some peoply say ,"age just a number" but yet it causes so much problem in a relationship everybody is entitled to their own opinion but i do believe that a 40yr old can find happiness in the arms of a younglin maybe i am wrong

Everything we were taught is an illusion! Paris Hilton swears up and down the old man she married loved her and she loved him. I don't read minds and I am sure the media can't either but the money did raise questions. SO what? Even if she did do it for the money screw everyone else. She caught the eye of a wealthy old man and took advantage of the situation and many of the women talking crap about her are more jealous than anything else she hit it so lucky. Not bad for a stripper aye?

Everyone has different needs. Some of them are way off base (like men involved with NAMBLA. Men like you are a pack of degenerate perverts! Everyone else, look up who they are and you will be appalled. I promise that!) while some of them are just plain left field i.e. Tantric sex or non contact sexuality. Some people just can't live alone but hate sex all together. Our needs are as diverse as stars in the sky. Attitude and what is 'in your head' has a lot to do with what your idea of happiness is. I have had a GF in the past 16 years younger than me and mommy and daddy didn't like it at all except I was the first BF she had who wasn't a jailbird (her previous BFs were guys her parents approved of and all of them were in and out of jail). She was the first GF I had in a long time that really meant something to me and that was taken away from me so all I can say is whatever your dream is to chase it but like a good hunter know when the prey is going to make you waste your time. You know what you want but don't count on the other person wanting what you do. Sometimes we just got to focus on ourselves and when whatever happens it happens and you got to not be blind or hesitant to jump when the opportunity arises (except when catching an STD is involved!).

Even then every thing has some kind of consequence good or bad. I don't understand why I like younger women more myself but women my age I just don't relate to to well. It is like I am in the wrong place in my life at the wrong time. Could be deeper instincts. Could be a lot of things. I think that is the thing about the game of love is that there are so many arbitrary rules and unspoken crap as well. Then religion, human nature, and a bunch of other psychological crap as well. Humans are just needful creatures I guess. It is exactly like flying blind. Every relationship is different and you have to go on 'feel' alone day to day.

I guess the best thing to say is don't hate the player, hate the game!

i think "age just a number as long as you are happy dose it mater

Wait Andy, you keep saying Paris Hilton married an older man.. Did I miss that while on vacation??? WTH? lol...

Andy, did you mean Anna Nicole Smith instead of Paris Hilton?

Actually I am wrong! I can't remember the name of Paris Hilton's friend who did!!!!!!! Crap I am looking that up before shutting down to get my facts straight unless someone beats me to that punch!

That's what I thought the other day but then he said it again, now I'm very confused....



And why are there 2 of these threads? That's confusing me even more...

Beaten to the punch! THANK YOU ! It was Anna Nichole Smith! Delilady thank you!

you're welcome

Andy, Paris Hilton was friends with Nicole Richie not Anna Nicole.. I'm gonna order you a subscription to "People"

Ermm Andy?
Is using Anna Nicole Smith as an example a good idea?

I was wondering the same thing. They need to be merged into one thread, if possible....

The other is gone, lost all the posts....

actually "age" is a word

32 is a number

yeah..a lot of good it did her, more money to kill herself with. Sad and tragic!

but doesn't that old phart have a big smile on his face?

Sick as this may sound what if the old coot had a hogleg down there and after a hand full of viagra and a line of blow he didn't suddenly have the momentum of a porn star???

I know I know! I have seen a picture of an Indian gentleman (and I mean a really old one without any teeth!) married to a very young teenage girl. She was grinning like Anna Nichole too.


$ talks and the rest walk! Case closed Skully?

Thank GOD I don't look like that. I want to be rich and still on my own two feet.

PS. Paris was friends with a lot of people. I just don't follow the trendy set. I ain't into that drama. Some of the stuff those people pull makes me laugh.

Why are there 2 threads..just wondering