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I try to never "assume" anything.. If I'm in a relationship it's b/c we both want to be there and we've discussed it.. Don't get me wrong, sometimes it "just happens" but if that's the case then both want to be there....
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I think too much assuming can be a disaster....
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I think too much assuming can be a disaster.... |
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Yeah, it's not good to just take it for granted.
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When you do the "Western Grebe" dance together...
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I would say when two come to the agreement not to see anyone else but each other and make it exclusive. And normally if your still dating after 3-4 dates and both are enjoying each other then your pretty much on your way......
But........even then nothing is guaranteed how long it will last just enjoy what you have when you have it.............. |
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At what point (to you) does it become a relationship? When it is expressed? after a certain number of dates and/or communication? It ought to be explicitly discussed. Everyone has different standards and subcultural norms, and there has been a huge amount of heart break and needless resentment and negativity because of assumptions people have made about where they stood with someone. So in my book, its not a committed relationship until both parties explicitly state their level of interest. |
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