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Topic: What annoys you in a relationship?
jadday Joined Wed 08/19/09 Posts: 4894	Mon 02/01/10 10:38 PM
Lies annoy me....even little ones because I will adventually find out the truth and then be really mad! Just tell me the darn truth already!!

che_ Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 8412	Mon 02/01/10 10:40 PM
secrets

CatsLoveMe Joined Wed 09/16/09 Posts: 4522	Tue 02/02/10 08:37 AM
Make a mental comparison list or even on paper, of everything you do for them, and everything they do for you. If your list far outweighs theirs, you probably shouldn't be with them, they're not contributing to a healthy loving relationship.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 02/02/10 08:41 AM
I hate when they try to crawl inside my wallet..... And then try to live there!!!!

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 02/02/10 09:42 AM
When a guy tells me he's going to call me, but he never does. Once makes me mad, but I get over it quickly. Repeatedly doing it shows me that you're not too serious about me. I'll call you tomorrow, I promise.

HannahHatesBananas Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 6829	Tue 02/02/10 10:09 AM
no sense of humor arrogance

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Tue 02/02/10 10:11 AM
bananas

HannahHatesBananas Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 6829	Tue 02/02/10 10:11 AM
right, forgot about that

XenomorphEyez Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 923	Tue 02/02/10 10:20 AM
Someone that is too clingy and needy.

che_ Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 8412	Tue 02/02/10 01:56 PM
Control

CatsLoveMe Joined Wed 09/16/09 Posts: 4522	Tue 02/02/10 02:22 PM
Lack of control over their emotions, specifically anger.

Meg8771 Joined Fri 01/16/09 Posts: 5662	Tue 02/02/10 02:25 PM
Negativity...condescending...the "Eeyore" syndrome. I like to be happy and it doesn't take much. Being surrounded by someone always b!tching and moaning aggravates me.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Tue 02/02/10 02:28 PM Edited by Cutiepieforyou on Tue 02/02/10 02:29 PM
Being selfish and inconsiderate. Assuming I am thinking something when they could have asked me. Also, lying and cheating.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 02/02/10 02:32 PM
I haven't been in a relationship for so long that I'm not sure...the last, over 5 years ago was that he was an alcoholic and I couldn't handle that, then he died so it was over.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 02/02/10 08:22 PM
What is this relationship thing that you speak of?

Shasta1 Joined Wed 09/09/09 Posts: 3308	Tue 02/02/10 08:53 PM
emotional unavailabilty.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 02/02/10 09:50 PM Edited by Winx on Tue 02/02/10 09:51 PM
emotional unavailabilty. That's not good at all!

JaneStar1 Joined Tue 06/30/09 Posts: 1580	Tue 02/02/10 10:18 PM
* * * All of the traits described above are really annoying! I'm just wondering whether the partner is/have been made of gold for your tolerating that trait? ? ?

Shasta1 Joined Wed 09/09/09 Posts: 3308	Tue 02/02/10 11:09 PM
emotional unavailabilty. That's not good at all! you mean my reply or the trait? If the latter, tell me about it....

BellaOrchid Joined Sun 11/15/09 Posts: 88	Tue 02/02/10 11:15 PM
There's so many thngs tht r annoyng.. -Arguing -*** family members -Pets tht gt more attention than u -hvng 2 go 2 events n ignore the *** family members rude comments -lazy guy who wants 2 be babied -cheatng... omitting the truth/lying -poor communication The list could go on 4ever All of the issues were brought up n thts part of why the relationship ended ... thank god