I am sure we have all seen a lot of these.

When the voice says 'I'm committed' but the actions show otherwise(or so it seems to you at the time).

What are some of things people do that send the message 'I might not really be committed'?

Perhaps if we examine some of them we can all learn not to send those messages... and benefit from it.

I don't think I want them to learn how not send the message. I think it would be better for them to actually be committed.

What if you are totally committed but something you are doing (without even realizing it) causes your partner to feel you are?
you might be suprised.

If she brings her boy toy home to meet you, she's probably not committed.

If you're both totally committed, then a conversation should go a long way towards resolving it.

let me tell you what's NOT a statement that i'm not into her. if i'm in a really bad mood and i say i'd like to be alone for a while to unwind. just because your in a relationship does not mean you have to be all over each others' business constantly.

if she cuts off your thingy and feeds it to the dog

then she`s probably, just not that into you

I agree. I believe couples,okay in my case if/when I am 1/2 of a couple,we need to have some time apart. Whether it's to spend some time with an activity the partner is not into or maybe just a time 1 wants to be alone to think,talk to God,just ponder life. I didn't feel this way when I was young,but by about 37 I was no longer clingy or insecure about what he was doing without me. I feel it is good for the relationship to be apart now and then, but most of the time doing things together jmo

When they want to go out and do things without you

I must disagree. Just because someone wants to do things that the other may find dull doesn't mean they aren't commited. For example, I am a musician. I'm not going to bring my girlfriend to a band prectice twice a week because she'd be bored out of her mind and I'd be ignoring her.

Having a life outside your relationship is a good thing. It allows you to have something to talk about when you are together.

Good point

He only drives the half hour to see you on the weekends and then b*tches about gas money it takes to see you.

Yea... been there.

if you meet your current girlfriend at a family reunion you migh....

oops, wrong topic again

uuuuhhhhhh *backs out quietly*

I'd probably figure it out after I saw

The girlfriend
The wife
The boyfriend

Boils down to simple: ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS

nuff said

Melody

Restraining Order

Some still don't get it after the papers have been served.

someone once said to me "you can say what you want but your actions will prove the story" so you really need to base it on actions and not words. remember we can say what we want and what we would like to happen but our actions ultimately prove if we mean it or not

anybody who ******* about driving 30 minutes is a whiny little baby.