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it can be good(kid's(who cares)) and it can be bad(emotional scarring that hasn't healed) depends on the person No matter what the baggage is, and I NEVER consider children baggage. It's all in how we deal with it...........  My son's are not baggage... Exactly! 
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Edited by
Tribbles
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Sun 03/14/10 08:16 PM
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Don't need you to agree with me, but your post show that you didn't read the beginning of the thread... I said that baggage has gotten a bad rep, and it can contain a lot of good things, but most folks dwell on the bad...... Yes I did read what was said. Let me rephrase what I was trying to say; People who continue to carry on their baggage tend to reflect their current situations with past ones. Once a person has emotional baggage, logic is affected and emotions are messed up. They believe everyone will do the same things the person who caused the baggage has done. Now once you overcome those issues it no longer is baggage. So with that said, Baggage contains nothing but insecurity and distrust in reality, and I see nothing good about that! |
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Why did their last relationship fail? That I think is the "real baggage." Not their current status. If you formulate an opinion on who was right and who was wrong, then you can weigh whether or not to be with them, once you know the truth.
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BAGGAGE,,,,Why YES,,I JUST CARRY MY LOWER THESE DAYS,,  I'm not touching that, T...........    OK,,,,,, ME and my big BAGGAGE
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Well for me....
Bring your life experience and put it beside mine at the foot of the bed! But not the crap!! I really don't want to hear what a crazy biotch the ex was! I won't tell ya that either!!!  |
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If you think your "baggage" will somehow help this new relationship, then fine, claim your baggage. If not, it's lost, fuhgeddaboutit, it never happened, it's a void in your life, and you should enjoy living in the here and now instead of lamenting about what might have been.
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Life experience is not baggage; its simply life experience and you have learned something from it; even grown. Baggage is something that you carry around because you have not accepted or gotten over a bad experience so you carry it as burden, and have not learned anything from it. From time to time we all need to unload the baggage as it will surely drag you down.
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