Topic: please be truthful
marcymarc27's photo
Wed 04/21/10 09:15 PM
thank u for that yes i am working on my spelling and i really didn't think my profile is why i am not getting any ladies to hit me up i was trying to be truthful and i like it when u called me doll it sounded sweet of u

marcymarc27's photo
Wed 04/21/10 09:17 PM

Hi doll,
I just checked out your profile....
First, you have to spell everything right! I will automatically look over someone if they are terrible spellers. ESPECIALLY if it is in your header!!

you shouldn't divulge that you aren't working. no one knows why you get a disability check. Is it because you are too sick (and thus wouldn't do well in a relationship) or is it because of mental illness (and not good dating material...). Well, you see what I mean. Basically you have to bring out the best in yourself. Don't say that you've been there for 3 years and don't have friends.... that sounds desperate.

you want to sell yourself. what do you do well? what makes you a good person?

find your confidence, and when you do, the girls will come knocking!
my disability is that i was born with visiion problems

kc0003's photo
Wed 04/21/10 09:53 PM

in fact u look pretty hot for being 51


(tell me you didn't really type this)

this could be part of the problem right here...

marcymarc27's photo
Wed 04/21/10 09:59 PM
i was being nice to the lay

kc0003's photo
Wed 04/21/10 10:13 PM
I get what you were trying to do, but I think if you left out the "for being 51" part the statement might have been a bit more nice, if not more tactful.

just my opinion, nothing more...

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 04/22/10 01:20 AM

Hi doll,
I just checked out your profile....
First, you have to spell everything right! I will automatically look over someone if they are terrible spellers. ESPECIALLY if it is in your header!!

you shouldn't divulge that you aren't working. no one knows why you get a disability check. Is it because you are too sick (and thus wouldn't do well in a relationship) or is it because of mental illness (and not good dating material...). Well, you see what I mean. Basically you have to bring out the best in yourself. Don't say that you've been there for 3 years and don't have friends.... that sounds desperate.

you want to sell yourself. what do you do well? what makes you a good person?

find your confidence, and when you do, the girls will come knocking!


*Cough*Grammar.*/Cough*

Anyway, I think the working part is actually good...I mean, would you date someone that pretended they were working. Selling yourself is good and all but don't try and sell yourself by not divulging some otherwise pretty important information such as occupation or what you do for finances. Maybe that isn't the best, but sorry, your knight in shining armor probably doesn't exist either.:wink:

Tessa02's photo
Thu 04/22/10 03:43 AM
Do you or have you ever worn contact lenses? I like the pic so much better in your profile without the glasses makes you look cuter!!! Definately not picking on you trust me!! I'm blind as a bat without contacts or glasses!!!! I wear contacts myself!!

Duffy's photo
Thu 04/22/10 10:45 AM
um "because of mental illness, and (not good dating material)?" i would definitely strike that information from your brain.

nobody's business if u have mental illness or psychiatric disorder. civil rights issue here.

it's okay to post u r jack the ripper, but don't state anything about your disabilities for your own protection. there are people that pray on disabled people.
bigsmile

Tessa02's photo
Thu 04/22/10 10:58 AM

um "because of mental illness, and (not good dating material)?" i would definitely strike that information from your brain.

nobody's business if u have mental illness or psychiatric disorder. civil rights issue here.

it's okay to post u r jack the ripper, but don't state anything about your disabilities for your own protection. there are people that pray on disabled people.
bigsmile


I didn't see that. Yeah, it's not something I'd let everyone know. An individual basis if you found someone you're interested in would be different.

marcymarc27's photo
Thu 04/22/10 12:59 PM

Do you or have you ever worn contact lenses? I like the pic so much better in your profile without the glasses makes you look cuter!!! Definately not picking on you trust me!! I'm blind as a bat without contacts or glasses!!!! I wear contacts myself!!
well yes i had contacts in when i took that pic buy i don't have the money right now to get new ones buthope soon i do because i hate my glasses too

Tessa02's photo
Thu 04/22/10 02:53 PM


Do you or have you ever worn contact lenses? I like the pic so much better in your profile without the glasses makes you look cuter!!! Definately not picking on you trust me!! I'm blind as a bat without contacts or glasses!!!! I wear contacts myself!!
well yes i had contacts in when i took that pic buy i don't have the money right now to get new ones buthope soon i do because i hate my glasses too


I know exactly what you mean!! I've got a prescription for new ones & haven't had the money either!!! You look like a sweetheart!!:wink: Here I go hitting on the younger guys now!!rofl

marcymarc27's photo
Thu 04/22/10 03:00 PM
well thank you i kinda like older woman but sorry not your age lol

no photo
Thu 04/22/10 08:18 PM
Beauty is relative, asking a group of people whether or not they find you attractive is only going to get you a wide variety of answers- and possibly a lot of strange looks. I find it annoying if a man asks if I find him attractive, I mean so what? Are we dating? If yes, then apparently I do find him attractive. Are we just friends? If yes, then it doesn't matter what my guy friends look like, so I don't answer.

I never answer that question, I think it's silly. Take the advice of the other posters here and work on the things about yourself and your presentation that you can change- confidence, spelling, etc, and leave the "Am I hot or not?" question to the quiz sites. Best of luck to you.

Cinderella75's photo
Fri 04/30/10 08:55 PM

please be truthful how do u think i look am i cutie hot ugly or sexy



"you can't handle the truth!"



















you are a sexy beast! ;)

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 04/30/10 09:26 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Fri 04/30/10 09:29 PM
You're cute... Welcome and good luck.. Keep a positive attitude and you'll have a lot of fun...

Tessa02's photo
Fri 04/30/10 09:40 PM

well thank you i kinda like older woman but sorry not your age lol


Hmmph!!! I could teach you things you never even dreamed about!! grumble laugh :wink:

markecephus's photo
Fri 04/30/10 10:14 PM

Hey guys,
I have removed a couple of posts here. Let's please keep the insulting remarks off of the boards.

Thanks,
Mark

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 04/30/10 10:34 PM
. << This is a 'period' =) One uses it to separate thoughts called sentences.

Seriously. I am not trying to be a smartass. BUT they are used for a reason babe.

No one can hold that much thought without needing a break. That's what periods are for. When you share a thought, finish it with a period. Then use a capital letter to start a new thought.

I think most girls on here would agree it's a very attractive character trait if you use proper grammar.

Other than that you seem like a really nice guy, and nice looking. But if something is glaring, like poor grammar, you miss the actual person for who they are .. and instead focus on the 8 or 9 line run-on sentence flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 05/01/10 07:15 AM

i was being nice to the lay


hey!!

Don't worry about it!!!

I do look damn good~~~~~for 51!!

No offense takin at all!!!!:heart:

Lpdon's photo
Sat 05/01/10 10:04 AM


well thank you i kinda like older woman but sorry not your age lol


Hmmph!!! I could teach you things you never even dreamed about!! grumble laugh :wink:


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