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Topic: Why cheaters.......
therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Wed 04/08/09 10:45 AM
Cheat ? Some people cheat because they aren’t getting their needs met inside their relationships. They are under the deluded notion that going outside their relationships is a legitimate answer. What else you think could be a reason ?

Lilypetal Joined Wed 02/25/09 Posts: 4052	Wed 04/08/09 10:57 AM
narcissism

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Wed 04/08/09 10:59 AM
For the thrill of it

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 04/08/09 11:00 AM
Sex

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 04/08/09 11:01 AM
Because they want to have their cake and eat it too. And they have no morals.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 04/08/09 11:03 AM
I think it's sad that it seems to be acceptable these days ( by some) I'm old school & I believe it's the worst thing you can do to someone in a relationship.

samauribaby Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 479	Wed 04/08/09 11:05 AM
I think it's sad that it seems to be acceptable these days ( by some) I'm old school & I believe it's the worst thing you can do to someone in a relationship. i would have to agree... it is the worst thing you can do to your partner in a relationship... i think my ex cheated cuz he could... and thought he would get away with it... some men just cant keep it in their pants.

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Wed 04/08/09 11:06 AM
Cheat ? Some people cheat because they aren’t getting their needs met inside their relationships. They are under the deluded notion that going outside their relationships is a legitimate answer. What else you think could be a reason ? They cheat because they are weak. I put cheaters right under cocaine addicts on the trust scale.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 04/08/09 11:07 AM
I think it's sad that it seems to be acceptable these days ( by some) I'm old school & I believe it's the worst thing you can do to someone in a relationship. I agree....That is why I am single now.

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Wed 04/08/09 11:08 AM
I think it's sad that it seems to be acceptable these days ( by some) I'm old school & I believe it's the worst thing you can do to someone in a relationship. I second that

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Wed 04/08/09 11:12 AM
Add on Sexual Addiction

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Wed 04/08/09 11:14 AM
They get bored and think it will fix everything..... They are idiots

the1hitchhiker Joined Tue 04/07/09 Posts: 1	Wed 04/08/09 11:15 AM
Is my duty to help out the women in need!

therapy30 Joined Sat 11/15/08 Posts: 1799	Wed 04/08/09 11:18 AM
Add on Sexual Addiction I agree. Some people have sexual fetishes that their partners have problems with, so they go outside their relationships in order to fulfill these sexual desires.

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Wed 04/08/09 11:29 AM
Add on Sexual Addiction aka weakness

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 04/08/09 11:32 AM
Does it really matter what their excuse is? An excuse is an excuse and there is never a good one for cheating.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 04/08/09 11:35 AM
Cheaters have no soul or feelings. I'm a victim of a cheater.

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Wed 04/08/09 03:47 PM
For the thrill of it ain't that a b!tch

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Wed 04/08/09 03:52 PM Edited by Jess642 on Wed 04/08/09 04:03 PM
Cheat? How so? Is it the sexual act? Or the deception? Is it being deceived that stings? Or the fact that a romantic partner had a sexual moment, with someone other than you? I wonder what is the core of the pain, so many feel... I have never felt disappointed by infidelity....I haven't felt devastated when a partner has had sex with someone else. What stings for me, is their cowardice in not admitting it, avoiding their own truth, not taking responsibility for themselves...I dislike intensely, weakness...in myself, or another.

atlgirl2828 Joined Thu 03/19/09 Posts: 54	Wed 04/08/09 04:00 PM
Cheating is just being a coward!! Whether you are man or a woman....it is wrong!! This is why I am single today and probably will stay that way bc these days everyone seems to accept it.