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Topic: Would it bother you?
MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:12 AM
:smile: Would it bother you if you broke up with your partner,and they stared seeing or dating someone else just days after you broke up?:smile:

alisha07's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:13 AM
not so much... if i broke up with them it was for a very good reason.

MalenaC's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:14 AM

:smile: Would it bother you if you broke up with your partner,and they stared seeing or dating someone else just days after you broke up?:smile:


nop. much better

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:14 AM
Nope, much prefer that to the experience of them dating/seeing someone while you are still with them!!!

no photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:15 AM

:smile: Would it bother you if you broke up with your partner,and they stared seeing or dating someone else just days after you broke up?:smile:


Is there some sort of schedule for when it's appropriate to start seeing someone new?

I don't care -- once I'm done with them, whatever they do is none of my business.

moonlight_ride62's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:16 AM
no...ex husband married someone a week after we were divorced...never bothered me one bit...all I can say is I kept my word...

jnbuglady's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:16 AM
Im afraid it would still hurt!

chevylover1965's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:16 AM
nope, it wouldnt bother me at all !
because she was doing it before we broke up !

Jtevans's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:18 AM

:smile: Would it bother you if you broke up with your partner,and they stared seeing or dating someone else just days after you broke up?:smile:




nope because while she's got another guy,i've got 2 other chicks


that's how i roll smokin

RKISIT's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:19 AM
not really cause i would end up doing the same thing:smile:

Pink_lady's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:19 AM
Edited by Pink_lady on Mon 09/29/08 11:21 AM
Yes it would.....and it would be a combination of jealousy (cos my emotions have not yet settled) and frustration and anger at him for not takin the time to get his head round wat happened (showing that it has not affected him so badly, he had planned it before now) or at the fact he MAY be doing it to make me jealous.

Either way, we r emotional creatures, and even when we know we have fell outta love, or have 'let go' of a relationship, it will always arouse some kind of feelings when we see a new 'Ex' with another person. It wouldnt be normal not to imo.

In my opinion, it takes more than days for emotions to settle after a break up.

MallyBthatsMe's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:30 AM
Yes it would hurt! It would hurt me to see someone who I really cared about with someone else but it would really hurt him when he gets a foot to the bum!...sorry I have been there. I was seperated 9 days from my ex-husband before he was talking marriage with a 19 year old.

no photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:39 AM
NO..i hope she finds someone and has a happy life,ask me tomorrow i may feel differently....:laughing:

snarkytwain's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:41 AM
Depends. Were they stalker material? If so, HELL NO! I'd be partying!!!

Not... that I've... ever... had a... stalker... before... *cough*...

tngxl65's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:42 AM
I'm guessing it would be confirmation that it was the right thing to do.

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 09/29/08 11:42 AM
I got used to it when I was married. Okay, that's a lie. You never get used to it. :cry:

Sir_Galahad's photo
Mon 09/29/08 12:01 PM

:smile: Would it bother you if you broke up with your partner,and they stared seeing or dating someone else just days after you broke up?:smile:


No, there's a reason I broke up with them. It's because I no longer WANT them. So whatever they do is up to them.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 09/29/08 12:55 PM

:smile: Would it bother you if you broke up with your partner,and they stared seeing or dating someone else just days after you broke up?:smile:


Nah. I'm free...she's free...it's all good.

feralcatlady's photo
Mon 09/29/08 12:57 PM
N/A for me.....gigglesnort.

feralcatlady's photo
Mon 09/29/08 12:57 PM
N/A for me.....gigglesnort.

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