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Topic: just not that into me?
msskarly's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:11 PM
So I went on a date tonight with a guy I had talked to for a while! We watched The Hangover together then afterwards talked about getting coffee! During the movie we held hands and cuddled up but at the end of the movie he said he was going to go home because he wasnt feeling well & gave me a hug and left... So do you guys think he really didnt feel well or just wasnt that into me!?

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:12 PM
didnt really like ya


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Sat 06/20/09 07:12 PM
movies make terrible first dates. you can't talk to each other without people shushing you

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:14 PM

movies make terrible first dates. you can't talk to each other without people shushing you


Yep, should of went for coffee. Ask him if he would like to reschedule the coffee date.

msskarly's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:15 PM
Yeah the original plan was coffee then movie, but he got lost on the way and there was no time to talk before!

shellymc's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:17 PM

Yeah the original plan was coffee then movie, but he got lost on the way and there was no time to talk before!
has he called you since the date?

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:17 PM
JMO....see if he calls before worrying....if he doesn't call you then you know to move on. I know...sucks huh? laugh

1mellowguy's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:18 PM
Your pretty cute... he must have been really sick... or gay

msskarly's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:19 PM


Yeah the original plan was coffee then movie, but he got lost on the way and there was no time to talk before!
has he called you since the date?

Yeah he text and said asked if I was going to be in Muncie for the 4th of July!? ... good sign?

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:20 PM



Yeah the original plan was coffee then movie, but he got lost on the way and there was no time to talk before!
has he called you since the date?

Yeah he text and said asked if I was going to be in Muncie for the 4th of July!? ... good sign?


Sounds interested...like I said, reschedule the date somewhere you two can talk and get to know each other.

s1nny's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:21 PM
could go either way id say.

i get sick when i get really nervous :/ everyones different.

see if he wants to try again.

shellymc's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:22 PM



Yeah the original plan was coffee then movie, but he got lost on the way and there was no time to talk before!
has he called you since the date?

Yeah he text and said asked if I was going to be in Muncie for the 4th of July!? ... good sign?
well i would say thats a great sign ..good luck :thumbsup: :heart:

FETTS61's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:25 PM
he only had x amount of time to be away from his girlfriend, so he made up being late and being sick to 2 time with you....JMOflowerforyou

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Sat 06/20/09 07:25 PM
If could ALSO be that you're unintentionally sending him signals that you aren't interested as well. That's been known to happen to me a couple of times- I'd get signals that she wasn't interested, so I'd get ready to leave, only to find that she was sending false signals all the long.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:33 PM
IMO...don't rush to conclusions....just enjoy the ride. when it's over...move on flowerforyou

1mellowguy's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:56 PM

IMO...don't rush to conclusions....just enjoy the ride. when it's over...move on flowerforyou


Man I can feel you just **** the depression out of people...lol... I will quit now, your just a good person.happy

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Sat 06/20/09 07:58 PM



Yeah the original plan was coffee then movie, but he got lost on the way and there was no time to talk before!
has he called you since the date?

Yeah he text and said asked if I was going to be in Muncie for the 4th of July!? ... good sign?


That's probably a good sign. Just make sure the next date is somewhere that you can actually talk to him.

lonetar25's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:59 PM

So I went on a date tonight with a guy I had talked to for a while! We watched The Hangover together then afterwards talked about getting coffee! During the movie we held hands and cuddled up but at the end of the movie he said he was going to go home because he wasnt feeling well & gave me a hug and left... So do you guys think he really didnt feel well or just wasnt that into me!?

he probably did run, but only because he was really nervouse about having an awkward silence over coffee. plus he might have felt a few awkward moments in the cinema and assumed you wernt that interested,
either way you dont wont to be just sitting by the phone, if he calls great, go out again and see what happens, you might decide you cant stand him. afterall youve only had 1 date.
good luck:thumbsup:

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:59 PM


IMO...don't rush to conclusions....just enjoy the ride. when it's over...move on flowerforyou


Man I can feel you just **** the depression out of people...lol... I will quit now, your just a good person.happy


sure beats a swift kick in the butt though laugh

1mellowguy's photo
Sat 06/20/09 08:02 PM



IMO...don't rush to conclusions....just enjoy the ride. when it's over...move on flowerforyou


Man I can feel you just **** the depression out of people...lol... I will quit now, your just a good person.happy


sure beats a swift kick in the butt though laugh


a good smack in the back of the head works for me slaphead

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