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Topic: Well I need ur guys help here...Help..
AGoodGuy1026's photo
Thu 03/25/10 11:25 AM
i agree with some above, he's not into you...

IMHO - If I am into a woman, I will call her.

He said "call me"
you texted him, he replies after an hour...
nothing for two days
you texted him again, he replies after an hour...
you dont hear from him in 2 days...

he's not thinking about you at all *sorry*

se la vie - move on... NEXT!

$.02 drinker

no photo
Thu 03/25/10 11:40 AM

i agree with some above, he's not into you...

IMHO - If I am into a woman, I will call her.

He said "call me"
you texted him, he replies after an hour...
nothing for two days
you texted him again, he replies after an hour...
you dont hear from him in 2 days...

he's not thinking about you at all *sorry*

se la vie - move on... NEXT!

$.02 drinker


What he said. :thumbsup:

CatsLoveMe's photo
Thu 03/25/10 11:41 AM
Ina, indulge me. What is your nationality, where are you from? Not that it's vitally important, but it might help to paint the picture. By the way, the guy you liked was a dill-weed, don't worry about him anymore. Plenty of Fish. :wink: How long have you been out of a relationship, and what are you looking for? Yes, "Mr. Dillweed" couldn't pick up the phone for 5 minutes and talk to you. I'm sorry, but everyone can excuse themselves and spare 5 minutes at least. The fact that he didn't, indicates that he was indeed a dillweed. He sucks at communication, and he did you a "favor" by letting you know that early on. A blessing in disguise. I know that's a small consolation, but there are hundreds perhaps thousands of guys that would love to give you the attention you deserve, as long as you are willing to return the favor. I know you liked him, dear, but he was not the one.

no photo
Thu 03/25/10 11:44 AM
I agree, Cats, if a guy is into you, he makes the time, it doesn't take him a freaking week to call you back. And he could check in and say sorry, I can't talk long, but I was thinking of you. I used to date a guy who did that. He'd call me on his way to and from work. That is called consideration.

skydancingA's photo
Thu 03/25/10 11:55 AM

move on By the look of you you don't need a
flake like him check out chevy2

Ina, I would look at this offer :-)
hubba hubba

Ina0017's photo
Fri 03/26/10 12:59 AM
I'm european and my way of thinking about how a gay should persue a woman is so different I see from that way the guys think here. By the way he text me firstafter we meet and kissed and talk and huged and after HE asked me for my phone nr. What I feel is that he did like me BUT he is ina relationship where he has limited time and oviestly he can't talk bcause he may be cut...He did text so he will get in contact with me but because I asked him to call me and he maybe felt pushed by me, he got scared that all the new thing with me will blow on his girls face. That's why he stoped.
SORRY FOR MY TYPO MISTAKES blushing

Jtevans's photo
Fri 03/26/10 01:01 AM
if my phone was working i'd give you my # flowerforyou

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Fri 03/26/10 01:15 AM

I'm european and my way of thinking about how a gay should persue a woman is so different I see from that way the guys think here. By the way he text me firstafter we meet and kissed and talk and huged and after HE asked me for my phone nr. What I feel is that he did like me BUT he is ina relationship where he has limited time and oviestly he can't talk bcause he may be cut...He did text so he will get in contact with me but because I asked him to call me and he maybe felt pushed by me, he got scared that all the new thing with me will blow on his girls face. That's why he stoped.
SORRY FOR MY TYPO MISTAKES blushing


Alrighty, you didn't mention his girlfriend before, so that changes everything. In that case, I take back everything I said in my earlier posts on this thread.....

no photo
Fri 03/26/10 01:20 AM
Yeah, he has a girlfriend already and was looking for a little something 'extra' on the side.


Next.

Ina0017's photo
Fri 03/26/10 10:41 AM
...Oh I don't know if he has one..I just feel like he may have one. My gut is telling me that...

LewisW123's photo
Fri 03/26/10 10:56 AM

I think I am a old style...I think a guys has to make the move...I know, I know it's stupid, on this century is not that same..But I still feel that a gay has to be the one. I told him there that I want HIM to call me and he said OK.
I'm sad that I coldn't even go out with him on a real date and get to know each other... I'm so sad..I really liked him.




I like old style


CatsLoveMe's photo
Fri 03/26/10 12:18 PM


I think I am a old style...I think a guys has to make the move...I know, I know it's stupid, on this century is not that same..But I still feel that a gay has to be the one. I told him there that I want HIM to call me and he said OK.
I'm sad that I coldn't even go out with him on a real date and get to know each other... I'm so sad..I really liked him.




I like old style




I hope you have 11 more of those Lewis! drinks drinks

msmyka's photo
Fri 03/26/10 12:30 PM
It was actually probably a good idea to get rid of his number as it will prevent you from seeming to needy of his attention. The less you act like you care the more likely he will try to pursue you. Guys like the chase and if you make it to easy they wont take you seriously.

I think you meant to say that he works a lot and has limited time and not that hes in a relationship... am I correct?

Anywho if he does call you cant just be willing to see him on his schedule. Effort has to go both ways, so make him work for it.

kc0003's photo
Fri 03/26/10 12:34 PM

It was actually probably a good idea to get rid of his number as it will prevent you from seeming to needy of his attention. The less you act like you care the more likely he will try to pursue you.




slaphead frustrated slaphead

and I thought I was just being ignored...

msmyka's photo
Fri 03/26/10 12:38 PM
I wish it were more simple and straight forward but really it seems like in the beginning there is a balance of power that needs to be established if it's going to move forward. On very rare occasions it just clicks on every level and there's no pretense or games.

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