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Sun 04/19/09 06:35 PM
love I have been hanging out with this awsome guy I met him online, just not on here.......anyway we conversate alot. We talk abouit everything that's really COOL! He doesn't drink at all which is good. He does not think that I should drink at all I have never drank around him. Anyway I don't drink alot,but it's fun sometimes! Well he just spent hrs telling me how bad it is & how much it ages you he is 40 & looks like he's 25! Sooooo now i'm thinking about giveing up drinking all together. He has not asked me to do this I just think i'm goingto give it up whoa slaphead What do u think about this?

SimplyElla's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:37 PM
Well Debbie.. if you are doing it for YOU then more power to you.. but if he is just talking his talk to get you to see in his way it is wrong... but your a big girl and you know whats best for you.. don't let any man no matter how good sweet cute or else let you change who you are and what you are.. you do you.. but like i said if you are doing it for YOU then more power to you!!

flowerforyou

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Sun 04/19/09 06:38 PM

love I have been hanging out with this awsome guy I met him online, just not on here.......anyway we conversate alot. We talk abouit everything that's really COOL! He doesn't drink at all which is good. He does not think that I should drink at all I have never drank around him. Anyway I don't drink alot,but it's fun sometimes! Well he just spent hrs telling me how bad it is & how much it ages you he is 40 & looks like he's 25! Sooooo now i'm thinking about giveing up drinking all together. He has not asked me to do this I just think i'm goingto give it up whoa slaphead What do u think about this?

As an Irishman I am totally against people giving up drink. It's just wrong. There's a recession, support the brewing industry!

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Sun 04/19/09 06:39 PM
He is right alcohol sucks and will turn u into a bag lady who needs it

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:39 PM
Well I drink. I'm 50. Look 40

I know ya keep yaself in great shape anyway
so I don't think the occasional drink will kill ya

Don't let a man tell ya nuttin!

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:40 PM

Well Debbie.. if you are doing it for YOU then more power to you.. but if he is just talking his talk to get you to see in his way it is wrong... but your a big girl and you know whats best for you.. don't let any man no matter how good sweet cute or else let you change who you are and what you are.. you do you.. but like i said if you are doing it for YOU then more power to you!!

flowerforyou
Thanks i'll keep that in MIND remember he has not asked me to :wink:

SimplyElla's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:41 PM


Well Debbie.. if you are doing it for YOU then more power to you.. but if he is just talking his talk to get you to see in his way it is wrong... but your a big girl and you know whats best for you.. don't let any man no matter how good sweet cute or else let you change who you are and what you are.. you do you.. but like i said if you are doing it for YOU then more power to you!!

flowerforyou
Thanks i'll keep that in MIND remember he has not asked me to :wink:


NO I know he has not asked you but he tells you how he feels and all.. best of luck to you cutie!

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Sun 04/19/09 06:42 PM
I agree with Ella - if YOU wanna do it for whatever reason, more power to ya. I wouldn't let his likes or dislikes about the matter impact your decision what so ever. flowerforyou

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Sun 04/19/09 06:42 PM
If he's already trying to change you = not good!!

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Sun 04/19/09 06:43 PM
Well, I only drink once every other year. I'm 32, but some people think I look younger. I think he might be on to something...

agbbieannie's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:44 PM
hanging out??is that men yoru dating him? If you question your own drinking you need help. do it for yoruself not to impress someone else

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:50 PM

Well I drink. I'm 50. Look 40

I know ya keep yaself in great shape anyway
so I don't think the occasional drink will kill ya

Don't let a man tell ya nuttin!
Thanks for that SWEETY! :wink:

misstina2's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:52 PM
flowerforyou I don't think giving up drinking is a big dealflowerforyou It sounds like you're ok with giving it upflowerforyou I say go for it flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 04/19/09 06:53 PM
Drink won't wreck your looks like smoking will.
I don't drink either, but don't have a problem with people that do.

SimplyElla's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:54 PM

Drink won't wreck your looks like smoking will.
I don't drink either, but don't have a problem with people that do.
blushing smooched blushing

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:58 PM
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Beer

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Sun 04/19/09 06:59 PM


Drink won't wreck your looks like smoking will.
I don't drink either, but don't have a problem with people that do.
blushing smooched blushing


Yeah but I smoke.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 04/19/09 06:59 PM

flowerforyou I don't think giving up drinking is a big dealflowerforyou It sounds like you're ok with giving it upflowerforyou I say go for it flowerforyou flowerforyou
:wink: Thanks!

Winx's photo
Sun 04/19/09 07:02 PM

love I have been hanging out with this awsome guy I met him online, just not on here.......anyway we conversate alot. We talk abouit everything that's really COOL! He doesn't drink at all which is good. He does not think that I should drink at all I have never drank around him. Anyway I don't drink alot,but it's fun sometimes! Well he just spent hrs telling me how bad it is & how much it ages you he is 40 & looks like he's 25! Sooooo now i'm thinking about giveing up drinking all together. He has not asked me to do this I just think i'm goingto give it up whoa slaphead What do u think about this?


He spent hours telling you about it? Yikes!

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Sun 04/19/09 07:10 PM


love I have been hanging out with this awsome guy I met him online, just not on here.......anyway we conversate alot. We talk abouit everything that's really COOL! He doesn't drink at all which is good. He does not think that I should drink at all I have never drank around him. Anyway I don't drink alot,but it's fun sometimes! Well he just spent hrs telling me how bad it is & how much it ages you he is 40 & looks like he's 25! Sooooo now i'm thinking about giveing up drinking all together. He has not asked me to do this I just think i'm goingto give it up whoa slaphead What do u think about this?


He spent hours telling you about it? Yikes!


I agree, sounds like he has an issue with drinking in general. I wouldn't change anything for him until you know him better. Take about 6 months of dating and then see how you feel about him and what he thinks about things.

He may have been with an alchoholic before which means he is projecting his baggage in that relationship onto you.

When we truly love someone, we love them the way they are with no stipulations or manipulations to change.

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