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if you feel you're being used it's only because you're allowing it, but you know that. start by having more respect for yourself, it will go a long way towards attracting someone who really cares about you.  Your right i am allowing it but i was in a state of mind of i didn't know i was allowing it i thought things were growing. Oh, things were growing alright...sorry couldn't resist  I really don't find that amusing in the least bit :( I do...if you put it together with the lady garden thing...its pretty funny  I'm sorry but I'm evil
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if you feel you're being used it's only because you're allowing it, but you know that. start by having more respect for yourself, it will go a long way towards attracting someone who really cares about you. Your right i am allowing it but i was in a state of mind of i didn't know i was allowing it i thought things were growing. Oh, things were growing alright...sorry couldn't resist I really don't find that amusing in the least bit :( I do...if you put it together with the lady garden thing...its pretty funny I'm sorry but I'm evil If you cant be mature then just please don't reply to me |
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Oh...so I'm the immature on here...ok
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OK...when you ask for advice people will give you advice.
You can't control whether or not people use you or if they trick you....that is on them. You can control if you allow it to happen. If I wanted to sleep with every man in sight, then that is my choice and whatever people want to say is their opinion. I make my own choices and will face any consequences there are out there. But you are young....take it as a lesson in life and learn from it. You can't expect respect from people....it would be nice, but that's not how life works. You have to respect yourself first. If someone wants nothing to do with you because you won't have sex, then maybe they aren't worth being with for you |
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Oh...so I'm the immature on here...ok look i havent said anything immature and if thats what you are trying to call me then i really don't appreciate it. If you had a serious problem i would never think to make childish jokes about it. |
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OK...when you ask for advice people will give you advice. You can't control whether or not people use you or if they trick you....that is on them. You can control if you allow it to happen. If I wanted to sleep with every man in sight, then that is my choice and whatever people want to say is their opinion. I make my own choices and will face any consequences there are out there. But you are young....take it as a lesson in life and learn from it. You can't expect respect from people....it would be nice, but that's not how life works. You have to respect yourself first. If someone wants nothing to do with you because you won't have sex, then maybe they aren't worth being with for you |
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Oh...so I'm the immature on here...ok look i havent said anything immature and if thats what you are trying to call me then i really don't appreciate it. If you had a serious problem i would never think to make childish jokes about it. Your 18...this isn't a serious problem!!! A serious problem is cancer, diabetes, heart disease...how is this even serious??? 
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E you are getting progressively worse. If you ever get a date on this site. You better clean it up.
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Oh...so I'm the immature on here...ok look i havent said anything immature and if thats what you are trying to call me then i really don't appreciate it. If you had a serious problem i would never think to make childish jokes about it. Your 18...this isn't a serious problem!!! A serious problem is cancer, diabetes, heart disease...how is this even serious??? Of course deadly diseases are serious problems did i say they weren't? They are way more serious than my prblem without a doubt but i came in here to adress a problem of mine that i feel is serious to me and if you could care two ***** about my problem then DONT REPLY. Its that simple i can take harsh advise but the line stops when im being called names and joked with about it. So quit over exaggerating the topic. |
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Dont guys think that maybe just maybe a girl isnt a slut just because they ****ing gave in on having sex because they feel like they are attracted to the person and they want to show it? Im just tired of feeling alone Everytime this happens to me it makes me resent guys or want to change every quality possible you saw in that guy to look for in another guy its painful to go through that and some guys may call girls a slut for even saying this but i bet anything that if an attractive girl walked in to your house and jumped on top of you and said "lets go" you would be led by the nose am i right? of course i am. Some girls like myself like sex????? just maybe. and thats how they show you they are connecting with you if thats not what you want then say NO for **** SAKE dont just let it happen then fake the mutual feeling and let the girl get hurt because she was only trying to like you or connect with you or give you something special like that sex to me is almost a joke now and i like sex very very much im learning to be a cold heartless ***** because of dick heads like this i dont know what to do anymore :(  who's your friend in the photo with you
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hey! i have diabetes, its not a serious problem until my limbs fall off
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Dont guys think that maybe just maybe a girl isnt a slut just because they ****ing gave in on having sex because they feel like they are attracted to the person and they want to show it? Im just tired of feeling alone Everytime this happens to me it makes me resent guys or want to change every quality possible you saw in that guy to look for in another guy its painful to go through that and some guys may call girls a slut for even saying this but i bet anything that if an attractive girl walked in to your house and jumped on top of you and said "lets go" you would be led by the nose am i right? of course i am. Some girls like myself like sex????? just maybe. and thats how they show you they are connecting with you if thats not what you want then say NO for **** SAKE dont just let it happen then fake the mutual feeling and let the girl get hurt because she was only trying to like you or connect with you or give you something special like that sex to me is almost a joke now and i like sex very very much im learning to be a cold heartless ***** because of dick heads like this i dont know what to do anymore :( who's your friend in the photo with you thats my friend wendy :) but i beleive she is no longer single. |
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Like I said to another mingler you are hanging out with the wrong crowd. A slut is a woman who sells herself for money. Just cause you want to get your groove doesn't mean squat. Men power trip and after they boink you once they treat you like property. I have had relationships in the past that were purely sexual. Some of us would be honored to have the opportunity to tune your engine and not judge you afterwords unless you did something stupid like get drunk and barf in my bed.
Again you are choosing the wrong guys evidently. I have cut across my share of totally Fuqued up women even recently. Don't let a bad experience kill it for you. Even I am having my doubts about sex but then again it isn't me. I just likewise seem to attract head jobs and I am not happy with that. I am far too nice and damn it I don't want to have to become an Azzhole just because of a few messed up women. I likewise REFUSE to turn gay!  That was never my thing and I am not so self indulgent that I give sex such a high priority in my life. I just like sex way too much but like anything it has to be kept in balance with the rest of my life. At least here on mingle you get a chance to get to know someone a little. Look, were all people and all of us have some kind of issue or another. You let past bad experience color your new relationships with other men and you will never find happiness or self fulfillment at all. |
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E you are getting progressively worse. If you ever get a date on this site. You better clean it up. What can I say...I'm not a nice guy...Not here for such things anyhow 
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Like I said to another mingler you are hanging out with the wrong crowd. A slut is a woman who sells herself for money. Just cause you want to get your groove doesn't mean squat. Men power trip and after they boink you once they treat you like property. I have had relationships in the past that were purely sexual. Some of us would be honored to have the opportunity to tune your engine and not judge you afterwords unless you did something stupid like get drunk and barf in my bed. Again you are choosing the wrong guys evidently. I have cut across my share of totally Fuqued up women even recently. Don't let a bad experience kill it for you. Even I am having my doubts about sex but then again it isn't me. I just likewise seem to attract head jobs and I am not happy with that. I am far too nice and damn it I don't want to have to become an Azzhole just because of a few messed up women. I likewise REFUSE to turn gay! That was never my thing and I am not so self indulgent that I give sex such a high priority in my life. I just like sex way too much but like anything it has to be kept in balance with the rest of my life. At least here on mingle you get a chance to get to know someone a little. Look, were all people and all of us have some kind of issue or another. You let past bad experience color your new relationships with other men and you will never find happiness or self fulfillment at all. I know i did I try to find different ways to let the experiences go instead of using that as an excuse but it happens i just wish i knew a better way to deal with it |
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Dont guys think that maybe just maybe a girl isnt a slut just because they ****ing gave in on having sex because they feel like they are attracted to the person and they want to show it? Im just tired of feeling alone Everytime this happens to me it makes me resent guys or want to change every quality possible you saw in that guy to look for in another guy its painful to go through that and some guys may call girls a slut for even saying this but i bet anything that if an attractive girl walked in to your house and jumped on top of you and said "lets go" you would be led by the nose am i right? of course i am. Some girls like myself like sex????? just maybe. and thats how they show you they are connecting with you if thats not what you want then say NO for **** SAKE dont just let it happen then fake the mutual feeling and let the girl get hurt because she was only trying to like you or connect with you or give you something special like that sex to me is almost a joke now and i like sex very very much im learning to be a cold heartless ***** because of dick heads like this i dont know what to do anymore :( Well, a lot of people are extremely opportunistic, self-absorbed, and manipulative. All I can say is really, really get to know someone before you get too involved. If I had done that the last 94 times, I wouldn't be in the mess I'm in now....! 
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Dont guys think that maybe just maybe a girl isnt a slut just because they ****ing gave in on having sex because they feel like they are attracted to the person and they want to show it? Im just tired of feeling alone Everytime this happens to me it makes me resent guys or want to change every quality possible you saw in that guy to look for in another guy its painful to go through that and some guys may call girls a slut for even saying this but i bet anything that if an attractive girl walked in to your house and jumped on top of you and said "lets go" you would be led by the nose am i right? of course i am. Some girls like myself like sex????? just maybe. and thats how they show you they are connecting with you if thats not what you want then say NO for **** SAKE dont just let it happen then fake the mutual feeling and let the girl get hurt because she was only trying to like you or connect with you or give you something special like that sex to me is almost a joke now and i like sex very very much im learning to be a cold heartless ***** because of dick heads like this i dont know what to do anymore :( Well, a lot of people are extremely opportunistic, self-absorbed, and manipulative. All I can say is really, really get to know someone before you get too involved. If I had done that the last 94 times, I wouldn't be in the mess I'm in now....! Thank you :) I know i should get to know them more thats a big problem with me I don't spend enough time to get to know them |
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The truth is, until you have respect for yourself no one will have respect for you. Work on your self respect and you will meet a better class of people.
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The truth is, until you have respect for yourself no one will have respect for you. Work on your self respect and you will meet a better class of people. |
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Dont guys think that maybe just maybe a girl isnt a slut just because they ****ing gave in on having sex because they feel like they are attracted to the person and they want to show it? Im just tired of feeling alone Everytime this happens to me it makes me resent guys or want to change every quality possible you saw in that guy to look for in another guy its painful to go through that and some guys may call girls a slut for even saying this but i bet anything that if an attractive girl walked in to your house and jumped on top of you and said "lets go" you would be led by the nose am i right? of course i am. Some girls like myself like sex????? just maybe. and thats how they show you they are connecting with you if thats not what you want then say NO for **** SAKE dont just let it happen then fake the mutual feeling and let the girl get hurt because she was only trying to like you or connect with you or give you something special like that sex to me is almost a joke now and i like sex very very much im learning to be a cold heartless ***** because of dick heads like this i dont know what to do anymore :( Well, a lot of people are extremely opportunistic, self-absorbed, and manipulative. All I can say is really, really get to know someone before you get too involved. If I had done that the last 94 times, I wouldn't be in the mess I'm in now....! Thank you :) I know i should get to know them more thats a big problem with me I don't spend enough time to get to know them It's hard when you get all caught up in that initial rush of feeling so great when you first meet someone you really like. But what I've found is that you can't always (for me, it's more like NEVER!) trust judgments made based on nothing more than first impressions and maybe some basic desires.... I spent most of my life getting involved with all sorts of people who I KNEW (at least on some sort of intellectual level) were no good for me, but I ignored the knowledge and the red flags because it was FUN and because I LIKED being with someone. For awhile. I learned the hard way what works for me and what doesn't. And I won't rush into anything again. And I've developed some standards, some deal-breakers, some personal rules for what I want, and, maybe more importantly, what I DON'T want in a relationship. And that has made it extremely difficult for me to find anyone suitable. But I'd rather be alone than be in another relationship with someone who made me WISH I was alone. |
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