So I hung out with this girl i'm interested again tonight (second hangout). We just chilled in her dorm her, me and her roommate. We just talked got to know each other and after her roommate left for a little while we held hands and made out a few times. When we walked out at the end of the night we were holding hands again and kissed goodnight and all that. So what would you guys consider this? We're not dating because we never made anything official and we don't chill that often, but I'd say we're definitely "seeing" each other right?

I think you should man up and ask her

I don't wanna ask her yet, I'll ask after our third hang out.

chicken

I would say "seeing" is the right word but yes just ask her.

grow some balls man!! she is definitely into you or she wouldn't have done all of that with you.......take her out, show her a good time....then let her know how you feel

what is the worst that can happen??

On the other hand... I can see why you wouldn't want to rush. Just make sure you make her feel like she's the only one, even if you haven't told her yet.

Just go ahead and talk to her, tell her how you feel, find out what she feels. She would not have done all that if she didn't. The worst thing she could say is no. But that is no likely to happen. She may just be waiting for you to ask!!

Set up the third hang out and make it soon, or she may move on.

i don't think that she will move on....she seems pretty into him from what he said......just show her that you are the man and that you WANT to be with her (if you do)

Well shes very busy with school, so we hang out whenever possible. I'll try and set something up for next week sometime, cuz shes off for thanksgiving this weekend so she'll be at home. She definitely knows I like her, but I DONT want to rush into anything whatsoever. She also told me she doesn't like to rush things. I'd rather wait til we hang out again and make sure its what we both want, and yes I know she likes me id say its pretty obvious we're both into each other.

sounds like a good plan

good for you man...you apparently know what is right for you

good luck hotshot

I may like someone but I'm not waiting forever for that person to make up their mind....thats all I'm saying

Move on it, strike while the iron is hot.
Really, just set up a date.

I would like a full gold lettered invitation!!!!

What you described was just.......pfffffft.....whatever????

We set up a date when we know whats going on. Shes extremely busy with school and this weekend is a no go because she'll be home for thanksgiving. Next week I'm gonna try and set up something hopefully.

Stop overthinking it and relax. Go with the flow, don't force it and don't try too hard.

Try doing the Naked Man with her

OMG I love that! That is a super dooper neato keen idear, Turtle Dove....