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Anybody mention yet, 900-COUGAR?
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this thread is killing me.....why is maturity the same in every young person?? what is wrong with this woman trying to go for a younger man? SURE, he was an A** and she should be more careful who she chooses.....but REALLY?!? i know that i am young and have not experienced alot of what most of you have....but to say that i am just like this douchebag is a travesty and something that should not happen!!! why don't all of you open your eyes a little and look at how the person acts and not how old they look
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um this woman knows what she is doing. she just wants some feedback...say have we all not tampered with younger men only to get burned?
well she is doing what most of us women have done. i still maintain that 12 years is the limit. some dude quite a bit younger is barking at me, and quite frankly i wonder what he finds so interesting about an older bird. however, i have read that women my age are the hot rage. now what do u think i have to offer a younger guy that can have his pick of any of u lovely beauties out there, and there r a few. oops have to leave. signing off. pauline "duffy" harvey\ 
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I'll admit, I've dabbled with younger men. The youngest was 26 to my 40. It was fun while it lasted. It just depends on the man to me. I don't dwell on the numbers.
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Ok so I'm a 34 yr old that was attracted to a 21 yr old man. It was where I worked and we had talked for a couple months and he wanted to come to my house and start hanging out. Of course I said yes because I was extremely attracted to him but by then I had fallen for his personality. I thought he was the perfect man he had the looks and personality. I never thought he would ever give me the time of day so I was so flattered. Well he had a girlfriend while we were talking and didn't tell me but he said that they had broken up and voluntarily give me his number. It was cool between us for a couple days then he started ignoring me what I didn't know is that he had gotten back with his girlfriend. Well we were pretty mean to each other for months and then one morning he texts me outta the blue wanting to see me of course I couldn't resist. He apologized for how he had treated me and said that it was def over with his girlfriend. Now keep in mind I'd tried with him over those months but nothing. Well I told him I didn't understand his attitude and didn't know what to think. I said you have been pretty mean to me and he said well I guess we'll just have to have make-up sex I thought only couples done that. Well i felt outta my zone and he said I thought this is what u wanted and I said I did months ago and you didn't. Anyway he pulled me up to him and started kissing me holding me so thight that any more I wouldn't been able to breath. He was touching me everywhere and I mean everywhere we didn't go all the way but almost. He made all the moves on me both times. Well I couldn't resist this I'd been talking to and meeting men online so I told him. He wanted to know what was up with that and in fact I had a date that night and I also told him that well after that his attitude changed completely and stopped talking to me again. He told me that the only reason what happened between did was because he was bored, happy, and in a good mood that morning and also said that it shouldn't have happened. I just want to know why he would act this way if he only wanted me for sex and wasn't interested in me otherwise. I asked him if we could be friends and he said no because I like too many others. Now he wants nothing to do with me and says he dont talk to me cause I'm infatuated and he also said at least what he had to say has meaning. Before we got together that morning he knew how I felt about him. I don't know any comments about this? The guy is a wacko. Run from him!!!!! 
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doncha all understand. he does not talk to her now because she is infatuated. he got what he wanted, hooked her, then dumped her, and she feels used, abused, and can't understand what game this is.
it is universal, and waco he may be, but he is doing what a few men and women have done in a life time...trifle with emotions. |
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Doesn't really matter, the OP is gone
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it's over. done. just don't go there anymore.
find someone else who wants to be with you as you wish to be with him. any age. 
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Edited by
FutballGuy
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Sun 03/22/09 07:35 PM
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you want this in plain english?...ahhh, ill give it to you in plain english anyways...no hard feelings...
first, you got played...you became his little toy...which makes him a player... secondly, he never broke up with his gf...it was just an excuse...and he called you when he got bored...then he RE-approached you, just to see if he can do it again...literally. third, you let it happen...u should know better because he is only 21. you and we all know, that young people still have to find what they want, and who they really are...u were an experiment...literally. fourth, his gf never knew anything of or about you. and she still doesnt...and she doesnt know of the 'other' girls also...you were just a number that he messed around with. but let me assure you, that your name is well known in his friendship crowd, as he will pride himself with exaggerated stories of you and him. literally.... I can go on....but you get the picture...why do or why did i say those things?...because at one point in my life, i was him.......i know how people like him work and why they do it...i know every move young guys like that make and i understand it by reading your detailed story...it so reminds me of myself 10 yrs ago....I, changed my 'playa' status because....i got my own medicine....and i for once, felt how it burns....i am living proof, people do change....but let me assure you, that what i said, is all very very ture.... sorry.... |
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this thread is killing me.....why is maturity the same in every young person?? what is wrong with this woman trying to go for a younger man? SURE, he was an A** and she should be more careful who she chooses.....but REALLY?!? i know that i am young and have not experienced alot of what most of you have....but to say that i am just like this douchebag is a travesty and something that should not happen!!! why don't all of you open your eyes a little and look at how the person acts and not how old they look JMO Totally agree Nova. I've dated a gamut of younger guys and I have not seen any more 'burning' from someone really young, than someone older. I've gotten to know a boatload of guys in their 20's and most are a blast & actually good guys. In fact I've been disrespected more by guys closer to my age (when they get their boxers in a bunch that I date younger) than I ever have by really young guys. 
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you want this in plain english?...ahhh, ill give it to you in plain english anyways...no hard feelings... first, you got played...you became his little toy...which makes him a player... secondly, he never broke up with his gf...it was just an excuse...and he called you when he got bored...then he RE-approached you, just to see if he can do it again...literally. third, you let it happen...u should know better because he is only 21. you and we all know, that young people still have to find what they want, and who they really are...u were an experiment...literally. fourth, his gf never knew anything of or about you. and she still doesnt...and she doesnt know of the 'other' girls also...you were just a number that he messed around with. but let me assure you, that your name is well known in his friendship crowd, as he will pride himself with exaggerated stories of you and him. literally.... I can go on....but you get the picture...why do or why did i say those things?...because at one point in my life, i was him.......i know how people like him work and why they do it...i know every move young guys like that make and i understand it by reading your detailed story...it so reminds me of myself 10 yrs ago....I, changed my 'playa' status because....i got my own medicine....and i for once, felt how it burns....i am living proof, people do change....but let me assure you, that what i said, is all very very ture.... sorry.... Well said, I agree 110% There are a lot of really smart guys on here!!! |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sun 03/22/09 08:45 PM
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Are some people just want to tell a story and then deactivate their profile? One hit wonders? Afraid of criticism? Afraid of public opinion or what?
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you want this in plain english?...ahhh, ill give it to you in plain english anyways...no hard feelings... first, you got played...you became his little toy...which makes him a player... secondly, he never broke up with his gf...it was just an excuse...and he called you when he got bored...then he RE-approached you, just to see if he can do it again...literally. third, you let it happen...u should know better because he is only 21. you and we all know, that young people still have to find what they want, and who they really are...u were an experiment...literally. fourth, his gf never knew anything of or about you. and she still doesnt...and she doesnt know of the 'other' girls also...you were just a number that he messed around with. but let me assure you, that your name is well known in his friendship crowd, as he will pride himself with exaggerated stories of you and him. literally.... I can go on....but you get the picture...why do or why did i say those things?...because at one point in my life, i was him.......i know how people like him work and why they do it...i know every move young guys like that make and i understand it by reading your detailed story...it so reminds me of myself 10 yrs ago....I, changed my 'playa' status because....i got my own medicine....and i for once, felt how it burns....i am living proof, people do change....but let me assure you, that what i said, is all very very ture.... sorry.... Well said, I agree 110% There are a lot of really smart guys on here!!! Mixed in with a dose of cyanide called "not-so-smart" people... Not every young guy is a player as many of you have stated, hell, I've seen multiple middle aged guys play women like a fiddle. The problem is some of you have this thick point of view: young, male, player...and it is truly sickening... |
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