Dont guys think that maybe just maybe a girl isnt a slut just because they ****ing gave in on having sex because they feel like they are attracted to the person and they want to show it? Im just tired of feeling alone

Everytime this happens to me it makes me resent guys or want to change every quality possible you saw in that guy to look for in another guy its painful to go through that and some guys may call girls a slut for even saying this but i bet anything that if an attractive girl walked in to your house and jumped on top of you and said "lets go" you would be led by the nose am i right? of course i am.

Some girls like myself like sex????? just maybe. and thats how they show you they are connecting with you if thats not what you want then say NO for **** SAKE dont just let it happen then fake the mutual feeling and let the girl get hurt because she was only trying to like you or connect with you or give you something special like that

sex to me is almost a joke now and i like sex very very much
im learning to be a cold heartless ***** because of dick heads like this i dont know what to do anymore :(

Yea.theirs some real dick heads out there

I too love sex...ain't nothing wrong with that

I know and ive known a lot of them im tired of knowing them i wish there was someone who knew they liked me for me before we had sex but i know if i like the person i have cloudy judgement i know i need to wait and not give it up so soon but sometimes i get tricked

Hi, I totally get what you are saying but please use punctuation, that was very hard to read.

Sadly if you don't make them work for it at least a little bit then they wont respect you. I'm not saying its right, but its just the way it is.

There is when someone gets hurt.

Brandi?

You behave!

Yeah and the sad thing is i know this, but im vulnerable. sometimes i wish a guy would take that into consideration instead of acting like a hungry wolf .

can you say, co in si dence

Life is all about taking a chance...its sex and sex is fun!!!if you don't want to get hurt, never leave your house, don't talk to anyone, but getting hurt is part of life...life would be quite boring if there wasn't any hurt

I know hun, I've been there and done that and sadly you will probably do it a few more times before you learn your lesson. I know its hard to not have sex if you're feeling that sexual chemistry right away but just try to remember how you feel right now. Which feeling is more important? No one will respect you if you don't make them.

True. Just sayin' both people have to be on "the same page" and honest with each other. Believe me, I leave the house, talk to lots of people, and have been hurt. You are right, it is part of life.

stop blameing men for your own issues

just because you cant keep your knickers on, doesnt mean men are takeing advantage of your vunerable... nes

it means they`re takeing advantage of a girl who will take her pants off for a mars bar.

and there isnt anything wrong with that

yeah but theres a limit on the hurt. I don't look for the hurt i accept it but thats not what makes life fun. Ill agree sex is fun and sometimes its ok to have fun. I just want something for once that wont hurt me? Is that too much to ask?

I wish you the best of luck in your search

How very sweet.

I'm not completely evil...only 99%