Hello everyone, I'm kinda new here. I just need some help for now please.

Me an my boyfriend have been together for about 6months now, I do love him. But I feel that he is not sexual attracted to me anymore, we never really have sex much anymore. I understand after work he is tired. But the one evening I told him I did want him an he said "The best time to get me is in the morning" ok thats fine by me I can wait..then morning comes an its like he totally forgets what was said last night. I try to make the first move but he then starts to act funny. If someone could please let me know whats going on here. Im so confused an really hurt. Thanks.

He is either cheating or is really tired or isn't that interested in sex and/or isn't as attracted to you as he once was. Sorry but better to hear it before it gets any further

I don't think its the norm to have lack of sex that early in the relationship I'd have a serious talk with him and try and see if the matter can be resolved

Sorry to use the old cliche', but it sounds like "He's just not into you..."

Is he on any meds? Sometimes anti-depressants decreases a person's libido.

Do you two live together?

no meds he is pretty healthy. Yes we do live together.

How soon after meeting did you move in together?

What was the sex like before? Frequency?

Don't take this wrong. Is he cheating??????

maybe he is gay

no man is gonna be in my bed and not put out

after bout 5months I moved in. Sex before wasn't much but still was more then now. I just don't understand whats going on.. he is not acting any different, still plays around with me and jokes around, still says he loves me. Everything is the same just the sex, I am starting to think I'm just being selfish. I don't know I am so lost.

brb

No, he is being selfish. If sex is important to you (I know it is to me) than he should be hearing what you are saying. If you're not saying it, sit him down and say it plainly.

He might not be sexual. If not, you need to know now.

hes probably gay

Sounds like the relationship is dying!

geez... idn. you guys on good terms?

How do I talk to him about it? Thank you so much lilth

Are you people reading what she is writing?

Same can be said for a woman sharing my bed!