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Topic: What Happens When You are Dating a Married Man?
Rhaaankhan's photo
Sat 03/20/10 10:13 PM
Dating a married man is one such challenge, that some women may find quite alluring. What is it that attracts women to married men? Falling in love with a married man offers a thrilling and exciting experience for women who are fed up of their humdrum life. This experience is full of challenges and women who love challenges simply grab this opportunity. This also means a safe game for women who are reluctant to commit and expect the same of their partner. Since affair with a married man doesn't need to be sealed with a ring, these women can have their cake and eat it too. Sometimes, the attraction towards married men stems from childhood trauma, wherein the woman may have experienced a feeling of abandonment. Some women, who may find it unable to get a man of their own, find great pleasure in stealing someone else's husband. In certain rare cases, a woman may be genuinely in love with a married man, who in turn may also reciprocate her feelings. This is where the real problem lies. If its a fling for thrill, then the two parties involved will eventually go their own ways, but if they are genuinely in love with each other, the relationship can be traumatic for them as well as their respective families.
Although, dating a married man is not essentially a sin, it is certainly not socially acceptable.;-)

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Sat 03/20/10 10:16 PM
:tongue: very informative:tongue:

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Sat 03/20/10 10:16 PM
I don't know. I would never, ever, date a married man. I would never date an engaged man. I would never date a man that has any ties to another woman in any way. I wouldn't date a man that's separated. Just wouldn't. flowerforyou noway

AndyBgood's photo
Sat 03/20/10 10:16 PM
I think because some women feed on taking things from other women. Control issue type stuff. Others do not want their indiscretions getting out so they think married men can keep their mouths shut. Other women just get a f****d up kick out of screwing married men. Their reasons are as many as stars in the night sky.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/20/10 10:20 PM
OP, you have a good point BUT what about the person that is married? It takes two to tango. The married person is the one that made a commitment to someone else not the 3rd person.

Rhaaankhan's photo
Sat 03/20/10 10:27 PM
To be very honest, there is no future when you are dating a married man.Dating a married man is not at all a gratifying relationship. You will be left alone more often than you think, as the man has his responsibilities towards his wife and children. He won't be available on weekends and vacation, as it is essentially a 'family time'.
However, if you are dating a married man who is separated from his wife you may have a chance of starting a life with this man.

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Sat 03/20/10 10:30 PM

I don't know. I would never, ever, date a married man. I would never date an engaged man. I would never date a man that has any ties to another woman in any way. I wouldn't date a man that's separated. Just wouldn't. flowerforyou noway


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Sat 03/20/10 10:32 PM

Dating a married man is one such challenge, that some women may find quite alluring. What is it that attracts women to married men? Falling in love with a married man offers a thrilling and exciting experience for women who are fed up of their humdrum life. This experience is full of challenges and women who love challenges simply grab this opportunity. This also means a safe game for women who are reluctant to commit and expect the same of their partner. Since affair with a married man doesn't need to be sealed with a ring, these women can have their cake and eat it too. Sometimes, the attraction towards married men stems from childhood trauma, wherein the woman may have experienced a feeling of abandonment. Some women, who may find it unable to get a man of their own, find great pleasure in stealing someone else's husband. In certain rare cases, a woman may be genuinely in love with a married man, who in turn may also reciprocate her feelings. This is where the real problem lies. If its a fling for thrill, then the two parties involved will eventually go their own ways, but if they are genuinely in love with each other, the relationship can be traumatic for them as well as their respective families.
Although, dating a married man is not essentially a sin, it is certainly not socially acceptable.;-)


Is this the 'voice of experience' or just wishful thinking ... ?

darkowl1's photo
Sat 03/20/10 10:42 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Sat 03/20/10 10:44 PM
i know a number of married women that screw around on their husbands, and they love the naughtiness of it. one such girl goes as far as giving all the head she can to the biggest wangs she can find, to belittle her husband behind his back......awful!

others want to be dominated by a man, and please him, and not please her husband.

on the other hand, men....... i've seen MOST, NOT ALL, men cheat, EVERY CHANCE THEY GET. i worked as a bill collector for such businesses, and had to "persuade" them to pay the business for which they ordered, and many stars, rock and movie stars are ruthless cheaters when on set or on tour. i've had to pull a few out of trailers or buses to get the point across. one such star, peed his robe.

Rhaaankhan's photo
Sat 03/20/10 10:54 PM
This types relationship are short period and
This can happen in the work place or during a business trip. Physical attraction and falling in love aren’t two sentiments you can program with a turn on/turn off button. Sparks fly and before you know it, a single woman and a married man are in love. That’s when the entanglement begins because the relationship will have to go “underground.”
ADVICE : If women feel they’re getting too attached with their married doctors, lawyers and accountants, then they should make an effort to go out and meet more men. Men who are available.

Queene123's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:00 PM
i actualy dated a guy that had been separated from his wife for 5yrs and there was no way of them getting back they ddint even talk.
i was with him for 2yrs and i even help him with his divorce papers
and of course i broke up with him later for i was suporting his butt i was working 3 jobs and all he would do was play on the computer
he got married a few yrs ago and im pretty sure she supporting him


other than that i wouldnt have a fling with anyone that was married or had a gf

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Sat 03/20/10 11:09 PM
IF you are relationship with a married man and it is the worst thing You ever did. If He cheat on their wife and they will cheat on you. No one should be dating a married man or woman.
Dating such people ruins relationships and destroys the sanctity of marriage.

Queene123's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:25 PM
Edited by Queene123 on Sat 03/20/10 11:26 PM
he had already been apart from his exwife when i met him.. and like i said he wasent even talking to her. and he didnt cheat on her she was the one that cheated on him..... im not even with him anymore thats been yrs ago...

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Sat 03/20/10 11:28 PM
OP must be a married man!smokin

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Sat 03/20/10 11:29 PM

OP must be a married man!smokin

Yeah, ya get that feelin' don't cha? winking :thumbsup:

Rhaaankhan's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:32 PM
In most cases, the married men not only lie to the Other Woman, they try every way to cover the affair and lie to their wives .

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Sat 03/20/10 11:33 PM

In most cases, the married men not only lie to the Other Woman, they try every way to cover the affair and lie to their wives .


Really? You seem to have a wealth of knowledge on this subject. How do you know so much if you don't mind me asking? flowerforyou

Rhaaankhan's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:40 PM
Is all experience .. ;-)

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Sat 03/20/10 11:40 PM

Is all experience .. ;-)


Just what I thought. Carry on. Good luck and all that. waving surprised

BL4766's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:43 PM


Is all experience .. ;-)


Just what I thought. Carry on. Good luck and all that. waving surprised

yep................I KNEW IT TOO!!!!whoa
acts kinda PROUD about cheating on his wife by having affairs
with women!!!!slaphead whoa LIES GET YOU NOWHERE!!!!!:wink:

you say no one should be dating a married man???? then WHY ARE YOU DOING IT????noway

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