It seems the majority of the men on the dating sites don't fill out their profile info and then say "ask me anything and I will tell you" Man that bugs me.

Most women I know have a common complaint that their men don't share or talk about their feelings, hopes, dreams and goals. If you are starting out by saying "Ask Me" it's a pretty tell tale sign that later on in the relationship the women will have to ASK to get the guy to talk and share.

I am searching out someone who doesn't need to be asked - someone who wants to share ... someone who communicates without a prodding.

Why do you guys do this??? arrrggghhh.

my profile screams "leave me alone"

maybe theirs does too?

Oh please, my profile says alot.

good luck on your search.....

using your logic...maybe a woman is more your style????

Hello and welcome and ... oh wait ... this is one of those " why do guys _______!?!?!?!?!?!?"


oh well HI anyway

well,i can start by telling you i am a nice guy and the complaint box is down the hall and to the left be seeing you

It's her ONLY post......
Give her a break

Welcome & G'Luck! Crystal ball says"a world of knowledge lies beneath your fingertips if one shall seek"

welcome
good luck
have fun

First: Welcome to the forums. You should have a good time!

Second: Many woman's profiles say the same thing. Why? I don't know.

Thirdly: Be patient. If treasure was easy to find, it would all be gone.

Do you communicate without prodding.

Must be nice to read minds that way.

Welcome to this site

Hmm, I'm not one to put my life story out there, have you tried emailing & talking to someone that you may be interested in?

some men are like an oyster... yeah, they are hard to open... yea there may be some mess involved... but you never know until you open one if there is a pearl inside!!

first welcome to the site and the forums. Here in the forums you get to know people and see what their responses are . It does tell some about each individual. . join in .. AND not all men are what you say. some of us do want that open communication.

Paisley, I've run into the same issue. The profile is meant to be an introduction, a conversation starter, a chance to see if we have anything in common. If a guy doesn't take the time to complete his profile, I don't bother with him. If he truly wants to get a date here, he'd make the effort, right? If he can't be bothered to write an attractive blurb to start some conversation, he's probably too lazy to keep up a relationship, IMO. The profile is his chance to "sell" himself; if he's not going to take the opportunity, why is he here? Makes no sense to me. This is an ONLINE dating site, so obviously communication must be in writing.

Likewise, I don't understand not adding a pic to your profile if you're seriously looking to get a date. For most of us, there has to be a physical attraction to get us interested. A guy could be the best catch on the planet, but without a photo and an introduction, we'll never know.

Reasons why guys dont type;

1. They are too lazy.
2. They are too lazy.

3. See above.

Anything in print can come back to haunt them. Hense its easleir to lie.

OUCH tough chick lol

I do it to annoy those that actually read profiles.

mine is a piss off profile