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Topic: When in a relationship...
ambuh_massacre's photo
Mon 03/15/10 11:57 PM
Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other?

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 03/15/10 11:58 PM
I think both should be understanding and should respect that

no photo
Mon 03/15/10 11:59 PM
I'm not sure, I've never had a relationship, and I got rid of my friends. I'd like to think if I had both, I'd try to make equal time for them.

EquusDancer's photo
Mon 03/15/10 11:59 PM
Agrees with Kim.

And believes in getting rid of one or the other if people can't share. Control issues are a problem.

74Drew's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:00 AM

Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other?

S.O. and if you're friends are really friends, they'll get it. but you should never blow off plans with one for the other. if you have something pre-arranged with one, the other should respect that. besides, who are you going to eventually walk down the aisle with, your friends or your S.O.?

JMO


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74Drew's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:01 AM

I'm not sure, I've never had a relationship, and I got rid of my friends. I'd like to think if I had both, I'd try to make equal time for them.
who are you and why are you copying me? i did that also.


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IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:01 AM
Kim's right...

no photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:03 AM


I'm not sure, I've never had a relationship, and I got rid of my friends. I'd like to think if I had both, I'd try to make equal time for them.
who are you and why are you copying me? i did that also.


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laugh Did yours want you to be their secret friend and get together behind your back for outings and then tell you about it later?

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:03 AM
:banana: I'm right!!!! woo hoo :banana:

ambuh_massacre's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:04 AM


Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other?

S.O. and if you're friends are really friends, they'll get it. but you should never blow off plans with one for the other. if you have something pre-arranged with one, the other should respect that. besides, who are you going to eventually walk down the aisle with, your friends or your S.O.?

JMO


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Thank you! Finally someone who agrees with me! This is why my last relationship ended; because he would rather hang out with his friends than me. So I just wanted to get other opinions on the subject. lol.

74Drew's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:05 AM



I'm not sure, I've never had a relationship, and I got rid of my friends. I'd like to think if I had both, I'd try to make equal time for them.
who are you and why are you copying me? i did that also.


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laugh Did yours want you to be their secret friend and get together behind your back for outings and then tell you about it later?

nope, mine all wanted to do things to make me look bad so that they would look good. so, i kicked 'em all to the curb. but, also no relationships.


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FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:06 AM

Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other?


Doesn't matter, usually the 'significant other' is buried under my...err, sorry, erhm...oh, yes, I left something on the stove...

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:07 AM
there has to be a balance...sometimes it's a fine line. You don't get rid of friends but the new SO is important too.

Both the friends and SO should understand that. If they don't then they have the problem.

74Drew's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:08 AM



Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other?

S.O. and if you're friends are really friends, they'll get it. but you should never blow off plans with one for the other. if you have something pre-arranged with one, the other should respect that. besides, who are you going to eventually walk down the aisle with, your friends or your S.O.?

JMO


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Thank you! Finally someone who agrees with me! This is why my last relationship ended; because he would rather hang out with his friends than me. So I just wanted to get other opinions on the subject. lol.

you also have to realize that you're young and that most people don't understand this sort of thing until they're older if ever. i just realize that i'm never going to be everything to somebody. as long as i'm a large part of their life, that's cool with me.


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74Drew's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:08 AM

:banana: I'm right!!!! woo hoo :banana:

you don't have to brag about it.


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no photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:08 AM


Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other?


Doesn't matter, usually the 'significant other' is buried under my...err, sorry, erhm...oh, yes, I left something on the stove...


Cooking Nice Guy again?:wink:

kc0003's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:09 AM
each has a place and neither should affect the other.

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:09 AM


:banana: I'm right!!!! woo hoo :banana:

you don't have to brag about it.


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She's not bragging darlin', she's just SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad she's finally right... laugh laugh laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:11 AM



:banana: I'm right!!!! woo hoo :banana:

you don't have to brag about it.


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She's not bragging darlin', she's just SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad she's finally right... laugh laugh laugh

drinker laugh drinker

ambuh_massacre's photo
Tue 03/16/10 12:11 AM




Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other?

S.O. and if you're friends are really friends, they'll get it. but you should never blow off plans with one for the other. if you have something pre-arranged with one, the other should respect that. besides, who are you going to eventually walk down the aisle with, your friends or your S.O.?

JMO


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Thank you! Finally someone who agrees with me! This is why my last relationship ended; because he would rather hang out with his friends than me. So I just wanted to get other opinions on the subject. lol.

you also have to realize that you're young and that most people don't understand this sort of thing until they're older if ever. i just realize that i'm never going to be everything to somebody. as long as i'm a large part of their life, that's cool with me.


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Yeah. =/ I don't want to be someone's everything because that's asking for too much, but I would like to have someone appreciate me.

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