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Sat 08/16/08 08:08 PM
Don't you think love takes some time? Lust takes no time at all and can happen in a heart beat or with a glance...

maryelizabeth10 Joined Sat 08/16/08 Posts: 2826	Sat 08/16/08 08:25 PM
you know its love when he sticks through it good or bad you know its lust when he runs as soon as it gets tough...

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Sat 08/16/08 08:27 PM
This is awesome Lusting comes from the brain, Love comes from the heart!

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Sat 08/16/08 08:29 PM
Actually... Lust comes from the loins (commonly referred to as "tha' junk"), while love comes from the heart.