Topic: Is It Possible???
hgraham88's photo
Thu 01/08/09 09:54 AM
Is it Possible to fall in love with someone after only knowing them 3 days?

*As a side note I was asked this question by a relative and just wanted to know what everyone else thought too.

Derekkye's photo
Thu 01/08/09 09:56 AM
after 3 seconds...lol flowerforyou

rlynne's photo
Thu 01/08/09 09:57 AM
to be in love... are you willing to LIVE for this person?

to risk your life to save another that is love

to learn to live FOR another that is to be IN love

cityblues21's photo
Thu 01/08/09 09:59 AM
I probably would not say love, but it is possible to feel a real strong connection... that one may want to follow through on and see what developed.

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 09:59 AM
I'm generally skeptical about this sort of thing -- I think it's possible to be attracted, to feel a rapport, a sense of comfort, a feeling of having known someone for far longer than you really have --

But, falling in love? The "falling" part, yes. The "love" part, I highly doubt.



hgraham88's photo
Thu 01/08/09 09:59 AM

to be in love... are you willing to LIVE for this person?

to risk your life to save another that is love

to learn to live FOR another that is to be IN love



So do you agree that its possible or no?

romeo1975's photo
Thu 01/08/09 09:59 AM
thats a hard topic to answer, i think in situations like that its more of a lustful or just plain desperation

hgraham88's photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:00 AM

I'm generally skeptical about this sort of thing -- I think it's possible to be attracted, to feel a rapport, a sense of comfort, a feeling of having known someone for far longer than you really have --

But, falling in love? The "falling" part, yes. The "love" part, I highly doubt.





Well I see what you are saying. But do you think maybe we have all become jaded?

rlynne's photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:02 AM


to be in love... are you willing to LIVE for this person?

to risk your life to save another that is love

to learn to live FOR another that is to be IN love



So do you agree that its possible or no?


of course its merely a perception on the understanding of the word love...all things are possible, and language is as mailable as clay

"no cat anywhere ever gave anyone a straight answer"

dbh1966's photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:02 AM
no

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:03 AM


I'm generally skeptical about this sort of thing -- I think it's possible to be attracted, to feel a rapport, a sense of comfort, a feeling of having known someone for far longer than you really have --

But, falling in love? The "falling" part, yes. The "love" part, I highly doubt.





Well I see what you are saying. But do you think maybe we have all become jaded?


"Jaded" is one side of the coin. "More sensible through experience" is the other. All depends on which side you're looking at.

There is a value in protecting one's emotions. And, yes, that protection can sometimes get in the way of something that just might be good. It all works out to a cost-benefit analysis -- and knowing what you're comfortable with....

I would no longer rush into anything....three days is simply not long enough for me to have formulated a clear understanding of the situation.




hgraham88's photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:08 AM



I'm generally skeptical about this sort of thing -- I think it's possible to be attracted, to feel a rapport, a sense of comfort, a feeling of having known someone for far longer than you really have --

But, falling in love? The "falling" part, yes. The "love" part, I highly doubt.





Well I see what you are saying. But do you think maybe we have all become jaded?


"Jaded" is one side of the coin. "More sensible through experience" is the other. All depends on which side you're looking at.

There is a value in protecting one's emotions. And, yes, that protection can sometimes get in the way of something that just might be good. It all works out to a cost-benefit analysis -- and knowing what you're comfortable with....

I would no longer rush into anything....three days is simply not long enough for me to have formulated a clear understanding of the situation.






I definatley agree. I guess it just seems really romantic. And now and days many people have ulterier motives for the things they do.

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:08 AM
A work friend did fall in love the night she met her fellow, and he feel that night, too. 20 years and 7 kids later, they are still together.

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:08 AM

Is it Possible to fall in love with someone after only knowing them 3 days?

*As a side note I was asked this question by a relative and just wanted to know what everyone else thought too.



yeah it is possible, but it's called LUST!

Mentork's photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:11 AM

Is it Possible to fall in love with someone after only knowing them 3 days?


3 days?

All i had to do was look into his eyes, it was only for a second, but at that moment, i knew i had to have him...



smitten

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:12 AM
ONLY IF YOUR A CLOWN,

hgraham88's photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:13 AM

A work friend did fall in love the night she met her fellow, and he feel that night, too. 20 years and 7 kids later, they are still together.



Seeeee...
IDK there is hope I guess

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:13 AM
noway