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Topic: big problem
Maudred's photo
Mon 09/21/09 05:03 AM
Big problem of mine is when I find someone I like..I usually try to rush things. Anyone else have this issue?

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 09/21/09 05:05 AM
Nope.

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/21/09 05:08 AM
boy why u in a hurry to get them knocked up?laugh flowerforyou

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Mon 09/21/09 05:12 AM

boy why u in a hurry to get them knocked up?laugh flowerforyou

whoa noway

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/21/09 05:14 AM


boy why u in a hurry to get them knocked up?laugh flowerforyou

whoa noway



gm poet :tongue: laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 09/21/09 07:10 AM

Big problem of mine is when I find someone I like..I usually try to rush things. Anyone else have this issue?


Stop rushing things?

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Mon 09/21/09 07:13 AM
Just relax and enjoy getting to know her.

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 09/21/09 07:14 AM

Big problem of mine is when I find someone I like..I usually try to rush things. Anyone else have this issue?


no

newarkjw's photo
Mon 09/21/09 07:37 AM
Exactly what are you rushing?...............smokin

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 09/21/09 07:39 AM

Exactly what are you rushing?...............smokin


get layed?

RKISIT's photo
Mon 09/21/09 07:41 AM

Big problem of mine is when I find someone I like..I usually try to rush things. Anyone else have this issue?
i usually walk around things,i bet you have alot of bruises:smile:

May777's photo
Mon 09/21/09 07:43 AM
it`s exciting,...feels good,..adrenaline pumping,..hard to put the brakes on,..

but like a candle,.do you light it with a torch,..or a match







newarkjw's photo
Mon 09/21/09 07:51 AM


Exactly what are you rushing?...............smokin


get layed?


I see.... I thought he was trying to get married or something...noway

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 09/21/09 07:57 AM



Exactly what are you rushing?...............smokin


get layed?


I see.... I thought he was trying to get married or something...noway



newarkjw's photo
Mon 09/21/09 08:05 AM

it`s exciting,...feels good,..adrenaline pumping,..hard to put the brakes on,..

but like a candle,.do you light it with a torch,..or a match









I tend to use a Bic lighter. They last longer........smokin

bikerbabe63's photo
Mon 09/21/09 08:08 AM

it`s exciting,...feels good,..adrenaline pumping,..hard to put the brakes on,..

but like a candle,.do you light it with a torch,..or a match







telekinisissurprised laugh

tngxl65's photo
Mon 09/21/09 08:21 AM

Big problem of mine is when I find someone I like..I usually try to rush things. Anyone else have this issue?


Well, it's not uncommon. The problem is that most of the time there's this mad rush at the beginning, then there's the let down as one or both of you react to the change in your life, or have a change of heart, or whatever.

Personally, I think people don't know how to date anymore. They rush in to the relationship without even knowing their new 'love'. Dating really should be about getting to know someone... even multiple someones. It's just as much about finding out about yourself as it is finding out about the people you date. And after you've dated for a while it will become more apparent whether you feel like they are compatible with you and whether you might want to step it up and date exclusively. Instead people tend to jump right to the "Hey, I think I might want to marry you. Let's spend every waking moment together" which often leads to a harsh realization shortly after.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 09/21/09 08:32 AM
you know it's gonna be good when they are as enthusiastic as you are!!

drinker

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Mon 09/21/09 08:45 AM
I think many of us do!!!! but honestly the right one will let you be you.. just try to slow down and keep your options open

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Mon 09/21/09 08:52 AM
Nooooo, I don't rush anything, I just walk away, nice and slowwwww....

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