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I'm working on lowering mine, JAG.  It's a wonderful way to be. Nothing gets to you when your " Give a Shite " level is low enough.  You speak truth.  Always. It's one of the MANY reasons I am single...lmao Nothing wrong with being single. I think it rocks, you don't have to please anyone but yourself, you don't have to put up with anyone's ********, there are no false expectations which lead to massive disappointment....it's great, I'm telling you.... Tis true. I always say that my favorite part of being single is that my dog doesn't tell me that I can't go play golf if I want to. And the cat just ignores me....lmao |
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if a guy acts like he doesn't give a **** then he really doesn't give a ****.. That's not necessarily true. Just because my G.A.S. level is low....doesn't mean I actually DON'T. lol It's always true for me, they act like they're over it, they're over it. If they were ever into it....which they usually aren't. 
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Guess what ..no all people know English very well. They may be foreigners as I am... I'm sorry if that was difficult to understand.
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it amazes me that we play these games with each other and it ends up being to our own detriment.
why can't we just tell the other person that we're interested in seeing them again and call/text them if we feel like it? why wait 3 days after waiting 3 days to hear from them? stupid games. . . . |
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Ok, one thing to say here...the 3 days waiting time wasn't a game...It was just that we meet on Sat. night and he asked me to call him. I told him "u call me" so he text me on Mon afternoon form work for the fist time.. Then I thought to myself, I will wait to see if he will call the next day. He didn't. I waited another day he didn't, so I decided to text him and ask how he is doing.. He was at work again.. He answer to me after 1 hour though and because I hate texting, especialy when it was about new feelings and a new relationship (any type of relationship), I asked if he can call me when he had a little time. That's all.
By the way I'm a foreigner so "my english" typing is not so pleasant for some of you here, but I hope you get the picture. |
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it amazes me that we play these games with each other and it ends up being to our own detriment. why can't we just tell the other person that we're interested in seeing them again and call/text them if we feel like it? why wait 3 days after waiting 3 days to hear from them? stupid games. . . .
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I understood you fine. The basic problem is that he just is not
that into you. Forget him. It is a waste of your time. You should use that energy to find and enjoy someone else who wants and is worthy of your attention. Why was he not into you? Who knows? There is no accounting for taste. But it is a good thing that you deleted all his info and messages. Nothing to be gained from those. Go out with your friends and meet some new guys. Some fun guys. Some polite and attentive guys who actually want to spend their time with you and are not too "busy". 
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Ok, one thing to say here...the 3 days waiting time wasn't a game...It was just that we meet on Sat. night and he asked me to call him. I told him "u call me" so he text me on Mon afternoon form work for the fist time.. Then I thought to myself, I will wait to see if he will call the next day. He didn't. I waited another day he didn't, so I decided to text him and ask how he is doing.. He was at work again.. He answer to me after 1 hour though and because I hate texting, especialy when it was about new feelings and a new relationship (any type of relationship), I asked if he can call me when he had a little time. That's all. By the way I'm a foreigner so "my english" typing is not so pleasant for some of you here, but I hope you get the picture. you waited to hear from him for 2 days before texting him. if you're interested, why not call him? everybody expects the other person to make the first move. so what we have is a lot of people standing in place waiting for somebody to do something. one of newton's laws of motion: an object at rest remains at rest until acted upon by some force. exercise some force and make a move. . . . |
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Ok, one thing to say here...the 3 days waiting time wasn't a game...It was just that we meet on Sat. night and he asked me to call him. I told him "u call me" so he text me on Mon afternoon form work for the fist time.. Then I thought to myself, I will wait to see if he will call the next day. He didn't. I waited another day he didn't, so I decided to text him and ask how he is doing.. He was at work again.. He answer to me after 1 hour though and because I hate texting, especialy when it was about new feelings and a new relationship (any type of relationship), I asked if he can call me when he had a little time. That's all. By the way I'm a foreigner so "my english" typing is not so pleasant for some of you here, but I hope you get the picture. Why didn't you just call him since he asked you too? It sounds like you're waiting for him to come through, but since he told you to call him, you should have taken him up on the offer. |
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I think I am a old style...I think a guys has to make the move...I know, I know it's stupid, on this century is not that same..But I still feel that a gay has to be the one. I told him there that I want HIM to call me and he said OK.
I'm sad that I coldn't even go out with him on a real date and get to know each other... I'm so sad..I really liked him. |
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We each have our preferences. Some guys go for old style, some don't. Sounds like he didn't.
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LORD is so complicated..to get to talk to someone and get to know that persone. So hard to even make him as a friend at list...OH!
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Oh, I know that!
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...so now all it's lost? Gone? Forever?
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Edited by
msharmony
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Thu 03/25/10 12:59 AM
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Oh Lord, I cant believ I'm "old" and I don't know how to deal with this Here is the story... We meet, I think we like each other.. we kissed, exchanged phone nr., he text me after 3 days asking how I am...blah, blah back in fort on the text. I texted him back after 3 days asking him how he is and asking him to call me when he has time. He said he will try but he has a trying at work... Never heard from him... That was last week... I really,REALLY like him. I wish he could know that. What to do? I got so mad at myself for being stupid that I delete his nr. and name and all text mes. form my phone. What happend there? What did I do? honestly, it could be miscommunication or disinterest....the three day interval betweene exchanging numbers and the vagueness of the conversation when he called may signal a hesitation or slight interest and perhaps your hesitation to call him back and equally vague response, gave him the impression your interest was vague as well..... call me when you have time could translate as your call isnt that urgent,,,,and perhaps he really DID have something at work this week (u said its been ONE week)? In any case, dont beat yourself up, todays mr wrong brings us that much closer to tomorrows mr right(yeah, I know, Im corny,,lol) |
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Edited by
LeighAnna9
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Thu 03/25/10 10:54 AM
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I think I am a old style...I think a guys has to make the move...I know, I know it's stupid, on this century is not that same..But I still feel that a gay has to be the one. I told him there that I want HIM to call me and he said OK. I'm sad that I coldn't even go out with him on a real date and get to know each other... I'm so sad..I really liked him. I don't think you're stupid. I'm "old style" too, I was raised to let the guy make the first move. I was raised to think that "chasing" a man made you a slut. So I don't chase men, which causes a bit of a problem, because a lot of modern men want to be chased, and if you're not willing to do it, you might get left behind, because the other modern women are giving them what they want- a chase. I guess it makes them feel powerful or something, to have women after them, I don't know, but I don't do it, and I don't suggest you do it either. I suggest you keep being yourself, you will find someone who is interested in you. I'm the same way, if a guy says he'll call, and a week goes by and he never calls, I figure he's not going to and I erase him out of my mind. And if he couldn't call in a timely fashion, he could have sent a text to say "sorry I'm tied up at work" or something, rather just ignoring you. I'm not a patient person and I have a habit of being prompt- if I say I'll call in two days, I call in two days. Unfortunately, some people either have a screwed up conception of time, or they just don't give a damn. Don't stress over it. You're an attractive lady and you seem intelligent and caring, you'll find someone who's interested in who you are. I wish you luck.
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Edited by
Kings_Knight
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Thu 03/25/10 11:18 AM
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Oh Lord, I cant believ I'm "old" and I don't know how to deal with this Here is the story... We meet, I think we like each other.. we kissed, exchanged phone nr., he text me after 3 days asking how I am...blah, blah back in fort on the text. I texted him back after 3 days asking him how he is and asking him to call me when he has time. He said he will try but he has a trying at work... Never heard from him... That was last week... I really,REALLY like him. I wish he could know that. What to do? I got so mad at myself for being stupid that I delete his nr. and name and all text mes. form my phone. What happend there? What did I do? Okay ... lemme see if I follow the timeline correctly ... Boy meets girl. Girl and boy kiss and exchange phone numbers. He WAITS three days after the meeting to text blah blah blah. You WAIT three more days to text HIM asking him to call when he has time. Ummm ... THAT right there is SIX days. Two contacts in six days is NOT even close to hot sweaty monkey lust lovin'. You're describing a casual encounter of not much significance to either party. Wouldn't there have been a greater desire (or just sense of wanting to talk more often) if the attraction had been as great as you imply? This just doesn't sound like anything earth-shattering. Let it be a 'teachable moment' and move on ... it wasn't meant to be. And no, you didn't do anything wrong. |
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UGGG people over play on words anymore! If he said call him, IF you liked him..why didn't you call? Do what YOU want to do from now on...if it doesn't feel right after you do it, then just tell them to give you a call if they have time.
Usually when a man says I will give you a call later, that can be days later!! NEVER sit around and wait for anyone to call you!! Do your own thing and IF you are there when he calls, GREAT..if not, he will call back if he is interested!!! That goes for the guys too, I am not man-bashing!! Live your life and do your own thing..I am sure the other person is doing the same thing!!! Good Luck!!!! |
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Exactly!!
If he wanted ya that bad he woulda called txted emailed just to get to talk to you!! Don't chase him!!! That's just pitiful!!! We can't always have what we want noatter how great we look in a bathing suit!!! Jk. 
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move on By the look of you you don't need a flake like him check out chevy2
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