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OMG the "why's"... I went out with a guy around 3 times and decided we were 2 different people and it wasn't going to go anywhere... I was honest and explained to him that exactly that.. I thought it sounded nice and not mean.... He asked "why", I kept saying I don't really think we need to go into the "why's" just leave it at I'm sure we're not compatible... He wouldn't let it go... Said he wouldn't be mad.. Wow!!! I should have never believed that.. I told him why which I didn't say in a mean way... Well, I was called an F'n B*tch over and over, his friends emailed me, he stalked me... I finally had to block him in every way possible... sometimes honest doesn't work out well... I've learned avoidance.... that's what we call an insecure azzhole. there are lots of those out there. i don't need to know why. i just assume it was something i said/didn't say or did/didn't do. . . . If most were like you it wouldn't be so hard... Chances are she's had some bad experiences... But then again she could just be thinking and getting back to you later.... |
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Drew I do appreciate your post. I guess ignoring them probably isn't the best way to go. I really didn't realize it could affect someone that much by ignoring them on a message board. Especially when it's not face to face contact. But, you're right. A simple "no thanks" or "not interested" should suffice. ((((Drew))))
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If most were like you it wouldn't be so hard... Chances are she's had some bad experiences... But then again she could just be thinking and getting back to you later.... i'm sure that's the case. still not holding my breath though. . . . |
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If most were like you it wouldn't be so hard... Chances are she's had some bad experiences... But then again she could just be thinking and getting back to you later.... i'm sure that's the case. still not holding my breath though. . . . you're loved and lusted by many 
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Drew I do appreciate your post. I guess ignoring them probably isn't the best way to go. I really didn't realize it could affect someone that much by ignoring them on a message board. Especially when it's not face to face contact. But, you're right. A simple "no thanks" or "not interested" should suffice. ((((Drew)))) thanks. common courtesy is already in rapid decline in our face to face society. if we don't use it in our online interactions, it will decline even more in our everyday lives. we will become so accustomed to the impersonal electronic interaction that we won't notice when we don't see it in our physical environments. . . . |
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74Drew
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Fri 03/19/10 11:23 PM
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If most were like you it wouldn't be so hard... Chances are she's had some bad experiences... But then again she could just be thinking and getting back to you later.... i'm sure that's the case. still not holding my breath though. . . . you're loved and lusted by many . . . |
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how about some role reversal. would you rather hear "not interested" or "....................."? i don't think anyone prefers being ignored over being told the truth. . . . Take a look at your profile & you'll see why they run away!! That's some scary ----!!! I'd run too!!!!  true, true. but i don't use this site as a place to meet women. and if i was looking to meet women here, i hope that they would spend time in the forums and learn about me from my interactions. most of what i've said in my mingle profile is bunk. . . . |
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If most were like you it wouldn't be so hard... Chances are she's had some bad experiences... But then again she could just be thinking and getting back to you later.... i'm sure that's the case. still not holding my breath though. . . . you're loved and lusted by many . . . I know better, I've seen you/them in the forums... 
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If most were like you it wouldn't be so hard... Chances are she's had some bad experiences... But then again she could just be thinking and getting back to you later.... i'm sure that's the case. still not holding my breath though. . . . you're loved and lusted by many . . . I know better, I've seen you/them in the forums... . . . |
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Ok I'm going to try an experiment... I'm going to tell those I'm not interested in that I'm not interested... How should I say it that they "shouldn't" be offended? I know I'm going to get nasty responses but I'm going to do this just for you Drew... You can pay me back by taking my car for an oil change...  That's the point. I always used to respond "not interested." But then they'd come back and ask why not. Or get nasty about it. |
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how about some role reversal. would you rather hear "not interested" or "....................."? i don't think anyone prefers being ignored over being told the truth. . . . Take a look at your profile & you'll see why they run away!! That's some scary ----!!! I'd run too!!!! true, true. but i don't use this site as a place to meet women. and if i was looking to meet women here, i hope that they would spend time in the forums and learn about me from my interactions. most of what i've said in my mingle profile is bunk. . . . Just giving you a hard time Bud!!  I took a look at your profile & it's like dang...I ran out!!!  
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Ok I'm going to try an experiment... I'm going to tell those I'm not interested in that I'm not interested... How should I say it that they "shouldn't" be offended? I know I'm going to get nasty responses but I'm going to do this just for you Drew... You can pay me back by taking my car for an oil change... That's the point. I always used to respond "not interested." But then they'd come back and ask why not. Or get nasty about it. That's what I've been saying Cher... Most don't take rejection very well no matter how nicely it's delivered... |
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Ok I'm going to try an experiment... I'm going to tell those I'm not interested in that I'm not interested... How should I say it that they "shouldn't" be offended? I know I'm going to get nasty responses but I'm going to do this just for you Drew... You can pay me back by taking my car for an oil change... That's the point. I always used to respond "not interested." But then they'd come back and ask why not. Or get nasty about it. That's what I've been saying Cher... Most don't take rejection very well no matter how nicely it's delivered... I know--I'm agreeing with ya girlie! 
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how about some role reversal. would you rather hear "not interested" or "....................."? i don't think anyone prefers being ignored over being told the truth. . . . Take a look at your profile & you'll see why they run away!! That's some scary ----!!! I'd run too!!!! true, true. but i don't use this site as a place to meet women. and if i was looking to meet women here, i hope that they would spend time in the forums and learn about me from my interactions. most of what i've said in my mingle profile is bunk. . . . Just giving you a hard time Bud!! I took a look at your profile & it's like dang...I ran out!!! lol that's kind of the point. . . . |
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Ok I'm going to try an experiment... I'm going to tell those I'm not interested in that I'm not interested... How should I say it that they "shouldn't" be offended? I know I'm going to get nasty responses but I'm going to do this just for you Drew... You can pay me back by taking my car for an oil change... That's the point. I always used to respond "not interested." But then they'd come back and ask why not. Or get nasty about it. That's what I've been saying Cher... Most don't take rejection very well no matter how nicely it's delivered... I know--I'm agreeing with ya girlie! I know hon, I was just updating you on my repetitions....
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Ok I'm going to try an experiment... I'm going to tell those I'm not interested in that I'm not interested... How should I say it that they "shouldn't" be offended? I know I'm going to get nasty responses but I'm going to do this just for you Drew... You can pay me back by taking my car for an oil change... That's the point. I always used to respond "not interested." But then they'd come back and ask why not. Or get nasty about it. That's what I've been saying Cher... Most don't take rejection very well no matter how nicely it's delivered... I know--I'm agreeing with ya girlie! I know hon, I was just updating you on my repetitions.... Thank you for that. You know how slow I can be...
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Ok I'm going to try an experiment... I'm going to tell those I'm not interested in that I'm not interested... How should I say it that they "shouldn't" be offended? I know I'm going to get nasty responses but I'm going to do this just for you Drew... You can pay me back by taking my car for an oil change... That's the point. I always used to respond "not interested." But then they'd come back and ask why not. Or get nasty about it. That's what I've been saying Cher... Most don't take rejection very well no matter how nicely it's delivered... I know--I'm agreeing with ya girlie! I know hon, I was just updating you on my repetitions.... Thank you for that. You know how slow I can be... And I'm a dead horse beater...  Seriously, I need to get a life besides here and work...
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Ok I'm going to try an experiment... I'm going to tell those I'm not interested in that I'm not interested... How should I say it that they "shouldn't" be offended? I know I'm going to get nasty responses but I'm going to do this just for you Drew... You can pay me back by taking my car for an oil change... That's the point. I always used to respond "not interested." But then they'd come back and ask why not. Or get nasty about it. That's what I've been saying Cher... Most don't take rejection very well no matter how nicely it's delivered... I know--I'm agreeing with ya girlie! I know hon, I was just updating you on my repetitions.... Thank you for that. You know how slow I can be... And I'm a dead horse beater... Seriously, I need to get a life besides here and work... Maybe we should take the 12-step program together... |
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